Today is the first day I was ever called a "racist troll" on Twitter (or anywhere, for that matter). This woman (Chinese-German, apparently) was recounting a date with a guy who greeted her with "Nihao", tried to impress her with his Mandarin skills, and talked about what he liked about China.
I subsequently asked her whether she thought mentioning somebody's ethnicity or home country was generally objectionable in a conversation, clarifying that I was legitimately interested.
She called me an "idiotic racist troll" and that was that.
Now, I realize my comment might have been stupid, but this is something I do wonder about.
Is mentioning a person's ethnicity always a way to exoticize a person and reduce them to being a minority? Is it ever ok?
I subsequently asked her whether she thought mentioning somebody's ethnicity or home country was generally objectionable in a conversation, clarifying that I was legitimately interested.
She called me an "idiotic racist troll" and that was that.
Now, I realize my comment might have been stupid, but this is something I do wonder about.
Is mentioning a person's ethnicity always a way to exoticize a person and reduce them to being a minority? Is it ever ok?