Sorry it's been hard to tell as the rest of the thread sounds like a middle school locker room
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Isn’t life f**ked...
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Your friend sounds like an asshole and he hasn't seemed to care much for you so I'm not sure why you're valuing his feelings so much.
Though I'd guess it's more that you're scared to actually follow through with this and you're using him as an excuse to do nothing.
Though I'd guess it's more that you're scared to actually follow through with this and you're using him as an excuse to do nothing.
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Like 6 months but she had a boyfriend for five but as after she broke up I gave it two weeks then got her number. I just didn't move fast enough and he asked her out before me.
6 months? Can't blame your friend at that point. If you're good friends with him I'd lay off, one night of what sounds like revenge sex isn't worth losing a good friend over.
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Well she had a boyfriend for those five months so I couldn't flirt or anything. After that tho I would say it was about a solid a month of me going for her. Which is still long I know but I'm working on moving a lot quicker. I just don't have a lot of confidence but I'm gaining it steadily as I work out which is good.
To all you guys telling the OP to "do it" I hope you guys are all gonna be there to support him on his next thread, "I got used for revenge sex, now the girl and my virginity is gone and I am miserable."
lmao
bro why are you giving any of these people the time of day? It's been established on the previous thread that he's not a friend of yours. He's a dick and he did it because he knew he could beat you to it. That girl is clearly just looking for drama now, and you should be better than that -- just tell her to fuck off. Not worth the drama and potential physical assault (really?).
Find better people.
bro why are you giving any of these people the time of day? It's been established on the previous thread that he's not a friend of yours. He's a dick and he did it because he knew he could beat you to it. That girl is clearly just looking for drama now, and you should be better than that -- just tell her to fuck off. Not worth the drama and potential physical assault (really?).
Find better people.
I did not read the whole thread but I do not need to, as it is very simple the way I see it.
Point # 1 - If your friend knew you were into her and still made the move, he did not care, why should you.
Point # 2 - If you are a virgin as you say but do not want to be assuming you do not want to be by your words of "I really want to fuck"), and you have one of the most beautiful girls you have seen (again your words) wanting to do said fucking, do not blow the chance.
Point # 1 - If your friend knew you were into her and still made the move, he did not care, why should you.
Point # 2 - If you are a virgin as you say but do not want to be assuming you do not want to be by your words of "I really want to fuck"), and you have one of the most beautiful girls you have seen (again your words) wanting to do said fucking, do not blow the chance.
But OP has to do this now or he might not get laid in the next 100 years!
If a woman throws herself at you then generally it seems like a good idea to take it. Some don't even have that luck or the chance for something like this.
This feels like classic virgin advice. Don't burn real friendships at the first opportunity of getting sex that won't lead anywhere.
You mean the friendship with the girl right? The guy doesn't sound like much of a friend from the first post.
I dont know I was in not the same but a similar situation when I was a teen and basically I loved this girl and at some point she realized she loved me too and we've been married for 16 years now. So it can work out.
So I guess...is love involved in any way here? Is OP scared?
Thats for op to decide but I don't see why it wouldn't be. Taking a girl your buddy spent 6 months, or even 1, crushing on without asking her out once is fair game in my opinion.
Eh, he would likely give you a fist bump. They were only together for a month man and he acknowledged that you were into her first.
Your kind of mind screwing yourself
Your kind of mind screwing yourself
This is the most on point post, OP. I'm 32 and I will tell you that when you look back one day, you will regret not going for it at best and at worst, you never know what it could develop to.
Just go for it and you do you OP. Don't be stupid.
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This thread has if I'm being honest made me pretty fucking depressed. It's made me realize that I take into account other poeples feeling more then my own all the time. I've missed so many exciting opportunities in life becuase I'm scared of pissing off or making other people angry. I sacrifice my happiness so that other people can be happy....
No more tho. From here on I'm my own fucking man that deserves to be happy. Now I'm not going to turn into an asshole but fuck if I have to piss of someone to make myself happy then fuck it I've been that pissed off person my whole life BUT NO MORE!!!
No more tho. From here on I'm my own fucking man that deserves to be happy. Now I'm not going to turn into an asshole but fuck if I have to piss of someone to make myself happy then fuck it I've been that pissed off person my whole life BUT NO MORE!!!
Please keep us updated. I have high hopes for this thread.
Invite her out to coffee/ movie/ dinner, and if she makes it clear she wants a relation with you go for it.
You might be rebound, sure, but it's not your job to over think it for her. If it is meant to last, it will.
As per your "friend", I wouldn't worry about it.
I don't think he was much of a real friend to start with, more of a pal really, if you follow me.
You might be rebound, sure, but it's not your job to over think it for her. If it is meant to last, it will.
As per your "friend", I wouldn't worry about it.
I don't think he was much of a real friend to start with, more of a pal really, if you follow me.
hell yeah dawg, your homie clearly wasn't up to snuff and she's a grown ass woman who can make her own choices. get out there and smang it mane
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Hahaha this and the Vader one got me laughing :POP rn:
And this it's a underrated post that had me dying ;)
Did he know you wanted to date her before he went for it?
If he did, then there is no problems here. If he didn't, then that's your problem and anything bad that follows you nailing an ex of your buddy is explicitly on your shoulders for not telling him before they dated in the first place.
If he did, then there is no problems here. If he didn't, then that's your problem and anything bad that follows you nailing an ex of your buddy is explicitly on your shoulders for not telling him before they dated in the first place.
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Na he knew. He was telling me I should try to date her becuase I work with her and that would make it awkward. Well great advice bruh great fucking advice....
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