So good news, I redid my floor plan and it's AWESOME; every room is "impactful" and roomy. Like I originally wanted, every room (except the bathroom) is also a sort of living room. Really helps to break the routine, and allows the living spaces to not be taxed by someone or the kids at the expense of other people. I joined the kitchen and the dining room by extending the kitchen counter into it, which is such a no brainer I should have thought about it from the start (and so should the architects, it changes everything!). Now the old chimney will be visible from all sides, nothing hiding it, and they should do something design-y for the range hood and its duct passing through it and out of the house on the other side, making it a sort of stand out piece like I saw in many references. Plus I made some storage counter-height but counter-depth instead of barely a foot deep but reaching the ceiling like they had done (and they could never really tell me what it would be used for), which is what allows me to make it all continuous with the kitchen and all of sudden I don't feel like I'm lacking any space at all: no more 18" dishwasher, no more 15cu fridge! 20cu, 24", and wine cooler will go from 12 bottles to 27 and I still got plenty of rooms for appliance storage and food storage. And all that without having ANY storage above the counters, only tablets which will be used to showcase nice stuff, a mix of practical and art, and some hanging copper pans on the walls and such.
The bedroom and office are now one room on the sunny side, which is ideal since I'll be increasingly working from home in the future, and the former bedroom (on the architect's plan) is made bigger by moving the bathroom a bit further right (we're already moving the bathroom from where it used to be, so it should be a non-issue) and becomes the living room. I'm going to go for a tankless water-heater too, so I save some closet space in the hall's closet.
Everything flows great, and I could easily turn the living room into a second bedroom if I wanted; the space for a closet is already there. If I did that, I would move the TV to the dining room above the counter where art will be for now, since it's a big room and already sort of feels like a living room.
If anyone of you ever have to redesign/layout a house and you have little space or want to save space, my advice is try to design the dining room as a living room-dining room combo. It is totally doable and makes perfect sense, especially if you make some L-shaped restaurant bench-like seating place which can serve as the equivalent of a living room's sectional. We spend a lot of time in the kitchen and dining area and if you make it comfy it totally works, and it's often a well lit area of the house. But do be mindful that you will have to deal with kitchen noise. If you want a secluded space then of course it doesn't work, but when I was looking to buy a house the number of houses that had non-functional living rooms with no place for a TV or no TV at all was the majority: people are unable to use their living rooms, they're just there to be there but are essentially never used. To be honest, having thought about this from the start, maybe I wouldn't even have made the extension! But I'm still glad I'm doing it because at the end of the day I wouldn't get the opportunity to add a room on this floor again.
I also secured the place in the living room that could eventually have a spiral staircase to a new floor, and that floor could hold a nice bathroom and two small rooms + an exterior spot. Adding the stairs would just make me lose a piece of furniture or two, if they aren't just moving above.
Now, I have to wait and see what the architects will say......
sod installed. Backyard finally done-ish
Nice view!
That is the single weakpoint that hits at me with the place I bought: I will never have a view on the sunset because of the damn three-story building next to mine, even though I can build on my roof my building is two story. I wonder if I could at least get access to the roof legally if I did build on top though... that would be killer. I gotta check with the municipality but they have been making it more difficult to build in general, idiots.