My boyfriend left me about 10 days ago at this point and I'm sick of being upset about it. I try to not think about him but he eventually comes to mind and I get an overwhelming sense of guilt wash over me.
I really loved this guy. I don't open myself up to people like that very often. He was the first person I met at my new dream job and he made me feel excited to go into work everyday and see him.
I'm not gonna act like I did things right 24/7 but I tried to do the best that I could. I admitted my mistakes and worked hard not to repeat them. Everyone at work always mentioned how perfect we were together and as a newer employee, I was thrilled to have a strong sense of self. We signed up for the same sports team that our work sponsored and he became a huge part of my life.
Now I get upset having to walk into the break room hoping that I don't have to see him. He looks so happy and like nothing has changed. My bosses knew we were together and they can tell that I'm upset. I'm tired of people asking why I didn't go to such and such the previous night and I have to explain that I'm no longer invited to those events anymore. Some coworkers are good friends with him and straight up refuse to acknowledge my presence anymore.
But I still love him so much. I redownloaded tinder hoping I could see the other "fish in the sea" but none of them are him. I can't help to put all this blame on me.
I tried to make him happy but in the end all I did was ruin our relationship. I'm so tired of being sad and crying constantly. I try to get my mind off it, hang out with people, and such. But I'm constantly reminded that I failed the person I love.
I'm not gonna do anything drastic but I honestly feel like I destroyed a large part of my identity.
I really loved this guy. I don't open myself up to people like that very often. He was the first person I met at my new dream job and he made me feel excited to go into work everyday and see him.
I'm not gonna act like I did things right 24/7 but I tried to do the best that I could. I admitted my mistakes and worked hard not to repeat them. Everyone at work always mentioned how perfect we were together and as a newer employee, I was thrilled to have a strong sense of self. We signed up for the same sports team that our work sponsored and he became a huge part of my life.
Now I get upset having to walk into the break room hoping that I don't have to see him. He looks so happy and like nothing has changed. My bosses knew we were together and they can tell that I'm upset. I'm tired of people asking why I didn't go to such and such the previous night and I have to explain that I'm no longer invited to those events anymore. Some coworkers are good friends with him and straight up refuse to acknowledge my presence anymore.
But I still love him so much. I redownloaded tinder hoping I could see the other "fish in the sea" but none of them are him. I can't help to put all this blame on me.
I tried to make him happy but in the end all I did was ruin our relationship. I'm so tired of being sad and crying constantly. I try to get my mind off it, hang out with people, and such. But I'm constantly reminded that I failed the person I love.
I'm not gonna do anything drastic but I honestly feel like I destroyed a large part of my identity.