So Era, my fiance and I have been engaged for some time now. And... Boy the cost of weddings are ridiculous. I mean, with what my family wants for a wedding it would cost close to 10K, and it would be a backyard wedding! And that amount of money, for a single party is ridiculous for myself and my fiance. So, we have actually talked about eloping.
It turns out, there are a ton of elopement packages, and it turns out we can get married, and have a week long honeymoon for around 5,000. And boy that sounds so nice. No pressures, no weird things family(family relationships are tense across the board), and no huge financial strain that will put us in debt. Plus, a year later, when the wedding date is "planned", we can just throw an amazing party for 1/5 the cost. We will get to throw a party for our loved ones.
A lot of people say though, that eloping is "selfish" or it negates family. Or all that sort of stuff. So I wanted to hear your opinions on the subject, or if you had anything to add. What are your experiences with marriage, or eloping, or all that stuff?
It turns out, there are a ton of elopement packages, and it turns out we can get married, and have a week long honeymoon for around 5,000. And boy that sounds so nice. No pressures, no weird things family(family relationships are tense across the board), and no huge financial strain that will put us in debt. Plus, a year later, when the wedding date is "planned", we can just throw an amazing party for 1/5 the cost. We will get to throw a party for our loved ones.
A lot of people say though, that eloping is "selfish" or it negates family. Or all that sort of stuff. So I wanted to hear your opinions on the subject, or if you had anything to add. What are your experiences with marriage, or eloping, or all that stuff?