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Zafir

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Oct 25, 2017
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Nobody is "forced" to stream. Having to adhere to a dress code to enter a privately owned and operated space isn't anything new or unreasonable.
Who is even arguing about not having a dress code at all that's never been the debate. The debate is that it unfairly affects women more than men if they want to do a family friendly stream.

It's pretty unreasonable when the dress code is women have to wear tops all the way to their neck if they want a "family friendly" stream where as all men have to do is just not do a stream topless, which is like duhhhh.
 

excelsiorlef

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Oct 25, 2017
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I really love that banning tank tops on women gets people to come out and start talking about porn and body paint.

Love it when men inherently sexualize the concept of being a woman and then express revulsion at it
 

alexiswrite

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Oct 27, 2017
1,418
Lol. Do people really think this is the same thing?

These rules are written to target women. It's such a fucking joke that people here are pretrending they aren't. If Mixer wants to curb a certain type of stream behaviour they absolutely can write rules that address that specifically. It doesn't have to be no shoulders and no boobs when those things are not inherently sexual and lots of womens clothing is designed with that in mind.

There isnt a mass of men upset they cant stream shirtless.
I don't think comparing men being topless to women not being allowed to wear tank tops is really that comparable lol.

I think it's wrong to suggest women should cover up because people seem to believe a women showing skin is "asking for it" or is being "sexual" when that's clearly not the case. That's basically taking things 50 steps backwards and perpetuates the idea that women only show some skin to get attention from people, and are in turn asking to be harrassed in some way.


At this point I'm assuming you didn't read the guidelines.


Which means you'd have to button up because otherwise it's not a few inches above the bust line, lol.


Oh yeah agreed. Twitch is a very poor comparison point.


No ones arguing about not wearing a shirt when going into a public place, lol. What is that kind of false equivalency.

Of course I don't think they're the same. I made the analogy because your argument was that the rules are craaaaazy because women on hot summer days wouldn't qualify as family friendly, therefore I pointed out that men on those days also wouldn't qualify. That specific argument is silly.

I obviously think these rules are more restrictive on women than men, however, hiring moderators to make the subjective decision on when a woman is being too sexy or titillating is also garbage.
 

Zelas

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Oct 25, 2017
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I can only see it as a positive the more Mixer sets itself apart from Twitch and its guidelines that pretty much encourage people to skirt them.
 

MatrixMan.exe

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Oct 25, 2017
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If you stream on the platform you have to abide by the rules. The fact that there are successful women on the platform getting by doesn't make the rules less sexist unless success is now the cure for discrimination.

I don't get why talking about this is inherently upsetting to people.

Who is getting upset though? I'm simply saying that in practice, these rules are nowhere near as 'bad' as they're being made out to be. Go on Mixer and watch female streamers so you can see exactly what I mean.

Secondly, I do not agree that there is sexism here. People are absolutely free to wear what they want, but on a streaming platform which has a very large child audience, why is it bad that guidelines are in place that restrict revealing clothing unless there's an 18+ warning?

The same can be said for men. Mixer isn't allowing men to stream with their chests etc. out while restricting what women do. If that was the case then yes, that absolutely is sexism. But it isn't the case.
 

Uthred

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Oct 25, 2017
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Who is even arguing about not having a dress code at all that's never been the debate. The debate is that it unfairly affects women more than men if they want to do a family friendly stream.

It's pretty unreasonable when the dress code is women have to wear tops all the way to their neck if they want a "family friendly" stream where as all men have to do is just not do a stream topless, which is like duhhhh.

Sure but thats orthogonal to the point I was responding to you. You said being forced to wear something you dont want to is a punishment. But nobody is being forced to do anything in this situation.
 

MonsterMech

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Oct 27, 2017
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Who is even arguing about not having a dress code at all that's never been the debate. The debate is that it unfairly affects women more than men if they want to do a family friendly stream.

It's pretty unreasonable when the dress code is women have to wear tops all the way to their neck if they want a "family friendly" stream where as all men have to do is just not do a stream topless, which is like duhhhh.
Men don't have cleavage. A woman wearing a tank top is inherently more revealing than a man cause women have more to reveal.
 

Zafir

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Oct 25, 2017
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Sure but thats orthogonal to the point I was responding to you. You said being forced to wear something you dont want to is a punishment. But nobody is being forced to do anything in this situation.
I said that in the context of if they want to stream on their platform. Yes, in that case they are "forced" to wear buttoned up shirts of round neck t-shirts for a family friendly stream because of said unreasonable dress code.

Of course they can just not stream there, but that's a debate that's not even relevant. Why even have discussion at all when a company does something if the argument is "oh you can just not use their service", or "you can just not buy from them". That's just shutting debate down.
 

etta

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Oct 27, 2017
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Who is even arguing about not having a dress code at all that's never been the debate. The debate is that it unfairly affects women more than men if they want to do a family friendly stream.

It's pretty unreasonable when the dress code is women have to wear tops all the way to their neck if they want a "family friendly" stream where as all men have to do is just not do a stream topless, which is like duhhhh.
Is there clothing made for men that shows off cleavage?

Are people being this daft, of course it affects women differently because women wear different styles of clothing?

Am I blind or is it standard for men to dress to show off pecs, because I ain't ever seen that shit in every day life.
 

MatrixMan.exe

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Oct 25, 2017
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I really love that banning tank tops on women gets people to come out and start talking about porn and body paint.

Love it when men inherently sexualize the concept of being a woman and then express revulsion at it

They haven't banned tank tops though. What's worse is the fact you have successful women Mixer streamers, you know the people who this actually impacts, coming out to explain how these guidelines manifest in practice and yet people like you don't want to hear it.

You're clearly not here to discuss this or argue in good faith.
 

etta

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Oct 27, 2017
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I said that in the context of if they want to stream on their platform. Yes, in that case they are "forced" to wear buttoned up shirts of round neck t-shirts for a family friendly stream because of said unreasonable dress code.

Of course they can just not stream there, but that's a debate that's not even relevant. Why even have discussion at all when a company does something if the argument is "oh you can just not use their service", or "you can just not buy from them". That's just shutting debate down.
Here, maybe you need this shoved in your face some more


 

excelsiorlef

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Oct 25, 2017
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No, that's a person who actually streams on Mixer.

Yes who agrees with you.

But hey here's one:




And again mixer turning off people from wanting to stream is also worth paying attention to because you know it's a newer platform... but I'm going to guess you're only really interested in having your worldview backed up and that's why no one else but these women who agree with you matter.
 

excelsiorlef

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Oct 25, 2017
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They haven't banned tank tops though. What's worse is the fact you have successful women Mixer streamers, you know the people who this actually impacts, coming out to explain how these guidelines manifest in practice and yet people like you don't want to hear it.

You're clearly not here to discuss this or argue in good faith.

Fine not banned... sent to 18+

For a tank top.

Which goes back to the inherent sexualization of women by men.

But sure you really care about "good faith"
 

show me your skeleton

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Oct 28, 2017
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Is there clothing made for men that shows off cleavage?

Are people being this daft, of course it affects women differently because women wear different styles of clothing?

Am I blind or is it standard for men to dress to show off pecs, because I ain't ever seen that shit in every day life.

it was a thing, at least here in the UK, for a short bit. here are two examples, one a bit more extreme than the other -
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i personally think it looks silly, especially the latter, but then again it's because of how used i am to clothing for men being very utilitarian and not highlighting the same aspects of the body that we do for women.
 

The Boat

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Oct 28, 2017
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I weep for the children who have to see cleavages and women with strapless tops on the street.
 

Zafir

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Oct 25, 2017
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Is there clothing made for men that shows off cleavage?

Are people being this daft, of course it affects women differently because women wear different styles of clothing?

Am I blind or is it standard for men to dress to show off pecs, because I ain't ever seen that shit in every day life.
Men don't have cleavage. A woman wearing a tank top is inherently more revealing than a man cause women have more to reveal.
Women have different styles of clothing, a lot of which show some cleavage. None of this is inherently sexual.

These guidelines unfairly affect women because it bans the afore mentioned large amount of clothing even though it's not inherently sexual in any shape or form.

Even Disney allow such clothing by their staff as talked about earlier in the thread.

But no, keep telling me how such clothing is totally just not family friendly.

Here, maybe you need this shoved in your face some more



Maybe you need to read the fact she put it on 18+ some more.

Showing a bit of cleavage is really not a 18+ experience.
 

alexiswrite

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Oct 27, 2017
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People keep talking about this like these rules are just men inherently sexualising women, as we haven't had years of people complaining about the looseness and subjectiveness of the rules on twitch which have led to a bunch of people constantly flirting with bans. These mixer rules didn't come out of a vacuum, they're created around how people act right now.
 

Falchion

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Oct 25, 2017
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Can you imagine sitting down to write these clothing guidelines? Feels like something a middle school principal would do.
 

Gotdatmoney

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Oct 28, 2017
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Who is getting upset though? I'm simply saying that in practice, these rules are nowhere near as 'bad' as they're being made out to be. Go on Mixer and watch female streamers so you can see exactly what I mean.

You keep repeating this is a hit piece or click bait targeted at Ninja. It's an article and we are discussing it. Constantly bringing that up feels like you're upset this is being discussed. That's my view.

Secondly, I do not agree that there is sexism here. People are absolutely free to wear what they want, but on a streaming platform which has a very large child audience, why is it bad that guidelines are in place that restrict revealing clothing unless there's an 18+ warning?

Having cleavage or shoulder showing is not requiring of an 18+ warning. And of course this is sexism. How are rules designed to target women primarily not sexist in nature?

The same can be said for men. Mixer isn't allowing men to stream with their chests etc. out while restricting what women do. If that was the case then yes, that absolutely is sexism. But it isn't the case.

I can't believe people are leaning back to the no shirt thing. Like, what dudes are out there on a regular day trying to stream with no shirt and finding the bare minimum rule that they actually WEAR A PIECE OF CLOTHING a limit on their ability to stream? This poster said it best.

today i got up and threw on whatever shirt was closest to me and, lo-n-behold, according to these rules i could stream to any age i wanted without a single thought. when the only thing stopping me from streaming, as a dude, is the unusual choice to not wear a top, i imagine this targets women a whole heck of a lot more than it does guys.
 

rochellepaws

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Oct 25, 2017
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They haven't banned tank tops though. What's worse is the fact you have successful women Mixer streamers, you know the people who this actually impacts, coming out to explain how these guidelines manifest in practice and yet people like you don't want to hear it.

You're clearly not here to discuss this or argue in good faith.
Along with women who feel unwelcome towards the platform because of this guideline and several who have attempted streaming there but surprisingly found themselves either banned or determined as an adult stream because of what they were wearing. It's never going to be much of a discussion if you're choosing not to listen to those who are actually affected by this.
 

MilesQ

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Oct 25, 2017
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I'm confused, why was the twitch ambassador from the tweet banned for wearing a t-shirt that covered her shorts?

They thought she wasn't wearing bottoms?
 

MonsterMech

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Oct 27, 2017
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Women have different styles of clothing, a lot of which show some cleavage. None of this is inherently sexual.

These guidelines unfairly affect women because it bans the afore mentioned large amount of clothing even though it's not inherently sexual in any shape or form.

Even Disney allow such clothing by their staff as talked about earlier in the thread.

But no, keep telling me how such clothing is totally just not family friendly.
I never said anything about sexual. A man wearing no shirt is not inherently sexual either, yet we have the guidelines. The grey area between innocent tank top and show my breasts for views is precisely why these rules exist.
 

tmarg

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Oct 25, 2017
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I really love that banning tank tops on women gets people to come out and start talking about porn and body paint.

Love it when men inherently sexualize the concept of being a woman and then express revulsion at it

There are streamers who make money by dressing in extremely revealing clothing, playing games and flirting with their chat in exchange for tips.

Most of these streamers are women, primarily because the audience for that type of stream is mostly straight men.

While most people don't have a problem with those streams existing, they are not appropriate for children.

Some people do have a problem with those streams existing, and some of them harass the streamers in an attempt to drive them off the platform. Those people are toxic assholes, and none of the platforms have done a good enough job of banning them.

While most of the streamers have no problem with their streams being classified as 18+, a small number of them try to gain more exposure by placing themselves in less restrictive ratings categories. This forces platforms to establish guidelines to differentiate between sexualized streams and those of women who just want to play games. Creating these guidelines is actually fairly difficult, as threads like this demonstrate.

A common argument from people who want to force the streamers off of Twitch or Mixer is that those streamers should move to a "more suitable" website, which is why people have to discuss why porn sites aren't really a viable alternative.
 

Olrac

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Oct 26, 2017
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It's really simple; if you disagree, view with your clicks. Don't stream and don't watch. If enough people do so, then the platform will need to adapt or die.
 

Zafir

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Oct 25, 2017
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I never said anything about sexual. A man wearing no shirt is not inherently sexual either, yet we have the guidelines. The grey area between innocent tank top and show my breath for views is precisely why these rules exist.
Mixer, and by extension you for defending it, are implying it's sexual by banning them from family friendly streams though. Don't you see that?
 

excelsiorlef

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Oct 25, 2017
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There are streamers who make money by dressing in extremely revealing clothing, playing games and flirting with their chat in exchange for tips.

Most of these streamers are women, primarily because the audience for that type of stream is mostly straight men.

While most people don't have a problem with those streams existing, they are not appropriate for children.

Some people do have a problem with those streams existing, and some of them harass the streamers in an attempt to drive them off the platform. Those people are toxic assholes, and none of the platforms have done a good enough job of banning them.

While most of the streamers have no problem with their streams being classified as 18+, a small number of them try to gain more exposure by placing themselves in less restrictive ratings categories. This forces platforms to establish guidelines to differentiate between sexualized streams and those of women who just want to play games. Creating these guidelines is actually fairly difficult, as threads like this demonstrate.

A common argument from people who want to force the streamers off of Twitch or Mixer is that those streamers should move to a "more suitable" website, which is why people have to discuss why porn sites aren't really a viable alternative.

Like i said men inherently treat women's existence as sexual and then punish women for it.
 

MilesQ

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Oct 25, 2017
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Looking around on Mixer (this is perhaps the most I've ever used it), I'm not sure even MS cares enough to police the content.
 
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Panic Freak

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Oct 26, 2017
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You don't see how someone being forced to wear something they may not want to can be seen as a bit of a punishment?

You don't see how someone might want sleeveless tops which are cut a bit lower during the height of summer for reasons other than being "provocative"?


Oh, I'm not against some guidelines. I just feel these are needlessly restrictive to a silly degree.

I don't like having to wear business casual at work but I do it anyway
 

Trup1aya

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Oct 25, 2017
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Yeah

The people chiming in have an ignorant understanding of the impact of these guidelines.

Most clothing items aren't banned- they just can't be worn in family friendly streams.
today i got up and threw on whatever shirt was closest to me and, lo-n-behold, according to these rules i could stream to any age i wanted without a single thought. when the only thing stopping me from streaming, as a dude, is the unusual choice to not wear a top, i imagine this targets women a whole heck of a lot more than it does guys. which is not surprising considering the differences in how we sexualise the two body types.

It targets clothing that will be inevitably used by some streamers to titillate minors. It turns out, these types of clothing are aimed at women
Who is even arguing about not having a dress code at all that's never been the debate. The debate is that it unfairly affects women more than men if they want to do a family friendly stream.

It's pretty unreasonable when the dress code is women have to wear tops all the way to their neck if they want a "family friendly" stream where as all men have to do is just not do a stream topless, which is like duhhhh.

men also have to wear tops to their necks...

Low cut men's attire does exist... It just isn't as popular in men's fashion. that disparity isnt Microsoft's problem to fix. They are just gating kids out of streams with a lot of skin, regardless of the streamers gender.

I really love that banning tank tops on women gets people to come out and start talking about porn and body paint.

Love it when men inherently sexualize the concept of being a woman and then express revulsion at it

Tank tops aren't banned though. Not on women or men.
 

rochellepaws

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Oct 25, 2017
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People keep talking about this like these rules are just men inherently sexualising women, as we haven't had years of people complaining about the looseness and subjectiveness of the rules on twitch which have led to a bunch of people constantly flirting with bans. These mixer rules didn't come out of a vacuum, they're created around how people act right now.
Requiring all women to conform to modest dress stricter than that of the street or even an office should never be an acceptable solution to the adult stream problem. At least not for a platform that wishes to be a welcoming environment regardless of demographic.

This may be an outlandish idea but perhaps when moderating and branding channels they should look at the actual content instead of presuming a streamer's intention based on what she's wearing?
 

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These guidelines are fine IMHO.

They're clear for everyone to understand and leave no real gray area.

The main stipulations are in the family friendly section which is where they're needed the most! Want a wide audience then dress appropriately.
 

etta

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Oct 27, 2017
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These guidelines unfairly affect women because it bans the afore mentioned large amount of clothing even though it's not inherently sexual in any shape or form.
They are directed disproportionately at women because women have styles upon styles of revealing clothing that are not common on men. Is it simply not natural?
If men had equivalent clothing, do you think the Mixer rules would NOT specify said clothing styles?
Outside of specific cases which apply to BOTH men and women equally (bars, party spots... etc), ON AVERAGE, women have more choice of styles to be more revealing than men, do you not agree?