The concept of a gay couple is too alien for my muslim parents. They will probably never understand it. And when they somehow would, it would still be a taboo thing. We would never talk about it. And I don't want that either.
I haven't been to many gayclubs myself by the way. I'm not very active in the gay scene. I went to a gay sauna once though......never again.
I saw this great documentary called "a jihad of love" about reconciling the Muslim faith with being gay, it was very interesting, and far more positive than most docs about Muslim gays. Still change in Muslim communities seems practically impossible in the near future.