I think the site has the right stance. I don't generally like to see games banned and discussion pushed offsite, but in this case I think it's probably the right call
If people desperately want to play it, they can always get it used if they don't want to give JK money, I don't think most people have an issue with this approach
If you are planning to buy the game, then fine, but just consider that you don't need to announce that to everyone on Era. Doing so isn't really helpful and comes off as dismissive of the issues surrounding the game. No one is stopping you from getting the game and playing the game if you want, but it's worth taking the time to understand the issues around the game, and taking some time to educate yourself on why the things JK is saying are inaccurate at best, and harmful at worst
Ultimately buying the game and giving JK money isn't going to enhance her platform in any meaningful way, in the same way that if this game bombs it won't reduce her platform in any meaningful way, so do whatever you want, but don't get in the way of those who are doing all they can to fight against her harmful narrative.
Yeah maybe the game will be good, maybe it's your dream game, cool, good for you, but right now that's not what is important, and by framing the discussion in those terms you are by default side stepping what is important, and that's why the site has the right stance in this case