John Boyega implies Kelly Marie Tran was "not mentally strong" for how she dealt with fans (update: response and apology, see threadmark)

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This thread is mortifyingly embarrassing. Let humans be humans for fuck's sake. Boyega is a 27 year old actor, not a goddamn political ambassador who has to diplomatically nail every sentence he utters. He's trying to harmoniously bridge the divide between fans in what he's saying, and he's going about it in an extremely clunky and ill advised way. Stop putting so much stock into it. The guy is tasked with answering a million questions a day, some lighthearted, some precarious, some politically charged, all slowly draining him and coming at him with little preparation. I assure you, if any one of you were in the same position you'd eventually catch your foot in your mouth too. That's what humans do. They make mistakes. They misspeak. Give some slack, jesus christ. If Tran is offended by it, Boyega can make amends and apologise to her himself privately.

The amount of toxicity and hatred spewing from this forum is disgraceful. Take a step back, recognise that these words aren't do or die. They're not altering the course of progressive social discourse. In the process of trying to defend Tran from the hateful and vitriolic shit being hurled at her on the internet, you yourselves are hurling hateful and vitriolic shit at Boyega.
Co-sign.
 

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I'm really confused by some of the takes in this thread. The question before the one in the opening ends with him stating that its interesting being involved in a star wars trilogy in the height of social media and how the actors get to be ingrained into people's childhood or life in a way they never think about. The interviewer then says it's sort of a double edged sword though and give Kelly Marie Tran as an example of the negative of that and Boyega's whole point is that engaging with social media and fans at that level does require you to be mentally strong to come out unscathed because they are just gonna toss out bullshit. That's the crux of it, he thinks fan engagement is great but you can't take it to heart or it will eat you.

I don't get the impression this is about taking shots at anyone. This isn't him saying man up. The fuck?
Guess people are just taking the narrative in that tweet and running with it.
 

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This thread is mortifyingly embarrassing. Let humans be humans for fuck's sake. Boyega is a 27 year old actor, not a goddamn political ambassador who has to diplomatically nail every sentence he utters. He's trying to harmoniously bridge the divide between fans in what he's saying, and he's going about it in an extremely clunky and ill advised way. Stop putting so much stock into it. The guy is tasked with answering a million questions a day, some lighthearted, some precarious, some politically charged, all slowly draining him and coming at him with little preparation. I assure you, if any one of you were in the same position you'd eventually catch your foot in your mouth too. That's what humans do. They make mistakes. They misspeak. Give some slack, jesus christ. If Tran is offended by it, Boyega can make amends and apologise to her himself privately.

The amount of toxicity and hatred spewing from this forum is disgraceful. Take a step back, recognise that these words aren't do or die. They're not altering the course of progressive social discourse. In the process of trying to defend Tran from the hateful and vitriolic shit being hurled at her on the internet, you yourselves are hurling hateful and vitriolic shit at Boyega.
This should apply for every thread here. Thanks for describing my thoughts.
 

Lentic

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Why do people expect Star Wars celebs to be paragons of virtue or some shit? People have a bad habit of projecting stuff onto them and you’re all in for some serious disappointment.
 

Tommcatt

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What in the ever-loving fuck are you going in about?
Essentially being a minority means people generally won't care about your feelings enough to do anything. Look at the number of people who defend blackface every time it comes up, or the constant micro-aggressions / "casual" racism that makes up a lot of minority experience. "Man-up" might be a clunky way of saying it, but you do eventually have to sort of compartmentalize a lot of stuff.

Now, In the case of KMT I'm not sure how much compartmentalizing one can do in the face of a harassment campaign.
 
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but even if he is talking in general, is a shit point.

MAN UP practically
He’s a black man, who was the face of the Star Wars revival and the first full face you saw in the reveal trailer.

The amount of insane vitriol he faced as a “black stormtrooper” is seared into my mind. He knows more than anyone how crazy people wanted a n*gger like him out of their beloved franchise.

He’s clearly speaking from his own experience and lacked the foresight to see how the story would be contextualized in the current Star Wars climate.

Did he fuck up? Yea. Does he need to apologize/clarify his statements? Yea I think he should.

But this attempt to twist his answer as actively dunking on Tran is fcking stupid
 

Tommcatt

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He’s a black man, who was the face of the Star Wars revival and the first full face you saw in the reveal trailer.

The amount of insane vitriol he faced as a “black stormtrooper” is seared into my mind. He knows more than anyone how crazy people wanted a n*gger like him out of their beloved franchise.

He’s clearly speaking from his own experience and lacked the foresight to see how the story would be contextualized in the current Star Wars climate.

Did he fuck up? Yea. Does he need to apologize/clarify his statements? Yea I think he should.

But this attempt to twist his answer as actively dunking on Tran is fcking stupid
I've still got the image of BB8 as a "cuck ball" and Rey's staff as a BBC in my mind.
 

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If you're going to say people are acting ridiculous for thinking he is implying Kelly is mentally weak, you need to explain what you think he's trying to say.
first part of the quote (interviewer) references the good and bad of fandom (the bad uses Tran as a specific example).

Then moves to a new topic about negative fandoms and some people in these situations being weak minded (does not use specific example here). Then moves to example of strong minded person in the same or similar situation (and uses himself as a specific example).

edit: and for clarification because I know this will be brought up, the state of mind describes the persons “will” to actively read and believe all vitriol online about them as the quote states.

you could conclude both ways 1. That he was piggy-backing off this first mention of Tran to use a her as a reference for a weak minded person, or 2. That he excluded anyone in that example to show thoughtfulness (to not call out anyone). I think it’s more likely the second one as has been pointed out, he was one of the individuals to defend her against harassment. Also, the interviewer mentioned Tran, so if boyega wanted to specifically talk about her negatively he literally could have just mentioned her again in the next breath but didn’t. Of course he could’ve clarified in that moment as well and said “not talking about Tran here.” Either way we could get further clarification from boyega, but I’m just not seeing it. Poorly worded, and definitely less controversial than the daisy interview excerpts, but also she didn’t have malice so I don’t even know why the outrage was the way it was when education is an answer in that context, but I digress.
 
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T'Chakku

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Essentially being a minority means people generally won't care about your feelings enough to do anything. Look at the number of people who defend blackface every time it comes up, or the constant micro-aggressions / "casual" racism that makes up a lot of minority experience. "Man-up" might be a clunky way of saying it, but you do eventually have to sort of compartmentalize a lot of stuff.

Now, In the case of KMT I'm not sure how much compartmentalizing one can do in the face of a harassment campaign.
None of that has anything to do with the dumb shit faceless was posting.
 
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I've still got the image of BB8 as a "cuck ball" and Rey's staff as a BBC in my mind.
People conveniently forget the sheer magnitude of hatred John Boyega faced, when he joined Star Wars as a lead. He’s been so resilient so people think, “it probably wasn’t as bad as I remembered”.

It was worse than anything I’ve seen for any character.
 
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He’s a black man, who was the face of the Star Wars revival and the first full face you saw in the reveal trailer.

The amount of insane vitriol he faced as a “black stormtrooper” is seared into my mind. He knows more than anyone how crazy people wanted a n*gger like him out of their beloved franchise.

He’s clearly speaking from his own experience and lacked the foresight to see how the story would be contextualized in the current Star Wars climate.

Did he fuck up? Yea. Does he need to apologize/clarify his statements? Yea I think he should.

But this attempt to twist his answer as actively dunking on Tran is fcking stupid
Exactly this, thank you.
 

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Mods should close this thread. Some clickbait bullshit. And that person who tweeted it should be ashamed.
 

phonicjoy

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This thread is mortifyingly embarrassing. Let humans be humans for fuck's sake. Boyega is a 27 year old actor, not a goddamn political ambassador who has to diplomatically nail every sentence he utters. He's trying to harmoniously bridge the divide between fans in what he's saying, and he's going about it in an extremely clunky and ill advised way. Stop putting so much stock into it. The guy is tasked with answering a million questions a day, some lighthearted, some precarious, some politically charged, all slowly draining him and coming at him with little preparation. I assure you, if any one of you were in the same position you'd eventually catch your foot in your mouth too. That's what humans do. They make mistakes. They misspeak. Give some slack, jesus christ. If Tran is offended by it, Boyega can make amends and apologise to her himself privately.

The amount of toxicity and hatred spewing from this forum is disgraceful. Take a step back, recognise that these words aren't do or die. They're not altering the course of progressive social discourse. In the process of trying to defend Tran from the hateful and vitriolic shit being hurled at her on the internet, you yourselves are hurling hateful and vitriolic shit at Boyega.









This is some appalling shit right here.
couldn’t agree more.
 

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I'd ask where all this condemnation was in that Daisy Ridley thread but I know what it is lol deuces.

yeah for real what a weirdly insistent tone that thread had compared to this one. can't figure out exactly what the difference is here though
 
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Lmfao and you're the same person who claimed his career would flop and he's suddenly unlikable cause he dared to not like the direction finn went in TLJ. How'd I know you'd show up to shit on him?
honestly I really liked John before that article. His quotes in that article really rubbed me the wrong. As if he’s so much better than Pedro Pascal, Carl Weathers, and Giancarlo Esposito and he wouldn’t sully himself with something so far below him. I found it insulting. And I find these comments to be insulting and it just further proves what I thought about him after the previous article.
 

Sanka

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Boyega had the same thing happening to him when the movies first came out right? Suprising that he would about it like that after he experienced it firsthand himself.
 

Gunslinger

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ITT most people just look at title and post. Boyega didnt say anything like what the tweeter claims nor the TC. But so many people are jumping at him.
 

Desparadina

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like take a minute to honestly think about it, even it we were to take this interview at face value why in the hell would someone who was one of the few people from the cast to even defend Kelly turn around and call her weak?? Literally just the smallest bit of common sense would tell you...that comment isn't directed at Kelly for godsakes. Y'all stay looking for something to jump on this dude's back for while none of his white co-stars get NEARLY the same treatment.
 

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There really just needs to be a strict mega-OT for Star Wars at this point. A bajillion threads a day is bad enough on its own even without Era's trademark toxicity permeating everything.
 

AlexFlame116

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Well, the night's still young. Maybe Mark Hamill will tweet about the most inspiring Hitler quote he's memorized.
He was already upset about Luke's direction in TLJ and people immediately brought up some bad ideas he had during RotJ as a reason for why Mark should "stick to acting" and let the professionals handle character building.

Not using it as bait against TLJ, I'm just saying that many already thought bad of him long before TROS.
 

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Well, a rather large minority absolutely hated it, and we know members of the cast, such as Mark, did as well.

You're not going to get those people back on board unless they know it's not going to be like that. Just look how many people bowed out for Solo because of the taste TLJ left in their mouth.
The multiverse really needs to stop bleeding into each other like this.
 

Nerokis

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like take a minute to honestly think about it, even it we were to take this interview at face value why in the hell would someone who was one of the few people from the cast to even defend Kelly turn around and call her weak?? Literally just the smallest bit of common sense would tell you...that comment isn't directed at Kelly for godsakes. Y'all stay looking for something to jump on this dude's back for while none of his white co-stars get NEARLY the same treatment.
All of the following are true:

1). Boyega has stuck up for Tran in the past, and himself has been the victim of harassment, including of the racist variety.

2). In all likelihood, he and Tran are on very friendly terms, and he has a deep respect for her.

3). In responding to a question about the double edged sword that is social media, which specifically invoked what happened to Tran (harassment leading to her leaving social media), Boyega leaned on a toxic framework separating mentally strong people from mentally weak people. That was misguided on multiple levels, including in the sense that he inadvertently implied Tran’s response to her harassment indicated weakness.

Why is it difficult to process all this? Why are #1 and #2 being used to discount #3, and vice versa, when these ideas aren’t mutually exclusive whatsoever?

At the very least, his wording was bad, and it would be nice for him to clarify. No one should “cancel” him, this is hardly strong evidence that Boyega is garbage, and hopefully this controversy will pass soon enough. But this was a rather unfortunate misstep, and it shouldn’t be hard to admit that.
 

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Man, he really needs to take it down a notch. First the whole " I would never do Disney Plus" now this.

I still agree with him on Finn though
 

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People using this thread about fan toxicity of all threads to yet again relitigate the creative and artistic merit of TLJ is the most meta thing I've seen all day.
 

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There's video:


Yeaaaah this is not good
I don’t get the feeling at all that he’s saying Kelly is mentally weak. But by the transitive property, he actually is implying it, and I don’t think that was his intention, and I’d assume he’d apologize for the implication. The amount these folks are forced to talk, something imperfect is bound to slip out. I’m not personally going to crucify him for this slight faux pas.
 

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This thread is mortifyingly embarrassing. Let humans be humans for fuck's sake. Boyega is a 27 year old actor, not a goddamn political ambassador who has to diplomatically nail every sentence he utters. He's trying to harmoniously bridge the divide between fans in what he's saying, and he's going about it in an extremely clunky and ill advised way. Stop putting so much stock into it. The guy is tasked with answering a million questions a day, some lighthearted, some precarious, some politically charged, all slowly draining him and coming at him with little preparation. I assure you, if any one of you were in the same position you'd eventually catch your foot in your mouth too. That's what humans do. They make mistakes. They misspeak. Give some slack, jesus christ. If Tran is offended by it, Boyega can make amends and apologise to her himself privately.

The amount of toxicity and hatred spewing from this forum is disgraceful. Take a step back, recognise that these words aren't do or die. They're not altering the course of progressive social discourse. In the process of trying to defend Tran from the hateful and vitriolic shit being hurled at her on the internet, you yourselves are hurling hateful and vitriolic shit at Boyega.

Completely agree with this
 

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Not saying anything that isn't true there. If you're taking offense to me pointing out that a lot of his fans are African American, that had to do with how she's receiving racist hate even from another minority group due to the circumstances.
Nice job singling out Black People as the group that chucks out Racist commentary.

Surprised no actions been taken on this racist remark
 

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Sounds like the way men view their experience on social media as not feeling that threatened and apply it to how women react when they get death/rape/assault/etc threats in much greater numbers for doing so much as existing on the internet. Very stupid and ignorant thing to say about others' experiences.
 
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