Quick background:
I manage a sports and horse betting center in a city in Germany. Have been in the betting industry since I was 18, so for 15 years now making me 33. I am basically the whitest dude you can imagine. Blonde hair, blue eyes and not even the slightest tan.
Since in the betting industry here probably 80% of our customers have some kind of immigrant background it's happened on some rare occasion over the many years I've worked in the industry that when there was a dispute of any kind with a customer they would sometimes say I was being racist as some kind of "no I am not wrong, this is just why you are doing this now" thing. This was as I said extremely infrequent and has never really hit any nerve with me because it was clearly just said out of spite.
Now to today:
We have for over a year now a policy in our store that if you want to use the customer bathrooms, you actually need to be a paying customer or a regular who is known to us. Otherwise you will not get the key to the bathroom.
This policy was implemented because we had a big renovation last year and one of the things we always had problems with, being a store located directly at a street with a lot of pedestrians walking past, is that we would have tons and tons of people every day just walk into our store, go directly into the bathroom and do whatever in there. Making a mess, leaving stolen empty wallets on the floor, shooting up drugs, you name it.
Since during times where the store is full it is very hard for us to keep an eye on who is coming and going our boss decided to just lock the bathrooms and implement the policy I mentioned. Since then, things have been WAY better in the bathrooms. Signs on the doors also inform people about this in multiple languages.
What this means though is that we are now every day telling random people who come in that they can not use the bathrooms unless they actually place a bet. And this has as you can imagine lead to a lot of angry tirades from people who for some reason do not understand that they are not entitled to just use a stores bathrooms however they want. A very large number of the people we turn away have an immigrant background which as I said is common as customers in our industry. And this is where I constantly get called a racist for not letting them use the bathrooms without paying. At first this wasn't something I really cared about but now it is an almost constant in my work life. Mutiple times a week I get told I'm racist for just telling them the store policy and how they have to pay. Then they see someone else getting the key and get even angrier. Of course when they get angry we ask them to leave and that's usually where the "you're racist" comment comes in.
So that's basically the situation and I know this thread isn't gonna "change" anything, but man I just needed to vent about this. I'm not even doing anything wrong but I am still somehow internalizing this and it's making me question myself and makes me feel like shit lately. I usually don't let dumb shit angry people say get to me but it's just wearing me down.
Thanks for reading
I manage a sports and horse betting center in a city in Germany. Have been in the betting industry since I was 18, so for 15 years now making me 33. I am basically the whitest dude you can imagine. Blonde hair, blue eyes and not even the slightest tan.
Since in the betting industry here probably 80% of our customers have some kind of immigrant background it's happened on some rare occasion over the many years I've worked in the industry that when there was a dispute of any kind with a customer they would sometimes say I was being racist as some kind of "no I am not wrong, this is just why you are doing this now" thing. This was as I said extremely infrequent and has never really hit any nerve with me because it was clearly just said out of spite.
Now to today:
We have for over a year now a policy in our store that if you want to use the customer bathrooms, you actually need to be a paying customer or a regular who is known to us. Otherwise you will not get the key to the bathroom.
This policy was implemented because we had a big renovation last year and one of the things we always had problems with, being a store located directly at a street with a lot of pedestrians walking past, is that we would have tons and tons of people every day just walk into our store, go directly into the bathroom and do whatever in there. Making a mess, leaving stolen empty wallets on the floor, shooting up drugs, you name it.
Since during times where the store is full it is very hard for us to keep an eye on who is coming and going our boss decided to just lock the bathrooms and implement the policy I mentioned. Since then, things have been WAY better in the bathrooms. Signs on the doors also inform people about this in multiple languages.
What this means though is that we are now every day telling random people who come in that they can not use the bathrooms unless they actually place a bet. And this has as you can imagine lead to a lot of angry tirades from people who for some reason do not understand that they are not entitled to just use a stores bathrooms however they want. A very large number of the people we turn away have an immigrant background which as I said is common as customers in our industry. And this is where I constantly get called a racist for not letting them use the bathrooms without paying. At first this wasn't something I really cared about but now it is an almost constant in my work life. Mutiple times a week I get told I'm racist for just telling them the store policy and how they have to pay. Then they see someone else getting the key and get even angrier. Of course when they get angry we ask them to leave and that's usually where the "you're racist" comment comes in.
So that's basically the situation and I know this thread isn't gonna "change" anything, but man I just needed to vent about this. I'm not even doing anything wrong but I am still somehow internalizing this and it's making me question myself and makes me feel like shit lately. I usually don't let dumb shit angry people say get to me but it's just wearing me down.
Thanks for reading