A hard lesson for many that the existence and behaviour of predatory narcissists is not mutually exclusive with progressive, inclusive scenes and spaces, and that the language, opportunities, and networking these environments afford can be just as readily weaponised and exploited by manipulators against the marginalised people that need this support.
Withholding judgement in situations like this is important, but in the same breath; where there's smoke there's usually fire. And having multiple allegations of manipulation and abuse, including evidence of attempts to report and file complaints, is not a good look.