Something I do very often is play fighting games online, and I enjoy them a lot. More specifically, I enjoy them a lot when I win. I can't have fun with fighting games, or any game in general when I don't come out on top. And as time goes by, I've taken this mentality more and more to heart.
As I've played fighting games, I find myself seeing value in myself whenever I lose, and that my skill as player reflects my value as a person. My losses feel more and more personal when they happen and then they become more and more frequent. It often feels like no matter how much effort I put in, there will always be someone better than me and that starts to make me hate myself. As of very recently, I've found myself starting to smack my head whenever I started to make a single mistake or when I lost. Because of this, I plan to go start seeing a therapist to talk to about my self-esteem and to see why is it I take winning in competition so seriously.
Tl;dr Me being bad at video games has led to self-abuse
As I've played fighting games, I find myself seeing value in myself whenever I lose, and that my skill as player reflects my value as a person. My losses feel more and more personal when they happen and then they become more and more frequent. It often feels like no matter how much effort I put in, there will always be someone better than me and that starts to make me hate myself. As of very recently, I've found myself starting to smack my head whenever I started to make a single mistake or when I lost. Because of this, I plan to go start seeing a therapist to talk to about my self-esteem and to see why is it I take winning in competition so seriously.
Tl;dr Me being bad at video games has led to self-abuse
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