Thou must needs return to mine domicile in the Waking Sands.
As a healer I've never been the type to expect bigger pulls. I sometimes get tanks that pull small then I guess after some observation they pull big, or they ask before pulling big, pull big in the beginning without asking at all, or they just one mob at a time pull the whole way. I'm honestly fine with any style though I would prefer the tank to let me know at the start if they do big pulls so I know how to approach things.
I do ever so often get dps who run ahead and pull a mob to the tank who is one mob at a time tanking. I hate this because it makes the tank work harder than maybe they're used to or want to. I would never encourage a tank to do bigger pulls because I know a lot of them find it stressful.
DPS accidents do exist for what it's worth. Dancer's dance AoE is larger than it looks, and I've tab-targetted as Bard and shot things way off in the distance by mistake more than I care to count, lol. Buuuut some people are going to be passive-aggressive assholes and backseat tank, which is when the Shirk comes out. The tank sets the pace, and if you want them to go faster or slower, just speak up and ask them in a nice manner.
I'll usually just pull doubles by default unless someone says something.
Any female dancer glamour recommendations? I've been using the Thavnairian set but I see more and more people using that.
Part of the problem with DNC is that none of the Aiming sets really scream "Dancer!", and there's like 20 levels before you can get your AF. Thus most people default to the Thavnairian Bustier.
I think the
Brightlinen set looks nice. It's a recolor of the old
Star Velvet Himation set.