Yes another attention seeking thread but I don't know what to do.
The level where if the world ends I couldn't really give a shit because my life is worthless and I haven't accomplished anything in my 25 years of existance.
I feel like I'm adopted in my family, comparing myself with everyone else I feel like a massive failure. I know my Dad is more proud of his first son (my step brother). I am nothing like my father, I don't drink, I barely go out and hang with him, or my family. I don't really get along with anyone, my sister has a completely different personality to me (bright, bubbly always happy) where as I am depressed, sad, hardly ever talk (one word replies).
My childhood was a mess, a massive crybaby I was heck, still even at 25 years old. I also did some pretty imbarassing things. I bludged school and don't have any qualifications.
I am surviving on a casual job of 22/hour as a Dishwasher and it is crushing my soul. Doing something you know you hate every day, 5 days a week because you have to to survive. 25 years and all I have to show is I can wash dishes, nope I could have been an enginner, or be one of those younger kids in uni pursuing their passion but I had no fucking idea what to do in life.
I have a girlfriend (2 years) but I feel like my relationship is going nowhere and its all my fault. When I do get the chance to see her, most times I have to think of what to do and its usually just watch shows and I feel like its all a lie, I just chose to be with her because I was done looking online. Shes always been there for me and I feel like I am slowly pushing her further and further away.
I am currently living with a roommate and I can barely cook for myself. I have my own car.
My life right now is on a cycle, work, come home, stare at a screen until bed, rinse and repeat.
I want to study IT but I don't have the time for it, if I cut back on work to study, then I won't be able to afford the unit. Its all just a big mess.
The level where if the world ends I couldn't really give a shit because my life is worthless and I haven't accomplished anything in my 25 years of existance.
I feel like I'm adopted in my family, comparing myself with everyone else I feel like a massive failure. I know my Dad is more proud of his first son (my step brother). I am nothing like my father, I don't drink, I barely go out and hang with him, or my family. I don't really get along with anyone, my sister has a completely different personality to me (bright, bubbly always happy) where as I am depressed, sad, hardly ever talk (one word replies).
My childhood was a mess, a massive crybaby I was heck, still even at 25 years old. I also did some pretty imbarassing things. I bludged school and don't have any qualifications.
I am surviving on a casual job of 22/hour as a Dishwasher and it is crushing my soul. Doing something you know you hate every day, 5 days a week because you have to to survive. 25 years and all I have to show is I can wash dishes, nope I could have been an enginner, or be one of those younger kids in uni pursuing their passion but I had no fucking idea what to do in life.
I have a girlfriend (2 years) but I feel like my relationship is going nowhere and its all my fault. When I do get the chance to see her, most times I have to think of what to do and its usually just watch shows and I feel like its all a lie, I just chose to be with her because I was done looking online. Shes always been there for me and I feel like I am slowly pushing her further and further away.
I am currently living with a roommate and I can barely cook for myself. I have my own car.
My life right now is on a cycle, work, come home, stare at a screen until bed, rinse and repeat.
I want to study IT but I don't have the time for it, if I cut back on work to study, then I won't be able to afford the unit. Its all just a big mess.