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Wulfric

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,382
Howdy everyone :)

I remember filling this out in the old forum haha
  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) He/Him
  • Your sexual orientation? Gay
  • Where Are You From? Good 'ol Midwest USA
  • Where Do You Live? Still here :3
  • How Old Are you? 24
  • Favorite Type of Music? K-Pop (Red Velvet, Girls' Generation, SHINee)
  • Profession or Career interest? Not sure yet
  • Favorite video game(s)? Final Fantasy, Guild Wars, Castlevania SotN
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Drawing and painting, furry, going to museums
Recently I came back from my second furry convention, meeting lots of online friends and definitely getting out of my comfort zone. I grew up sheltered AF but I'm trying to expand my experiences nonetheless.
 

TheAbsolution

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,607
Atlanta, GA
Happy birthday!

And happy holidays to everyone, I hope you can spend these times with special people :)
Thanks y’all, it was a pretty chill day! (I celebrate it actually next week haha)
Hopefully in 25 years, you'll look back and be glad you survived the bad times and celebrate the good.
I hope so too! And for the record, I don’t think it’s been all bad lol
My birthday's in a few weeks, and let's just say I have fond, foggy memories of being 25.
Ooooh, do tell. Sounds scandalous. :p
Happy birthday!!! I hope you enjoy your day :)

I'll turn 29 next week... 🙃
Thanks, and happy early birthday to you too!
How are you feeling about it?
Fake edit: Thanks Raxus ! :)
 

Tanooki

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,207
Canada
Got wasted at my fwb's Christmas dinner and gave his cousin's a TedTalk about why we should be dating.

Gonna kms now. Goodbye.
 

pixelation

Member
Oct 26, 2017
3,180
Weird question incoming, have you ever paid for an escort?, would you ever pay for one?, if you ever paid for one how was the experience?, and if you wouldn't pay for one why wouldn't you?
 

IvorB

Member
Oct 28, 2017
1,783
He didn't get naked during the first 3 minutes of the show like I anticipated, so I rate it 0/10 stars and am cancelling my Netflix subscription.
There wasn't enough Cavill nudity but the few partial flashes we got were pretty good. Normally they shave the male actors for some reason so it was great to see some body hair on display.

Well, I turn 25 tomorrow. I have absolutely no idea how to feel about that other than I’m on the upswing currently and I hope the next 25 go better than the last haha! Happy birthday to me! 🎉🎉🎉
Happy Birthday!

The hair does look a little goofy. Maybe I'm used to seeing him without that do.
I really don't understand how you can put that wig on someone and be okay with it.

hair is wonderful -~-
The body hair is awesome! Bad wig not so much.
 

umop 3pisdn

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,562
Weird question incoming, have you ever paid for an escort?, would you ever pay for one?, if you ever paid for one how was the experience?, and if you wouldn't pay for one why wouldn't you?
I’m not really into the general policy of paying for companionship or sex but I occasionally find the idea of availing myself to a ‘professional’ to be kind of hot so to answer this question idk.
 

Thequietone

Member
Oct 26, 2017
1,551
I tried hiring an escort but they said no because they didn't accept clients that have never been with an escort before. Anyways I'd be too scared it was a cop trying to arrest me.
 

Wulfric

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,382
This is a little embarrassing, but here goes. How does a 24-year old with pretty much no relationship experience begin to dip their toes in the water?

I've been on one Grindr date that didn't go anywhere. I go out to play DDR, D&D nights, and that's about it besides work. So it's not like I'm cooped up at home all the time.
 
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Nigthwizard

The Fallen
Oct 27, 2017
282
Costa Rica
This is a little embarrassing, but here goes. How does a 24-year old with pretty much no relationship experience begin to dip their toes in the water?

I've been on one Grindr date that didn't go anywhere. I go out to play DDR, D&D nights, and that's about it besides work.
On my case I used Growlr, that's how I met my previous and my current bf.
 

TRUE ORDER

Member
Oct 30, 2017
2,923
This is a little embarrassing, but here goes. How does a 24-year old with pretty much no relationship experience begin to dip their toes in the water?

I've been on one Grindr date that didn't go anywhere. I go out to play DDR, D&D nights, and that's about it besides work. So it's not like I'm cooped up at home all the time.
Don't be embarrased!! I'm a week away to be 29 and never been on a relationship...
Don't really know if I have bad luck, somewhat demading or maybe it's the karma annoying the hell out of me but oh well I assume that the right time will eventually come lol
 

pixelation

Member
Oct 26, 2017
3,180
I’m not really into the general policy of paying for companionship or sex but I occasionally find the idea of availing myself to a ‘professional’ to be kind of hot so to answer this question idk.
Got it, never say never then... :P
I tried hiring an escort but they said no because they didn't accept clients that have never been with an escort before. Anyways I'd be too scared it was a cop trying to arrest me.
lol, you told them, that it was gonna be your first time with an escort or they asked you?. Still that is a weird stance to take! (the escort).

I have had one escort experience and it was pretty hot I won't lie, I chose to go with an escort because that way I could play out my fantasies. He was really nice and appeared to be really into me (he liked my penis so much that he asked me for permission to take a picture of it). He asked if he could do things to me (that I didn't mention and don't like, I am not a bottom) I said no and that was that. He is hot though, 6.1, muscular with a bit of a pot belly, bearded, black hair and facial hair, nice penis (not that long but thick), and strong and super horny lol. He asked all kinds of questions, am I single?, he said that he would ask me out if he didn't have a boyfriend and even offered me a discounted rate if I ever chose to go to him again. All in all a very pleasent and hot experience I'd say.
 

Thequietone

Member
Oct 26, 2017
1,551
Got it, never say never then... :P

lol, you told them, that it was gonna be your first time with an escort or they asked you?. Still that is a weird stance to take! (the escort).

I have had one escort experience and it was pretty hot I won't lie, I chose to go with an escort because that way I could play out my fantasies. He was really nice and appeared to be really into me (he liked my penis so much that he asked me for permission to take a picture of it). He asked if he could do things to me (that I didn't mention and don't like, I am not a bottom) I said no and that was that. He is hot though, 6.1, muscular with a bit of a pot belly, bearded, black hair and facial hair, nice penis (not that long but thick), and strong and super horny lol. He asked all kinds of questions, am I single?, he said that he would ask me out if he didn't have a boyfriend and even offered me a discounted rate if I ever chose to go to him again. All in all a very pleasent and hot experience I'd say.
They asked and I told them the truth.
 

Dalik

Member
Nov 1, 2017
2,332
This is a little embarrassing, but here goes. How does a 24-year old with pretty much no relationship experience begin to dip their toes in the water?

I've been on one Grindr date that didn't go anywhere. I go out to play DDR, D&D nights, and that's about it besides work. So it's not like I'm cooped up at home all the time.
Not sure if it's the right advice or not but I've met my boyfriends online
MMOs/furries community ^^
 

Wulfric

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,382
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WhySoDevious

Member
Oct 31, 2017
3,278
Hey everyone!

Got a question that maybe someone here knows the answer.

I live in a country that does not have same-sex marriage.

Is there any country that would allow two same-sex foreigners to get married?

I know the marriage wouldn’t be recognized here, but maybe someday.

There would be paperwork and stuff and permissions that hopefully can be handled through post and there wouldn’t be a need for a lengthy stay at the country to get it all processed.

Has anyone done any research into this?
 

lenovox1

Member
Oct 26, 2017
4,158
Hey everyone!

Got a question that maybe someone here knows the answer.

I live in a country that does not have same-sex marriage.

Is there any country that would allow two same-sex foreigners to get married?

I know the marriage wouldn’t be recognized here, but maybe someday.

There would be paperwork and stuff and permissions that hopefully can be handled through post and there wouldn’t be a need for a lengthy stay at the country to get it all processed.

Has anyone done any research into this?
Yes, the USA.

Every city and county will have different rules, so Google "marriage license <city>" for more information.

In Las Vegas, for example, all you need is your ID (or passport) and $60 for a marriage license. Then you can get married with no waiting period.
 

Tanooki

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,207
Canada
I just finished making a scrapbook for the loml, and there’s something really disheartening about seeing how happy he was in the summer. I feel like he’s far more miserable now, and I can’t help but blame myself. :( It almost makes me want to let him go, so he can get back to whatever it was that made him so happy 6 months ago.
 

N7Commander01

Member
Jan 2, 2020
13
Tokyo, Japan
Hello Everyone!

Finally signed up, so I thought I’d introduce myself

Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Male
  • Your sexual orientation? Gay
  • Where Are You From? Wales
  • Where Do You Live? Tokyo
  • How Old Are you? 24 (25 next month)
  • Favorite Type of Music? Pop/Electronic/Soul
  • Profession or Career interest? Brand Ambassador
  • Favorite video game(s) any RPG, mainly Dragon Age
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Whisky and other spirits! Also, travelling around Japan when I’m not at work
 

Tanooki

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,207
Canada
I just finished making a scrapbook for the loml, and there’s something really disheartening about seeing how happy he was in the summer. I feel like he’s far more miserable now, and I can’t help but blame myself. :( It almost makes me want to let him go, so he can get back to whatever it was that made him so happy 6 months ago.
Yeah... so... I ended it. Things were boiling over, and the guilt of taking his happiness was killing me. I feel so numb right now. I know it was the right decision, and he will be happy again soon enough. I don’t know where I go from here, though.
 

Tanooki

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,207
Canada
I'm so sorry for you, I hope you can get through this.
Thank you <3

My handler messaged me this morning and said he will have an abroad contract prepared for me shortly if I'm willing, and I quickly accepted the offer. Hopefully I'll get the briefing soon, and get to leave before the month is up. I really need a restart this year. I'm gonna have to find some way to distract myself in the meantime, though.
 

Sophie

Member
Oct 28, 2017
120
127.0.0.1
Could I have an invite to the Discord too?

Hello Everyone!

Finally signed up, so I thought I’d introduce myself

Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Male
  • Your sexual orientation? Gay
  • Where Are You From? Wales
  • Where Do You Live? Tokyo
  • How Old Are you? 24 (25 next month)
  • Favorite Type of Music? Pop/Electronic/Soul
  • Profession or Career interest? Brand Ambassador
  • Favorite video game(s) any RPG, mainly Dragon Age
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Whisky and other spirits! Also, travelling around Japan when I’m not at work
Hi, and welcome!!
 

MasaDrew

Member
Jun 20, 2019
60
Feels like really awful timing mentioning this given the above conversation, but tragedy did strike over the holidays regarding a date from Grindr:


Hairstylist named Kevin Bacon killed, eaten by Grindr date from hell: cops

Goes without saying that some reservation should always be there when it comes to online dating of hookups. And while you can never be too sure if something doesn't feel right its best to follow your gut. Interestingly enough the killer has shown up on my People you may know on FB. It's surreal.

Unrelated but I met my BF via Hinge. We've been dating for 3 months now and are just taking our time. He lives in Chattanooga and works most weekends as an emergency vet. Things are finally going to keikaku.
 

RatskyWatsky

Pesky Therizinosaurus
Moderator
Oct 25, 2017
8,763
Feels like really awful timing mentioning this given the above conversation, but tragedy did strike over the holidays regarding a date from Grindr:


Hairstylist named Kevin Bacon killed, eaten by Grindr date from hell: cops

Goes without saying that some reservation should always be there when it comes to online dating of hookups. And while you can never be too sure if something doesn't feel right its best to follow your gut. Interestingly enough the killer has shown up on my People you may know on FB. It's surreal.

Unrelated but I met my BF via Hinge. We've been dating for 3 months now and are just taking our time. He lives in Chattanooga and works most weekends as an emergency vet. Things are finally going to keikaku.
FUCK
 

Pekola

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,024
( •̀ω•́ ) 🖤
Always make sure someone knows of your location and who you’re going to be with.

There’s people out there that care about you, and we have to keep each other safe.

୧(﹒︠ᴗ﹒︡)୨
 

pixelation

Member
Oct 26, 2017
3,180
Feels like really awful timing mentioning this given the above conversation, but tragedy did strike over the holidays regarding a date from Grindr:


Hairstylist named Kevin Bacon killed, eaten by Grindr date from hell: cops

Goes without saying that some reservation should always be there when it comes to online dating of hookups. And while you can never be too sure if something doesn't feel right its best to follow your gut. Interestingly enough the killer has shown up on my People you may know on FB. It's surreal.

Unrelated but I met my BF via Hinge. We've been dating for 3 months now and are just taking our time. He lives in Chattanooga and works most weekends as an emergency vet. Things are finally going to keikaku.
Fuck that is horrible, I wonder if he got cat fished because the monster isn't attractive at all.
 

MasaDrew

Member
Jun 20, 2019
60
Always make sure someone knows of your location and who you’re going to be with.

There’s people out there that care about you, and we have to keep each other safe.

୧(﹒︠ᴗ﹒︡)୨
When I was hoing and heading somewhere unknown my roommate and best friend were getting all the evidence. Face pic, address, GPS, known birth marks, names and aliases. If I'm gonna die i'm making it verrrry hard for the guy to get away with it.

Fuck that is horrible, I wonder if he got cat fished because the monster isn't attractive at all.
Doubt he was catfished, according to the roommate Bacon knew what the man looked like.

You and I may not find him attractive but that has little relevance. I know guys that look like him and make proverbial bank at circuit parties and bear runs. "9/10 in the room may not find ya hot but there's atleast 1 person that thinks your a snack"
 

IvorB

Member
Oct 28, 2017
1,783
A bit LTTP but 'happy new year', all! Hope 2020 is magical, fulfilling and sexy for all of you.
 

pixelation

Member
Oct 26, 2017
3,180
When I was hoing and heading somewhere unknown my roommate and best friend were getting all the evidence. Face pic, address, GPS, known birth marks, names and aliases. If I'm gonna die i'm making it verrrry hard for the guy to get away with it.



Doubt he was catfished, according to the roommate Bacon knew what the man looked like.

You and I may not find him attractive but that has little relevance. I know guys that look like him and make proverbial bank at circuit parties and bear runs. "9/10 in the room may not find ya hot but there's atleast 1 person that thinks your a snack"
Yeah I know, I myself have become very attracted to dudes that you wouldn't consider traditionally attractive ha.
 

X05

Member
Oct 25, 2017
462
Happy belated holidays everyone!!

Also didn't realize there was a discord, wouldn't mind an invite :x

This is a little embarrassing, but here goes. How does a 24-year old with pretty much no relationship experience begin to dip their toes in the water?

I've been on one Grindr date that didn't go anywhere. I go out to play DDR, D&D nights, and that's about it besides work. So it's not like I'm cooped up at home all the time.
Don't sweat it too much, I turned 33 a little over a month ago, and started dating again last year after many (many) years of not doing so. You are gonna stumble, it's gonna hurt, but you are going to learn and grow from it, and it's worth it in the end.
And this is coming from someone that fell really, *really* hard for a guy last year who ended up tearing my heart into pieces and still not 100% over it