I don't suppose you have links to publicly available stats? It would be great to have some resources to send to people.Your brain could consider the tracked rates of false accusations. From my time in HR, I learned a great many stats on the subject, and basically, it was hugely in favor of accusations being accurate and actionable, in the over-90% range. By the time victims actually speak up, the harassment or assault is so severe that it is provable.
I just don't know how you could look someone in the eye who was wrongfully accused and say to them "I'm okay with you suffering, and your life being completely destroyed, because the needs of the many outweigh your life." That sounds like a horrific world to live in.
If the alternative is 10 men, falsely accused, imprisoned and life destroyed, then yes that's completely and totally unacceptable.But your actions are its better to say this exact phrase to 1000 women who have been harassed or raped than to say it 10 men who have falsely accused. Fuck this and this stance.
What about them? Fight for their conviction if there's evidence that should put them away. Fight for reform in the system if there's evidence that should have put them away.
I just don't know how you could look someone in the eye who was wrongfully accused and say to them "I'm okay with you suffering, and your life being completely destroyed, because the needs of the many outweigh your life." That sounds like a horrific world to live in.
If the alternative is 10 men, falsely accused, imprisoned and life destroyed, then yes that's completely and totally unacceptable.
Fuck that, fuck that stance and fuck anyone who would take a "greater good" approach that would destroy more lives.
Which is why we should take all accusations (not just of rape) seriously, try to prove them in court, and provide both a social framework and social services to help those that have been hurt, especially for those who don't find legal justice in the system.I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you, but people often don't seem to look at the flip-side: Most rape accusations are true, but most won't go to court, let alone see a conviction. I think we can agree that most rapists will rape multiple times.
So here lies the problem: More rapists will go free than men(or women) falsely accused of rape. Many of those rapists will go on to ruin countless other lives. In essence, more lives are ruined overall by a rapist being free than by a false accusation. What about those lives? The lives of the raped basically have to just deal with this reality.
I want to point out, again, that the court of law should still operate on innocent until proven guilty. I also don't think that an accusation alone should ruin a person's life. But we can't ignore what the result of this is for victims. It sucks, and it benefits rapists.
Which is why we should take all accusations (not just of rape) seriously, try to prove them in court, and provide both a social framework and social services to help those that have been hurt, especially for those who don't find legal justice in the system.
Literally all you're saying is you care more about the lives of 10 hypothetical men than the lives of 1000 hypothetical women.
Which is pretty much the issue isn't it.And just like stats don't matter to a person falsely accused, this means little to those who are actually raped.
If it is acceptable to you, more power to you, but I think you're a shit person. You're free to think the same of me, I don't really care.
Even if the accused has a track record, sexual assault is a serious accusation and needs to be properly investigated. It's not that I don't believe the victim. However, I would like to see evidence/proof, gather more information, etc. And I think that's reasonable. If you have multiple women coming forward and accusing one man, I definitely lean towards the feeling that he's probably guilty, but I still think that each one of those accusations needs to be properly investigated. To be clear, I highly doubt it would be a mass conspiracy. Some people immediately jump on the hate bandwagon without any evidence/proof in a "she said, he said" event. Maybe the guy was a scumbag in the past but a serious accusation like this needs to be treated as an isolated incident. That goes for anything serious - sexual assault, sexual harassment, rape, murder, etc. As an example, just because a man sexually harassed somebody two years ago doesn't immediately make him a rapist now. If we start pointing fingers at people and attacking them without evidence, that will lead to a lot of injustice and innocent lives could potentially be destroyed. I understand things like this are hard to prove, especially in a 1 vs 1 situation but we can't just immediately attack someone. In this case, it's multiple women coming forward and I do believe them. I have no reason not to. But I'll still wait for the results of an investigation.I posted this reply in the Piven thread but I want a broader discussion on this. I don't want to be insensitive in my reaction to this type of news. With more and more accusations coming out I feel it's an important discussion to have.
I absolutely want to believe the alleged victims. For too long people haven't which has made victims hesitant to speak out. I feel in my heart that we should take victims at their word.
My brain sometimes stands in the way of unquestionably believing every accusation. Should we not consider the word of the accused? Should the character and past of the accused be considered before reacting to allegations?
I hope this thread isn't taken the wrong way. I genuinely want to understand different perspectives on this.
Is there a right way to react to accusations like these?
Which is why we should take all accusations (not just of rape) seriously, try to prove them in court, and provide both a social framework and social services to help those that have been hurt, especially for those who don't find legal justice in the system.
I don't suppose you have links to publicly available stats? It would be great to have some resources to send to people.
No problem, just means I have to do some research on my own.Mostly they were subscription services.
I've been trying to recall if there is a government site, but at this time it's not coming to mind. Ten years is a long time for my brain.
I mean these public accusations are pretty vetted and almost always have corroboration at the time and have a pretty established pattern of leading to more accusations.
I mean I've yet to see a false accusation make it to huge news and nobody seems to ever produce any evidence that these women and men are lying about their accusations
The fact that false accusations are rare is pretty much in line with the entire point of the presumption of innocence and Blackstone's formulation. Which is that it doesn't matter if the likelihood of guilt is 80, 90, 95 or 99 percent, it's better for ten guilty people escape than for one innocent person to be sentenced wrongly.
As long as we don't start advocating for judges and juries to operate this way.Cool, but I'm not a judge. My personal belief isn't gonna determine if someone gets convicted.
This isn't a realistic concern. It's a long way to go before we're at that point.As long as we don't start advocating for judges and juries to operate this way.
All the people saying "innocent until proven guilty", are you extending this same grace to the accusers?
One side has to be wrong in this situation, so you might as well back the side that far and away is more honest.