Speaking of Gay Rights;
Sigh, I hope things works out for the best.When the country's highest court ruled the civil code's definition of marriage as being between a man and a woman was unconstitutional, it gave parliament two years to legislate on same-sex unions and set Taiwan on the path to become the first nation in Asia to legalise gay marriage.
However, progress on implementing the law stalled following inaction from the ruling Democratic Progressive party and a groundswell of opposition by an anti-gay movement driven by huge financial support from conservative and Christian backers.
Equality did not win the vote but the government said that the referendum results wouldn't impact the highest court's 2017 decision to legalise same-sex marriage. https://www.sbs.com.au/news/taiwan-voters-reject-same-sex-marriageSpeaking of Gay Rights;
Uncertainty grips gay people in Taiwan as same-sex marriage goes to the vote
Sigh, I hope things works out for the best.
Congratulations. Remembering to live your life for yourself is extremely important and something I think more people should keep in mind.
Congratulations.
Your sister is right. You only have one life and you gotta live for you. Be happy.
First off, congratulations on coming out to your family! It takes measurable amounts of courage to do so. Your mom and sisters reactions are wonderful as your fathers is typical I feel. Regardless of his short sighted opinion, there is nothing wrong with you. Though ignorance can be cured, unlike being gay. He'll come around eventually.
Wishing you the best and live your best life possible. Live for you and only you, and make YOU happy before everyone else. This is your time to live your truth.
gay insta is wayyyyy too many dudes all posting the same variations of pics at fire island with the hashtags #gayfireisland #gaylife #gaytravel #gayabs #gayinspo #gayfit #gaygym #gaybeach #travelgay #speedos etc etc
it's...annoying to say the least
I had my first threesome this morning, it was overrated.
Probably because the other two were bi tops and no interaction between those two.
No, no kissing, only a little bit sucking from one dude to anotherWait, you mean that they had no interaction with each other? Not even kissing or anything like that?
gay insta is wayyyyy too many dudes all posting the same variations of pics at fire island with the hashtags #gayfireisland #gaylife #gaytravel #gayabs #gayinspo #gayfit #gaygym #gaybeach #travelgay #speedos etc etc
it's...annoying to say the least
Nahhhh. Gay Insta has never made me die laughing before.
No, no kissing, only a little bit sucking from one dude to another
I knew one guy ( the one who did some sucking), he found the other guy randomly on grindr because he really wanted to try a threesome. I guess if one of them was vers it would be much hotter.That sounds... uneventful. Did you know these guys or were they just random hookups?
Threesomes are usually much more engaging than that, in my experience. The best ones are when all 3 parties are really into each other.
Thanks for the advice! The thing is, we talked about it, and I'm not sure if he's prepared to deal with my shit since we aren't really anything serious yet, as it should be, I mean two months aren't really anything. It's more that I think that he is becoming tired of me complicating what shouldn't really be a problem. I mean it certainly won't be the end of the world if we break up now as opposed to years down the line when it's serious, it's just that I'm frustrated that I could potentially mess up something in such a stupid way at such an early stage, it makes me really afraid of how could I handle future relationships if this one comes to an end. It seems I need to do some personal growth and I'm not sure if he's willing to wait for me.Sleepwalker, you've been with him for two months. He is obviously attracted to you and your body. You don't have to be self-conscious around him.
Talk with him about your issues. If he is kind, he will understand and help you through your insecurities. Be transparent. If you are not satisfied with your body, try to hit the gym.
Also kinda agree with your boyfriend about the alcohol. You don't want to associate your sex life with that substance.
A relationship isn't all about sex. You are in this together. Help eachother become better persons. But you need to talk, identify the issues and work through them together.
Due to the way Instagram works, it's unfortunately the most effective way to catch followers and show up on the Search & Explore page. Of course, none of that is actually important unless you're job involves social media in some aspect and page metrics actually mean money to you, so I think most gays are just copying what they see.
Hashtag dumps belong in the comment section only.
However yesterday, we were making out and started to really get into it until he tried to take my shirt off and I said I'd rather keep it on. He was ok with it but I immediately started thinking about how stupid I was with being coy with him seeing me shirtless literally seconds after sucking him off lol.
That actually sounds ideal, honestly.I had my first threesome this morning, it was overrated.
Probably because the other two were bi tops and no interaction between those two.
Wish I had more gay friends in real life,, well ANY. Since leaving university it's so hard to meet other gay people easily! There's a gay climbing group in my city. Might join that as I've always wanted to do indoor climbing. lmao
See a boardgame group would be soooo up my alley. I checked meetup out a year ago and it seemed generally dead. Might have another look now! Yeah guess it is all about finding a few friends then going from there to make more!How so
I made a few gay friends from a Meetup gay boardgame group, then they introduced me to some other gay friends.
I think I now hangout with my gay friends much more than straight friends, like 80% vs 20%
Don't search boardgame group, search LGBT groups and join those active ones that host board game sessions or other social activities.See a boardgame group would be soooo up my alley. I checked meetup out a year ago and it seemed generally dead. Might have another look now! Yeah guess it is all about finding a few friends then going from there to make more!
As a bi guy, I reckon it shows a pretty healthy mix of guys and gals but it's also the one dating app everyone uses in my area so ymmv.Is tinder a thing? I wanna get away from Grindr for something a little more relationship oriented but I dunno what else there is. Preferably match-based to cut down on unsolicited pushy messages.
Nothing useful to add tbh, just wanted to say I hope it goes well <3So next month I see my boyfriend's family. First time I've met them, and despite being with my boyfriend for like... 5.5 years, it's only earlier this year they found out we weren't 'just friends.' Typical Texas family, bf was in the closet until this summer, you know how it goes.
So, uhh, any tips on meeting your same gender partner's family?
gay insta is wayyyyy too many dudes all posting the same variations of pics at fire island with the hashtags #gayfireisland #gaylife #gaytravel #gayabs #gayinspo #gayfit #gaygym #gaybeach #travelgay #speedos etc etc
it's...annoying to say the least
Oooh nice!! Sweet and hot sounds like a great combo, best of luck!I've been unbanned hoorah!
In other news, I might have a boyfriend soon, my first boyfriend too :) been seeing this guy for a few weeks and he's super sweet and super hot :)
Ayyy fellow WV'ian! Yeah dating in WV is just dumb. Dating apps are just faceless profiles looking for a hookup, and it's never particularly safe to talk to someone at a bar (at least in my experience). I'm actually in OH now but I frequently visit family in WV. Where I live now isn't much better, lol. I've met a couple friends on Grindr and Growlr tho.
Is tinder a thing? I wanna get away from Grindr for something a little more relationship oriented but I dunno what else there is. Preferably match-based to cut down on unsolicited pushy messages.
Are you in a decently-sized city? Try OK Cupid. I've heard people complain that actual dating sites take too much time because they ask a lot of personality, career, and recreational input initially, but I mean, you're trying to get away from that impulsive, disposable aspect of hookup apps, so... put in the work. I went on quite a few very nice dates and eventually met my husband there.
Oh someone else from WV. A rarity <3. I know I shouldn't expect much from West Virginia guys but its a serious train wreck. Granted everyone who is on dating apps in WV/MD have slept with one another or are incredibly creepy soooo I tend to just stay to myself.
Ohio isn't much better? I am losing faith haha. Wishing you the best though! Theres gotta be someone out there for all of us.
Lol, right?? It's a bummer cause I actually find the southern accent to be kinda nice, but alas.
I've heard Columbus has a pretty nice "scene". I don't spend too much time there, so I can't personally say. The guys on Grindr and Growlr in NE Ohio tho are...yikes. Lol. Like I said I've met a few friends but no one I'd be interested in a real relationship with. I'm moving to NC soon so maybe better luck there lol
Congratulations! I know how hard it can be to lose a lot of weight and how great it can feel to (re)discover what it feels like to be in a body thats so much more lightweight. (Unfortunately for me I also know how it feels to regain all the weight you lost plus some, lol.) Keep at it its worth it!I weighed under 100KG this morning! This feels so weird, it's been so long since I was still skinny.
Do there exist any hot gay Buddhist men who drive a motorcycle. I'd also accept a bisexual surfer or pansexual rock climber. K thnx.