edit #2: no I'm not hung up on it, yes I know I have some faults but this thread wasn't a who's at fault type deal but more so of a reason why one would say that. Ultimate answer is: he's probably been ghosted on too many times and thought I was next.
Okay, this dude gave me really weird vibes.
LSS, I was on Hinge, matched with this guy, & I say we hit it off pretty well. He asked me what I like better, ramen or burrito? I pick ramen & he suggested we'd get ramen. He picks a spot for the upcoming Thursday, this whole convo happens on a Saturday and after the date was planned, all he said was "See you Thursday."
alright, whatever. We don't talk for the next 3-4 days. Coincidentally, I caught a cold and got sick, couldn't go to work for 2-3 days, and I hit him up morning of the date for a rain check & explained I was sick.
dude tells me "well, actually I'm not the type of guy to reschedule after a girl cancels on me the first time around. So good luck!"
????? does anyone actually do that besides him and if so, can you give a reason why? It was a legit excuse that I was sick 🧐
edit: since I have to keep clarifying, I didn't offer an alternative because I don't have a mon - fri job where I have a consistent work schedule. New schedule comes out every Friday, as noted, date was on a Thursday. I can't plan something in advance when I don't know if I work that day. And either way I'm not mad or anything. I consider it a bullet dodged since a lot of people have no issue with rescheduling. Behavior was just odd to me🤷🏻♀️
Okay, this dude gave me really weird vibes.
LSS, I was on Hinge, matched with this guy, & I say we hit it off pretty well. He asked me what I like better, ramen or burrito? I pick ramen & he suggested we'd get ramen. He picks a spot for the upcoming Thursday, this whole convo happens on a Saturday and after the date was planned, all he said was "See you Thursday."
alright, whatever. We don't talk for the next 3-4 days. Coincidentally, I caught a cold and got sick, couldn't go to work for 2-3 days, and I hit him up morning of the date for a rain check & explained I was sick.
dude tells me "well, actually I'm not the type of guy to reschedule after a girl cancels on me the first time around. So good luck!"
????? does anyone actually do that besides him and if so, can you give a reason why? It was a legit excuse that I was sick 🧐
edit: since I have to keep clarifying, I didn't offer an alternative because I don't have a mon - fri job where I have a consistent work schedule. New schedule comes out every Friday, as noted, date was on a Thursday. I can't plan something in advance when I don't know if I work that day. And either way I'm not mad or anything. I consider it a bullet dodged since a lot of people have no issue with rescheduling. Behavior was just odd to me🤷🏻♀️
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