Ohhhh okay then nevermind. That's definitely not in my league so, I guess good luck OP.
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How do I aproach my partner to suggest... a threesome?
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Ohhhh okay then nevermind. That's definitely not in my league so, I guess good luck OP.
Communication is everything, or you may destroy your relationship. Asking for a threesome well into an established monogamous relationship can be tough. Don't fuck it up and make sure you're both communicating your honest feelings and needs.
This is something that should have been talked about at the start of the relationship tho
This is something that should have been talked about at the start of the relationship tho
That's why we have nu Zelda and nu Link in Smash Ultimate lol.Doesn't end well for Link though.
What the fuck kind of relationships start off talking about being in open relationships.
Not a trick question, it was phrased as if all relationships should open with the talk if they're open or not.
Shouldn't they though? All relationships start when both people discuss the desire to be in one, or you know "define the relationship", "what are we?", etc. All of my relationships started with having that exclusivity talk so I always figured if you wanted an open relationship that would be the time to express it.
Maybe I've just been unlucky/lucky whichever way you want to look at it but all the relationships I've been in it's fairly obvious what's going on when you get into a relationship that it's the two of you and it doesn't need a talk to clarify the situation
All relationships really should.
They may not all be open in the beginning, but it's something that should be in the open if it's a thing one or both are interested in or expect. It's always a good thing to be on the same page in the beginnings of a relationship.
A Resetera threesome. Folks orgasming over asking each other for Nintendo Switch ports before finishing up over asking what a bidet is and how one properly cleanses ones asshole.
Good luck with advice OP.
Good luck with advice OP.
To each their own, you know? Life is short, I guess. Only get the one, can't really compare it to anything, but it seems we've agreed that it's short. So sometimes you do stuff.
But one time during the act the bed broke, I rolled into it, she went the other way and I narrowly avoided Pierogi Disease. Third party in there, who knows what happens? Too much strife for me.
Just ask and try not to tear anything.
But one time during the act the bed broke, I rolled into it, she went the other way and I narrowly avoided Pierogi Disease. Third party in there, who knows what happens? Too much strife for me.
Just ask and try not to tear anything.
Funny considering New Link came to Smash without his Zelda and is smashing with LttP Zelda instead.New Link DEFINITELY isn't taking any chances though lol.
Yeah, that's pretty lucky. I've only had monogamous relationships but I still couldn't imagine not ever having the talk. Many people date multiple people at once nowadays so it's even more necessary to define the relationship now than it's ever been.
Yeah, I haven't dated for 16 years lol so a little out of touch
It's important from the start to state that you want a serious relationship or not
If you dont have the confidence to ask your partner without first consulting a forum.....don't do it at all.
Nomura's signature is swapping into stories that have potential love triangles beloved by fans and neatly pairing off characters into closed off couples.
ie Cloud-Tifa-Aeris and Sora-Kairi-Riku are no longer triangles after Nomura has had his way.
In other worlds, sorry OP, Kingdom Hearts ain't gonna save you here.
Like others have already brought up OP is your partner known to be open to experimenting along these lines wrt their sexual history, have you already addressed similar desires or other things like open relationships etc. If not and they're historically the monogamous or vanilla across the board type this could blow up in your face big time so be careful. It also helps to actually stick around with the thread and engage with some of these clarifying questions if you're serious about pursuing this :)
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I... love this forum.
I just arrived from the movies (Creed 2 is cool yo), and then I tried to suggest it as a joke (I specifically mentioned a friend of his, which was not a good idea at all lmao) and he got passive aggressive about it, so I think that is a nope dawg.
RIP my threesome dream
I just arrived from the movies (Creed 2 is cool yo), and then I tried to suggest it as a joke (I specifically mentioned a friend of his, which was not a good idea at all lmao) and he got passive aggressive about it, so I think that is a nope dawg.
RIP my threesome dream
I mean if you wanna spice things up but your partner isn't that sexually adventurous maybe it's time to rethink if you two are actually compatible, or if somehow you can find another outlet for your ceaseless libido that doesn't harm her trust in you.
Don't. It often ends relationships.
Actually not saying no, but you should be aware of the pitfalls.
Actually not saying no, but you should be aware of the pitfalls.
Yeah it's not really something you can just suddenly bring up 3.5 years into an established monogamous relationship without running a huge risk. Obviously I hope everything works out just fine for you and I'm not trying to give dating advice to someone who is in a relationship, but as someone who is open about my non-monogamy with anyone I start to date, it's really the kind of thing that should come up in the dating phase. What I'm saying here is definitely not the case with every individual/partnership but just in my experience, it's better to make sure that it's not a red line before things get serious - especially if it's something you are even remotely entertaining at any point in your life.
Completely disagree. If you can't bring up something like this in a long term relationship then you should end it right now. People change, life gets real, shit happens. You need to be able to roll with things, compromise and move on together.
"I'm interested in a threesome. Are you?"
"I'm not really comfortable with the idea. But let's talk about it"
If that is a risk you are doing it wrong.
How do you make a joke?
How about we fuck your friend together? HAHAHA it was a joke! I fooled you.
Ha, 0 to 160 in half a second.
That was amazingly blunt as a first move.
I am gonna warning you that the majority of times, It ends up damaging the relationship.
Depends on the person, for some people it could feel like it's already cheating if the partner has a real interest/plans to fuck other people. Of course it's a risk.
Sometimes you just gotta go for it, you never know.
I personally would have involved alcohol into the mix though so if it did go horribly wrong can just blame it on that.
Should've mentioned a character from the movie or something oops
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Well when u say it like that...
Like, 5 minutes after the subject is dead he suddenly throws "ohhh why dont you invite Y? Then you can ask about your threesome"
I awkwardly laughed.
