like every single other "joke" format these days, it has been summarily beaten six feet into the ground by people poorly imitating those who made actually clever jokes about white nonsense
however, because i spend all of my waking time following upcoming twitter jokes made by my fellow irony poisoned Posters, nothing i say is ever "cringe" and i am therefore sufficiently licensed to make the jokes without the risk of being... dare i say it... "cringe"
but in all seriousness, there are *much* better ways to empathize with the someone as they're talking about serious issues like discrimination than hyperbolic self-flagellation that invokes an online meme format - that doesn't help anyone and over time will hurt your own self-esteem