I don't get peoples use of the word "phedophile" online, does it mean something different outside of Sweden and by default include criminal and heinous acts? If not, I would think the feeling towards a person being born with the mind wired that way more sad for than disgusted by.
Or If criminal activity is baked into the term, what is the term for a person just being unlucky and "born" with that sexual preference?
I don't care if you were born into or straight up have a desire to destroy the lives of children.
If you are an adult and attracted to children, and you try to take them sexually, you are a predator. Period!
There's plenty of evidence that shows that victims of sexual abuse sometimes never recover and the shame/pain manifests in ways that destroys their lives.
Now imagine how many folds the impact is if it's a child.
The fact that Spacey didn't deny the encounter tells me he is a pedophile. He knew the kid was underaged and took advantage of it.