Isn't that how it generally works?It's 2019 and people still haven't thought about their privilege until it affects them directly. The world is wild.
Isn't that how it generally works?It's 2019 and people still haven't thought about their privilege until it affects them directly. The world is wild.
Pretty much
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Sure. I just naively assume that the cultural conversations taking place over the past 3-4 years could have done it, too. Especially when those conversations are rampant in your particular industry. Claiming insulation from those conversations for the past few years is certainly a big amount of privilege, to the point that one might conflate that with willful ignorance.
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Check the thread, if you're in browser, it will be on the top right of the post with the other options.
Nice to see a follow up response. Step in the right direction. I will say Andrea Rene is looking pretty shitty at the moment.
It's 2019 and people still haven't thought about their privilege until it affects them directly. The world is wild.
Check the thread, if you're in browser, it will be on the top right of the post with the other options.
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
It's 2019 and people still haven't thought about their privilege until it affects them directly. The world is wild.
The nature of privilege means you can still be insulated by it, even when you know that it exists. Just because you're aware of privilege doesn't mean that you're going to identify cases where you benefit from it as they come up.Sure. I just naively assume that the cultural conversations taking place over the past 3-4 years could have done it, too. Especially when those conversations are rampant in your particular industry. Claiming insulation from those conversations for the past few years is certainly a big amount of privilege, to the point that one might conflate that with willful ignorance.
Thanks for acknowledging this. Privilege is very hard to see by yourself, and it's easy to have a fragile response to it. Good on you for not doing so.Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
There was a time where I probably had 20 on the docket every day, now I have Pod Save America and Tell em Steve Dave lol
This whole thing is dumb, why even talk about it at all if you don't have all the information or even care to learn why people don't like PDP and Notch.
Honestly. I skimmed this thread, listened to the Games Daily episode in question, and just don't see where this outrage is coming from.
I listened closely and didn't hear anything unreasonable on their part.
There mostly ain't an outrage, admittedly few posters might be a bit. But the criticism towards the discussion they had is because they talked about people whose words and actions cause hurt and harm to other people (minorities). But as they seemingly weren't properly prepared to talk about it, the discussion came of as dismissive/downplaying. Especially on Andrea's part, not so much on Greg's. But it was really disappointing that Greg didn't challenge his co-host about it. More specifically Andrea saying things like "Pewdiepie getting crucified" and talking about "lynchmobs" against him. Pewdiepie is hardly crucified, seems to be doing rather well still and the criticism towards him is well deserved. And people who call out the shit Pewdiepie says/does, aren't a lynch mob by any means but rational people who see the harm in how he behaves, or they are people who he is actually hurting. Notch hasn't been "taken out of context". What goes on with PDP and Notch aren't mistakes, but recurring issues and fully intentional. I guess that N-word was a slip up in the stream, but that doesn't really make it any better. There just is no empathizing with either of them or defending them, for what they've said and done. There's no giving them another chances or the benefit of a doubt. Because it's not about one little fuck up or a mistake. And if people think that maybe PDP and Notch can learn and change, well then they need to be called out on their behaviour too. How else could they learn. So why call it as crucifying and a lynch mob, it's saying that people condemning them are being unreasonable.Honestly. I skimmed this thread, listened to the Games Daily episode in question, and just don't see where this outrage is coming from.
I listened closely and didn't hear anything unreasonable on their part.
Exactly. For example, as a man, I would not fathomed that women may be afraid to get gas late at night by themselves because they are harassed by men until I saw a twitter account write about it.That's how privilege works, almost by definition: advantages you don't even need to think about for them to affect you. It will be that way until privilege itself stops being a thing or the heat death of the universe, whichever comes first (smart money is on the latter). That's why pointing out privilege will always be necessary.
I don't think Miller was the problem here, although some of the criticism is fair. It's good to see that he has the integrity to face it, listen and try to learn from it. That's really all you want from a situation like this.
Thanks for the update and coming back and responding. I had more of an issue with what Andrea said than you said but I know you can't speak for her. Anyway, I really appreciate that you seem to really engaged on this and how to make things better.
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Post countHonestly. I skimmed this thread, listened to the Games Daily episode in question, and just don't see where this outrage is coming from.
I listened closely and didn't hear anything unreasonable on their part.
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Does he not own (at least in part) the platform? It is absolutely up to Greg Miller to dictate the tone and best practices of his employees. This isn't public access or an open mic night. Greg is ultimately responsible for whatever gets put out there under the 'Kinda Funny' name.
I totally get that this is not a political outlet, but they did a politically charged segment. She knew it was coming. She could have done the research. If I had a meeting with a customer coming up and it was about a topic I wasn't 100% clear on, I would do research ahead of time, because if I don't it reflects poorly on me, my boss, and the company I work for.
I also think that hearing literally nothing from the person who actually did handwave a bunch of racism and transphobia reflects pretty poorly on the leadership at Kinda Funny. That's just my $0.02. Good on Greg for showing up though.
I'm completely unfamiliar with your work, but I gotta be honest; this post is extremely professional, introspective, respectful, and impressive. You might end up being the first gaming "personality" that I've taken an interest in supporting since Sessler; I hope you recognize that as high praise because that's certainly how I mean it. Great job and great response.Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Oh dear. That's DEFINITELY not what I mean (which it sounds like you know). I guess it's the trouble with speaking to my small audience and having them "know" me so well. Do you have suggestions on how I could craft the same message for a wider audience?Look man, "be better to each other" sounds an awful lot like placing the blame on "both sides". I know that's not what you mean, but just be aware how hollow that phrase rings for people who are recipients of abuse due to their gender, skin color and/or sexuality.
This is a better post for sure, thanks taking the time.Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Thank you for this, man. I really mean it.Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Hey, everyone--
Sorry for not making it back yesterday. This is the first time I've sat at a computer since posting Tuesday night.
Someone pointed out above that the discussion is anchored to Era, so I could probably just leave and never come back. That's not my way. All I have is my authenticity. I don't mind talking and learning.
Thank you for continuing the conversation here. There are a lot of posts here that really help me out, and I think shine a light on what went wrong Monday because, believe it or not, we agree: fuck bigots and racists.
Where we got off track Monday on the show comes down to "privilege." Many of you have echoed the same thought on here that's basically "How the fuck can Greg NOT know all this shit about PDP/Notch." The answer is pretty simple: when you say dumb shit on the Internet and you're just on the peripheral of my world (another influencer/some retired dev), I go "Well, you're dumb" and ignore you.
That's privilege.
I haven't had to fight for my rights, my identity, or my life. I identify my job as keeping Kinda Funny going, critiquing games, and keeping up with gaming news when it comes to titles/developers/etc. As such, it's easy to not click on Julia Alexander's headlines about YouTube personalities fucking up and keep looking for info on Game Pass.
That's privilege, and frankly, it's not one I've had to think about until this week.
If you watch Kinda Funny, you know that I preach "be better to each other," but beyond my one on one interactions, I'm still trying to figure out what that means. 2018 saw me acknowledge that I have a platform and that I need to be better about using it. I brought on smaller creators and tried to highlight minority voices.
To me, everything we're talking about is another aspect of that, and it's one that I need to learn. Monday saw me try to get a handle on two stories that intersected with *my* gaming world and the world I've seen headlines about but haven't focused on. That's not OK. My responsibilities are greater than that.
I gotta go record the Gamescast, but after that, I'll pop back in to respond to some more comments.
Greg
Oh dear. That's DEFINITELY not what I mean (which it sounds like you know). I guess it's the trouble with speaking to my small audience and having them "know" me so well. Do you have suggestions on how I could craft the same message for a wider audience?
Greg,
I want to make sure you understand where this is coming from. I'm about to make an extremely radical comparison and I don't want you to think this is how I think of you, it's not, but I think it may help in giving you a glimpse into the kinds of perspectives you don't have access to in your day-to-day life.
I'm Jewish (and Latino!), and have a lot of Jewish-presenting features. Last year, when the shooting happened in Pittsburgh, I was deeply frightened because I saw the anti-semitism that I see online (and that has been perpetrated against me in my own life) playing out in the worst way possible. People died for being and looking like me. People were killed because they have names that sound like mine.
After the shooting, the President and his administration regarded the victims as "innocent people." rather than Jews, specifically. This is anti-Semitic because it's an attempt to erase Jewish-ness in favor of a dishonest unity. If Jewish-ness is successfully disregarded in attacks, then the motivation for the attacks disappears and, more importantly, so does the responsibility. If I claim that Trump's history of deliberately undermining the safety of minority groups, including Jews, and his nods to the alt-right directly led to a Jewish massacre in Pittsburgh, that claim can be refuted by urging that it wasn't Jews that were attacked, but instead, "innocent people." People can also say that the president had nothing to do with it because he presented the public with a distress for "innocent people."
When you say "be better to each other," there's an equal amount of responsibility placed on everyone. There's no consolation for those of us whose lives are on the line. There's no attempt to condemn somebody out of the need to protect somebody else.
We're talking about Notch and PDP here. PDP was mentioned by a mass shooter not to long ago. When you give them the same message you are giving me, that's not being fair in trying to spread positivity, that's choosing a side. When you joke around with Boogie after he claimed that some good came out of the holocaust, you are choosing a side.
There isn't a catch-all phrase for being an ally. Being an ally means using your voice, so that people like me aren't the only ones condemning the people complicit in perpetuating the rhetoric that is killing us. Being an ally means holding those that commit to acts of hatred and bigotry responsible. Being an ally means committing the time to understanding issues completely and complexly so that you can pick the side of the oppressed and condemn the oppressor. Being an ally means pointing to voices of different perspectives and using your platform to promote them, their ideas, their voices.
Hold people responsible. Say their names. Prove to people like me that you don't mind ruffling a white supremacist's feathers if it means standing up for us.
Thank you for engaging with us.
Thank you for seeking out answers to your questions and trying to be better.
Oh dear. That's DEFINITELY not what I mean (which it sounds like you know). I guess it's the trouble with speaking to my small audience and having them "know" me so well. Do you have suggestions on how I could craft the same message for a wider audience?
He literally said just that in his first response two days ago in this very thread. But it wasn't enough for some of you.
Some of you just will never be satisfied and will continue to sharpen your blades regardless aren't you? I know Boogie is a spineless scumbag but regarding this thread, Greg Miller and KFG what does him have to do with this? Why does Greg needs to come and say "Fuck Boogie" too for you to be satisfied? The answer is he doesn't, you're just moving the goalposts to impossible latitudes that you know not even the best kicker could make it.Boom. Good post.
"Fuck bigots and racists" is a nice sentiment, but means very little in this specific instance.
How about "Fuck Notch, Fuck PewDiePie, and yeah, Fuck Boogie".
Some of you just will never be satisfied and will continue to sharpen your blades regardless aren't you? I know Boogie is a spineless scumbag but regarding this thread, Greg Miller and KFG what does him have to do with this? Why does Greg needs to come and say "Fuck Boogie" too for you to be satisfied? The answer is he doesn't, you're just moving the goalposts to impossible latitudes that you know not even the best kicker could make it.
Some of you just will never be satisfied and will continue to sharpen your blades regardless aren't you? I know Boogie is a spineless scumbag but regarding this thread, Greg Miller and KFG what does him have to do with this? Why does Greg needs to come and say "Fuck Boogie" too for you to be satisfied? The answer is he doesn't, you're just moving the goalposts to impossible latitudes that you know not even the best kicker could make it.
To be honest I'm more surprised someone didn't throw in an expectation Greg says "Fuck Trump".
A minority in this thread have been a bit hyperbolic and a little unreasonable to somehow deem Greg to be the vehicle for all their rage at everyone else.
His second reply showed he did some reading and I think it's a very reasonable and thought out response. If some of you are still going at him after a second sincere apology, then that is even when I say Greg has a genuine reason to wall away from you.
He could've come out and say "fuck the Republican Party" and there'd be people here complaining why he didn't openly campaign for Hillary in 2016, I swear.To be honest I'm more surprised someone didn't throw in an expectation Greg says "Fuck Trump".
A minority in this thread have been a bit hyperbolic and a little unreasonable to somehow deem Greg to be the vehicle for all their rage at everyone else.
His second reply showed he did some reading and I think it's a very reasonable and thought out response. If some of you are still going at him after a second sincere apology, then that is even when I say Greg has a genuine reason to walk away from you.
Go sharpen your knives and anger at someone else at that point.
Greg literally asked for advice and how to improve. People are responding to that with very well constructed posts. What blades are you referring to?