I dig it. It's not a conventional take on Spider-Man, but it didn't need to be. Peter Parker as was depicted back in the day and also the Raimi movies was a highly anachronistic take for its time, and in as much as the Webb movies attempted to get away from that, they only managed to do that through aesthetics rather than the substance. MCU Spidey actually manages to commit fully to it.
There's been much ado about how much impact Uncle Ben has on things in these movies but I feel like people are a little too married to Raimi's interpretation of the character where almost everything is driven on his own connection to the character, and I find that a little bit confusing because Peter had a lot more people in his life other than Ben that influenced him and his way of living. The one thing Uncle Ben's death taught him which was a constant and that goes without saying, is that he has a responsibility to use his talents for good things (Spider-Verse even parodies how overplayed Ben is in the grander scheme of things, and when Miles' own uncle dies, that alone isn't enough to turn him into a true "Spider-Man"). That doesn't mean Peter has never second guessed his commitment to being Spider-Man, nor does it preclude the possibility that Peter desires approval of other figures in his life. With Tony in particular, it's not that Tony "replaced" Ben, it's more that Peter sees Tony not only as an ideal but as a means of accomplishing those great things he wants to do, hence why he wants to be an Avenger so badly at first. That desire obviously falls to the wayside before too long once he realizes he'd rather be on the ground and help the little guys. He'll only get involved in the Avengers if it's global threat level, but he's not going to go out and bust any armed terrorists like Crossbones anytime soon.
Obviously Tony's death would affect him in Far From Home, because he had a personal connection with Tony and he doesn't really have anyone else to relate to when being thrust into situations that are just way too big for a 16 year old kid to handle. That's why he's so attached to Beck at first, he needs someone to relate to in a world like the one he's in, even for someone of Peter's capabilities. But he finally rises up to the challenge, because to quote an even better Spider-Man movie, "it's a leap of faith". And like many a good Spider-Man stories have taught us, he also finally learns that having a responsibility to hero work doesn't stop Peter from being able to pursue romantic engagements.
Is it kind of strange that Peter basically has the advantage of having an entire corporation on speed-dial to help him if need be? I guess, kind of. But Peter's a simpler person, he only takes what he needs, because he's selfless. We don't see him living in any penthouse or a fancy Avengers compound or some such, just an average Queens apartment. Even if he has the opportunity to move up, he clearly wants to do so on his own terms, which is why the character is commendable.
