yeah. but also the amount of messages i get now compared to last time i used it doubled LOL
like bitch, i just installed the app. are you a bot or what.
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like bitch, i just installed the app. are you a bot or what.
oh absolutely - the fresh meat syndrome is real.
also the guys visiting home for christmas are like "heyyyyyy" and I'm like "I've been here forever."
Ack, what an embarrassing omission!
Edit: Also surely Tim Hecker must have a role in the revolution, for aesthetic reasons. Through him we musically remember past death and our own deaths. (Really I'm just thought crawling things I really like, including the aesthetic 'pointlessness' of abstract philosophical theology. I'm feeling a lot more myself.)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sHjm5U4mjdo
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A guy I had a crush on years ago just discovered I'm gay. I was soooooo obsessed by him. He's also from Kosovo and had a girfriend back then. I always fantasized about him and his thick soccer thighs and handsome face. But I never made it clear that I liked him. I was not out back then and I thought he was straight
Well, now he's discovered that I'm gay, he tells me he always had a crush on me as well. And that he still likes me.
But I told him that I'm with someone. He still wants to meet...
And he still seems to have a girlfriend.
I'm not going to do anything. But I secretly want to see him naked. Maybe I'll fish for nudes.
Well, now he's discovered that I'm gay, he tells me he always had a crush on me as well. And that he still likes me.
But I told him that I'm with someone. He still wants to meet...
And he still seems to have a girlfriend.
I'm not going to do anything. But I secretly want to see him naked. Maybe I'll fish for nudes.
Yeaaaahhh, I'd leave this one alone, personally. Situations like this almost never end well and even if you do end up seeing him naked, well, sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality, you know?
Yeah I wouldn't touch that with a 10 foot pole. Even being in an open marriage some dudes think that means I'll climb on top of them even if their relationship doesn't allow for that and yikes. No thanks. That's trouble just waiting to happen.
You know, as gays we sort of curtail common conceptions of heteronormative living.
Which is cute and nice. Until you consider that a lot of us see other men's bodies as commodities, and consistently push the boundaries of consent with the tools given to us by modern living.
Just sayin' 🤐
Which is cute and nice. Until you consider that a lot of us see other men's bodies as commodities, and consistently push the boundaries of consent with the tools given to us by modern living.
Just sayin' 🤐
He sent me messages last saturday night. Asking me if I was alone. He just finished partying and wanted to visit me.
I told him NO, not interested. And I had my bf lying next to me.
What's with these "heterosexuals" thinking gay men are so easy to score*
Paying him attention was a bad idea. I only told him that I had a crush on him yeeaars ago. That doesn't mean I want to have sex with him now. And he has a gf.
I asked him politely to go to his gf.
*(I would've invited him over if I would be single tho hehe)
I told him NO, not interested. And I had my bf lying next to me.
What's with these "heterosexuals" thinking gay men are so easy to score*
Paying him attention was a bad idea. I only told him that I had a crush on him yeeaars ago. That doesn't mean I want to have sex with him now. And he has a gf.
I asked him politely to go to his gf.
*(I would've invited him over if I would be single tho hehe)
I had something very interesting said to me (it was actually a text message) and a conversation which made me feel both flattered and a bit like wait... I'm not sure how I feel about that.
There's this guy who is bi who texted me the other day that the reason why he wanted to top, and top me (I mostly top) was because he really wanted to sex with a woman, hence he is in "topping mode." I've been telling him that there are women who are into penetrative sex (penetrating their male partners) as well... and for some reason it feels like this is playing a bit into gender roles/stereotypes? It also makes me feel like well he wants to have sex with women but since that didn't happen, I'm the next thing that's available? I dunno... lol I told him he should go and seek sexual relationships with women, as per his needs but said to this that it was more difficult with women and overall it's easier to have sex with men, like me. So I'm just thinking to myself "ok..." I think those are some very outdated views about female sexuality and men being perceived as more horny and easier to sex.
In media what 2 (or more) characters were written as probably/could easily be seen as gay without going over?
Remembering one of the too many podcast I listen to sparked this as they question with the answer of. Rory and Paris of Gilmore Girls
Remembering one of the too many podcast I listen to sparked this as they question with the answer of. Rory and Paris of Gilmore Girls
I just stumbled in here again, and though I haven't posted in a billion trillion years, I love Hecker. That is all.
I love Netflix's social media person. They're the only person stanning harder for Carol than me.
This Christmas watch the best, and gayest, Christmas film ever. Watch Carol.
I really didn't like this movie at all. I saw it after Blue is the Warmest Color, and totally felt like this was uninteresting and dull. I couldn't sympathize with Carol at all, unlike both characters from the other movie.
Rachel wiez has played queer in 2 out of her last 3 films, I think her and Daniel Craig probably do Hollywood sex parties if she keeps this up
Go listen to "Honest". Album was made by queer social media/YT person Eric Taxxon. Check out the twitter as well, be prepared for gorgeous nudes (including wieners) at times. (Link me up, Scotty!)
(I'm so smitten with "Honest" ahhh! What a feel-good song, just the right mood for lonely (or not so lonely) gay peeps imo.)
<3 WhatsApp? Or do you feel like introducing me to the mystery that is Discord?
Ha, Discord is actually pretty intuitive once you get used to it. I've had an account for like 2 years now, but only started using it within the last few months.
To be honest, I just haven't had the will to cross the threshold yet, and I'm not yet sure that I have the will now :p
What are people going to do post-facebook (messenger) since facebook the company is trash? I can't really get with twitter as social media even though it's the source of like most good memes now.
What are people going to do post-facebook (messenger) since facebook the company is trash? I can't really get with twitter as social media even though it's the source of like most good memes now.
Y'all should check out the Trans Language Primer. It's a great resource, and good for sharing with cis folks who might be wary of trying to understand trans folks because they don't have the language with which to do so.
Also, I love you all. Big hugs to all us queers who survived the holidays. Shit was tough for me, as always, but I made it. <3
https://www.translanguageprimer.org/
Also, I love you all. Big hugs to all us queers who survived the holidays. Shit was tough for me, as always, but I made it. <3
https://www.translanguageprimer.org/
I can't keep up with busy Discord servers. It drives some part of me up the wall and makes my anxiety flare something fierce.
I just like talking to people one to one anyway. 💁♀️
In other news, I'm so glad that emoji finally work here. 😭😭😭
Same. For private group chats, I love it, but the constant notifications from larger servers are too much, even when they're muted. I have like this constant urge to check off every little tickbox that shows up.
You do you.
Yeah. It's the same exact feeling I get from open world games with icons all over the map.
Hahahaha... yup.
Or unmarked quests. Mass Effect 3 killed me long before the ending because every time I went to the Citadel, my character would like pick up fifty new quests from walking around and I'd just be like "Ahhhhhhh!"
This is me as well. I generally get bored as well as anxious. ha
How old are you, if I may ask. You don't have to say the actual number, but like early 20s, mid 20s, etc.
What made you want to come out this time? (I'm about your age.)
Over the past week, I've gotten offers from literally 5 different guys to either sleep with their boyfriends while they watch or be a third for their threesome and it's got me confounded. Not that the idea of doing either particularly bothers me, just the fact that they all chose to ask me during this specific time period, unprompted. Are some of my gay friends telling guys to hit me up for things like this? Do I give off a vibe that says "Let me bang/get banged by your man"? I've been losing sleep over this lol.
Hey everyone, i'm new to the boards. So I thought it was appropriate to do the IBQ.
- Your gender? Your sexual identity? Cis Female
- Your sexual orientation? Lesbian
- Where Are You From? Brazil
- Where Do You Live? Brazil
- How Old Are you? 22
- Favorite Type of Music? Indie rock, some pop, 80s music
- Profession or Career interest? I work as a bartender.
- Favorite video game(s)? Uncharted, Spider-Man, Super Mario, Tomb Raider
- What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Playing and watching soccer, biking, skating, watching movies, listen to music, hanging out with friends.
I use it on my pc and my phone. If a channel is too hectic I usually leave or put it on mute.
Hey gang, my first post here might be a bit of a doozy. I consider myself an ally and a Q in LGBTQ (recently realizing, it still hasn't stuck with me). It's a moral dilemma, and one that I feel odd about, and rather would not ask Gaming for well.. obvious reasons.
I'm really interested in Dragon Quest XI and I really enjoyed everything about what I've seen and heard about it. But I'm conflicted due to the composer Sugiyama who is a war crime denier and anti-LGBTQ to the extent where he laughed at and dismissed the suicide rate of young folks in the community.
I've usually had an easy stance on stuff like this, where I just straight up don't support the individual (kanye west for example) or a corporation (Chic-Fil-A). Or games like Last Nite, Kingdomcome deliverance or now CDPR after their poor attempt (or lackthereof) of ass covering after several transphobic "jokes". It's easy for me to write them off. Where as here, it's seemingly just the composer, even though it's just one person, their presence is felt all throughout due to the OST, it's inescapable.
I'm conflicted, and I guess I'm curious where other likeminded people stand on topics like this. I feel like I'm being selfish and a traitor if I play this game because of this vile person.
I'm really interested in Dragon Quest XI and I really enjoyed everything about what I've seen and heard about it. But I'm conflicted due to the composer Sugiyama who is a war crime denier and anti-LGBTQ to the extent where he laughed at and dismissed the suicide rate of young folks in the community.
I've usually had an easy stance on stuff like this, where I just straight up don't support the individual (kanye west for example) or a corporation (Chic-Fil-A). Or games like Last Nite, Kingdomcome deliverance or now CDPR after their poor attempt (or lackthereof) of ass covering after several transphobic "jokes". It's easy for me to write them off. Where as here, it's seemingly just the composer, even though it's just one person, their presence is felt all throughout due to the OST, it's inescapable.
I'm conflicted, and I guess I'm curious where other likeminded people stand on topics like this. I feel like I'm being selfish and a traitor if I play this game because of this vile person.
Happy new year everyone!
I'm not quite sure how to handle this, but remember that a game is not the work of just one person, also the west doesn't get the original soundtrack since he's an ass about it. So it's not like you'll hear his music, I hope it helps.
I'm not quite sure how to handle this, but remember that a game is not the work of just one person, also the west doesn't get the original soundtrack since he's an ass about it. So it's not like you'll hear his music, I hope it helps.
Unfortunately, he also essentially owns a third of the series and gets royalties and first refusal on just about everything that comes out of it, on top of being a massive prick. Normally it'd be easier to separate art from the "artist," but when it comes to DQ he's basically attached to the whole franchise.
And for what little its worth, everyone got the same godawful soundtrack for DQXI, but at least there's a PC version you can mod.
Skip DQXI. There are plenty of other good games out there, Sugiyama shouldn't get one penny from us, and that episode's OST is atrocious.
I'm gonna be a bit pragmatic here for a second.
In this particular case, I think buying it or not is inconsequential. Dragon Quest is a multi-million selling franchise JUST in japan, so abstaining will NOT make any sort of difference, except a personal one.
The way we live now, there's no purely ethical comsuption of things. Regardless of how much we want it to be the case.
Ultimately, there is NOTHING us here in the other side of the world can do about Sugiyama except raise awareness. But buying the game or not is more like a drop-in-a-bucket kind of thing.
So I wouldn't judge you if ultimately bought the game. Even when I think Sugiyama is a deplorable human being and his views and actions are the ones of a monster.
But what about the other 11 months?!
Starting off the year with dad bod AND dad jokes. Though I'm gonna try to lose the dad bod this year.