Just Had The Worst Online Experience In 30 Years Of Gaming

Liquid Snake

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Nov 10, 2017
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Sup fam? So typically I don’t put myself in a position to experience online toxicity — simply because I don’t play multiplayer games, really ever. And on the rare occasions I do, I’ll simply toggle options in settings to mute everyone.

But that changed with the brilliant Vermintide 2 recently, and for those that have played the series, you know that, when playing the higher difficulties (in this case, Legend), you must be able to communicate at some level with your team. Think Left 4 Dead, that’s a similar dynamic here — cooperate and communicate tightly with your team, or everyone dies.

Today I entered a Legend game and encountered some very chatty players, which at first was fine. But then I sensed something was off. Some very whiny, nasally voices came over my headset and before I knew it, the string of profanity and absurd statements began to flow.

Now, let’s get some shit straight. I’m not easily offended and even good natured trash talk is cool with me, but there was a different tone here, like sociopaths who happily ran into each other and couldnt believe they found their best, disgusting friends at last. Among the topics broached in my 10 minutes of playing with these vile fucks was — how horrible and broken the game was (it’s not, by the way, it’s generally very polished), how the people who made it were “stupid Europeans with no morals, no wonder it sucks assholes”, constant screeching and high pitches laughs through the microphone followed by color commentary about parts of the female anatomy... well, you get the picture.

Thing is, these weren’t kids. I just ran into the lowest of the low in the gaming community and it was enough to make me nauseated.

And yes, I realize women and people with accents tend to experience this much more frequently, but god damn it really bummed me out. Not really sure why.

Thanks for letting me vent.
 

NSA

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Oct 27, 2017
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The number of multiplayer sessions I play with people doing bong rips is too damn high. It's all I can hear sometimes.

But, yeah, lots of assholes out there online.
 

neon_dream

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Dec 18, 2017
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Online gaming hit a critical mass of shittiness many years ago. I mute that garbage and I haven't looked back. It seems like the rest of the world agrees, seeing that ingame voice chat is dying and is largely replaced by Discord and whatnot.
 

SpokkX

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Oct 27, 2017
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I always (ALWAYS) mute all other players (except friends)

Had enough of hearing strangers even back in the Halo 2 days.

Nintendo suits me just fine here - i never have ti hear or see any formof strangers communication
 

Atolm

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Oct 25, 2017
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Nowadays I play R6 Siege on casual (with a friend on Discord) and we have both the chat disabled despite being a Team game were relaying information is vital. The amount of shit in the chat was just damaging our mental health.
 

MagicPhone

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Oct 25, 2017
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Was playing fortnite with my girl a couple weeks ago and ran into two racists in squads. At first they were saying the n-word a lot and I was like "I don't think they're allowed to say that word, but I'm not sure yet" then they put a decidedly hard R on it and started using racist words I don't ever hear, and it was obvious they were the worst. Very bad. We left them alone on the map and let them get murdered.
 

Aldi

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Oct 27, 2017
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I very rarely remove myself from private parties.

The only exception is Sea of Thieves. I have however come across some massive assholes in that game too. People shouting racist shit over the sound horn and a crew throwing insults at me becuase I refused to help them on a mission.

Nothing, nothing will top pre party Xbox live modern warfare. That was the pinnacle of online assholary.
 

Mifec

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Oct 25, 2017
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Thing is, these weren’t kids. I just ran into the lowest of the low in the gaming community and it was enough to make me nauseated.
Considering every single Trump voter is an uneducated racist there's sadly a high chance you'll run into people like this. Either that or 16yo gamerbro kids with right-ish leanings.
 

Balmung421

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Oct 25, 2017
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This shit bummed me out the other day while playing Destiny 2 on PC. I decided to have all the chat functions/voice comms on be default so I didn't have to opt in. Feeling like I was finally overcoming my social anxiety etc.

After one heroic strike of having those options enabled I turned them all back off.

I had a player chastise me for starting a boss encounter too early, and they would not chill out. I had to fumble through menus trying to figure out how to report someone, since I had no idea how to do it before. Just a stream of terrible terrible language, racism...it was all there.

Straight up bums me out that someone could be that awful.
 

MMarston

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Oct 27, 2017
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I never ever communicate with nor listen to anyone with a mic during multiplayer because of those reasons. Everything always goes straight to mute.

It's unfortunate because I want to play games like R6 Siege that almost necessitate it, but after a brief stint on that game on a free trial, I'm only reminded why I'm firm on that stance.
 

Vicious17

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Oct 29, 2017
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I own the game, but haven't played it yet. But, could you not have muted them? Obviously, these people were scum, and muting them wouldn't change that, but why listen to them for 10 whole minutes?
 

MMarston

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I own the game, but haven't played it yet. But, could you not have muted them? Obviously, these people were scum, and muting them wouldn't change that, but why listen to them for 10 whole minutes?
Never played the game either, but you'd be surprised what sort of games neglect to have a feature like that.

Mortal Kombat X and Injustice 2, for example. You'd think they'd have it considering the shit talk that tends to occur in fighters, but nope.
 

CallMeShaft

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Oct 25, 2017
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One of the reasons I don't play with groups nowadays. Just go solo and have everyone on mute. Don't have to put up with the bullshit that way.
 

Deleted member 19996

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And this is precisely why everyone I don't know remains muted and I only hop on voice chat with friends. Too many assholes ruin it for everyone.
 

FallenGrace

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Oct 27, 2017
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I always (ALWAYS) mute all other players (except friends)
This.

I don't mind some co-op games with strangers (Monster Hunter/Dark Souls nearly always fine, weird code of honor amongst most people with gestures there) but most the time I only play with friends anyway to lessen that issue.
 

Dervius

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Oct 28, 2017
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I highly recommend using something like LFG or Xbox's Clubs to find groups for things like SoT or Vermintide, yes there are still straight arseholes but it's easier to find like-minded individuals who genuinely want to play the game than through straight matchmaking.
 

Take5GiantSteps

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The number of multiplayer sessions I play with people doing bong rips is too damn high. It's all I can hear sometimes.

But, yeah, lots of assholes out there online.
I'll take bong rips over what the OP encountered.

That really sucks though, especially since it is required to play the game at a high-level. People suck.
 

dDASTARDLY

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Oct 28, 2017
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I feel you OP, I learned that lesson the hard way years ago on phantasy star online for the GameCube.

I want mad, just saddened by the sheer dedication those gamers had to spread hate since you couldn't talk, it was all drawing and symbols...

The next and last time was on Warhammer online...just a terrible experience.
 

XDevil666

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Oct 27, 2017
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Ah you should have played Gears Of War 1 back in the back day

Now that was an online experience!
 

Atisha

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Nov 28, 2017
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I highly recommend using something like LFG or Xbox's Clubs to find groups for things like SoT or Vermintide, yes there are still straight arseholes but it's easier to find like-minded individuals who genuinely want to play the game than through straight matchmaking.
This is good advice.
 

Taker34

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Oct 25, 2017
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That sounds horrible OP, I encountered a similar situation in Mount & Blade on PS4, by discovering that essentially the whole community is consisting of 4chan users. I wasn’t able to get into a single game without racist, Nazi, homophobic, right wing meme ingame chats. I also got invited into a PSN chat group which had a swastika as group photo + other worrying stuff on peoples profiles which I all reported (in one instance someone had a PSN profile banner which advocated killing of colored people; that person wasn’t perma banned by Sony by the way... they just removed his banner).
It’s a fucking shame because the game is very, very good but the constant immature and toxic environment made me play other games after a while.
 
Oct 29, 2017
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I am european, have no moral and i'm the happiest man on earth... because i'm an european with no moral.

Deal with it like i do and like those vrigins after 30 should have done in the 1st place to begin with! Like a virgin after 30, hey, playing online to be a man, like a viiiiirgin...
 

Mass Effect

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Oct 31, 2017
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Ah you should have played Gears Of War 1 back in the back day

Now that was an online experience!
Hilariously enough, Gears 1 was one of the tamer experiences I've had online. There are assholes, but most people only stuck with shit talking, not really vile hatred.

MW2 was one of the worst. Halo 3 could be bad.
 

Clydefrog

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Oct 25, 2017
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As much as I hate people being assholes on voice chat, there was one instance where I loved it: half-time in a CSGO game. For about 15 seconds before teams switched sides to counter-terrorist or terrorist, everyone (you and the other team) was able to talk to and hear each other on voice chat. It was either 2 seconds of people saying "good half" or, more likely, it was 15 seconds of pure pent-up, unvented rage, saltiness, randomness, you name it. But that was it; once the second half began, you went back to only hearing your own teammates on the mic. You couldn't help but laugh at what people have been wanting and waiting to say to you all half. It was 15 seconds of hilarity, IMO. Having to deal with that during the whole game would obviously be a different story.

Oh, this also happened for 15 seconds at the end of the game too.

CSGO got rid of it years ago though :(
 

Tetrinski

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Xbox Clubs is great to find players filtering toxicity. I'm on the LGTBIQ one as well as the one for my city and one for people interested in plastic arts. Almost never run into toxicity.

The worst are those games that don't let you silence people, like FIFA (not exactly toxicity, but it was specially bad during the Kinect days, I've heard couples fighting and people being yelled at by their parents for playing games all day because they didn't know the mic was on). In the particular case of FIFA, I can't understand how a game that combines football and videogames and attracts children, the worst possible combination, doesn't take better care of these matters.
 

Beatle

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Dec 4, 2017
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The rise of gaming is why crime is down in the US and much of the western world, these dicks now spend much of their time indoors instead of looking for trouble, so some good has come from it
 

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Yep, that's interacting with people online in pretty much any environment. The internet gave everyone a voice, and unfortunately a lot of those voices should've stayed silent.

I almost exclusively play online multiplayer, and if I'm not in a private party I'm not talking. Back in its infancy it was pretty good, I had so many great chats with/against random people in Gears 1, but yeah around the time COD blew up it all went to hell.
 

The GOAT

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Nov 2, 2017
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Yeah, some people are shitty. Sometimes you get a good group, sometimes you get asshats of the highest order. It's the ebb and flow of MP gaming.
 
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Liquid Snake

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As an European I must say that I'd be curious to know more about this. Was it US server or?
Yes, I’m in the US. Didn’t even understand the attempted insult (nor do I want to) towards Europeans. Never heard of it. Anyway, I’ve played with some really good French players on Vermintide 2, so I’m guessing the servers are fairly varied
 

Brokenrobot

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Jul 12, 2018
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I swore off public voice chat when I was in a Overwatch game and I heard a man screaming at his baby and threatening to "smash it's face in" because the baby was crying.
Bad world out there.
 
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Liquid Snake

Liquid Snake

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I swore off public voice chat when I was in a Overwatch game and I heard a man screaming at his baby and threatening to "smash it's face in" because the baby was crying.
Bad world out there.
Holy shit.


Wanted to add too that I’ve made some friends through playing Vermintide 2, as well.

I think since I’ve stayed away from competitive multiplayer since 2009 I wasn’t aware of how strangely depressing things could be.
 

trisbee

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Nov 17, 2017
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Was playing fortnite with my girl a couple weeks ago and ran into two racists in squads. At first they were saying the n-word a lot and I was like "I don't think they're allowed to say that word, but I'm not sure yet" then they put a decidedly hard R on it and started using racist words I don't ever hear, and it was obvious they were the worst. Very bad. We left them alone on the map and let them get murdered.
i commend your sir