No one seems to be answering your second question so I'll give that a go.
Here are my, what I assume will be, unpopular opinions, but it's how I feel.
Came from Gaf. Don't post or lurk as much here as I did on Gaf. Honestly I find it to be more aggravating and rage inducing to browse Reset than it ever was at Gaf, and it's just not as enjoyable for some reason. I lived and breathed Gaf and was very excited about this new forum, but I can only lurk and engage here in very limited spurts before I've hit my limit.
I think part of it for me has been the moderation philosophy, which I think sounds good on paper, but not so much in practice. I feel like so many threads gets derailed right off the bat by troll attempts and people arguing in bad faith, but they remain a presence in the thread for so long before action is taken that the conversation can't be salvaged anymore. Obviously mods can only move as quick as they can, but so often I see that when the ban does come it's a 2-3 day thing. For better or worse, I feel like bans somehow came quicker and were more severe on GAF, and that helped keep things in line, especially with such a massive community.
But there obviously ain't no going back to Gaf, so I browse and participate here occasionally and that works for me.