Sometimes the truth is hard. If he really loved her he would not have chosen to disrupt her life. He cared more about himself and his wants than he did for her.
ughh again, in his mind he wasn't disrupting her life, in his head he was making her happy when clearly she wasn't and could give her an amazing life. And again he was dumb to think this and had no place doing what he did. This idea that love is some infallible force where you automatically know all the answers is asinine. If anything it makes you think you can do the impossible and idealize the hell out of everything. You can absolutely be in love and do dumb things, it happens all the time. He loved her, he thought he could make it work, he fucked up. He's an asshole who thought he could work it out, rookie mistake.