But yeah he was a dick which is even more depressing since he rambled on about how shitty his first time was and how he didnt wanna repeat that for someone else
was he at least hot
But yeah he was a dick which is even more depressing since he rambled on about how shitty his first time was and how he didnt wanna repeat that for someone else
Welcome!Hey I don't know how much I'll participate, I'm not good at being a member of online communities instead of just lurking and dropping the occasional one off comment but it feels good to type out that I'm into girls, even if it's only to strangers on the internet. I saw the questionaire thing in the op.
Jerks that fail to get you off retroactively cease being hot imo.
Yeah but he looked better in pictures and he turned the light off
Yeah but he looked better in pictures and he turned the light off
Who turns the lights off entirely when theyre having sex, is this the 1950s amirite
I doubt he Photoshopped himself. Im not into guy's faces a lot so I think just seeing him in person set me back a little. He also had giant front teethdo you think he photoshopped himself or did he just capture the best angle
I doubt he Photoshopped himself. Im not into guy's faces a lot so I think just seeing him in person set me back a little. He also had giant front teeth
Not sure what the point was there. Its not like he was DL and felt intense shame or anything after
In my experience grindr is 40% supermodels with torso pics who are abrasive and dickish, 40% creepy old guys who send you way too formal messages and cant take a hint and then just a random amalgamation of everyone else
Feeling a little bit emotional tonight. Me and my boyfriend went to the St. Patrick's day event at a local gay bar, there was mother there with her son and daughter. we were all at the front of the stage.
The drag queen on stage had noticed there were kids in the audience (it was still quite early, 3pm or so) and she started talking to them
It turns out the young boy (about 7 or 8) had been going to workshops ran by a local drag queen, and after a bunch of singalongs on stage the boy asked if he could do a lipsynch perfomance to Read You Wrote You from Drag Race.
He got up and performed and it was absolutely amazing, he said it was his first time performing In front of random people, at one point his mother at the front of the stage shouted "that's my son!" She was absolutely ecstatic.
I was so happy for the kid (the crowd went wild for him) and on one hand I'm super happy that he has such wonderful accepting and supportive parents and the opportunity to express himself that way, but on the other hand I'm super sad that I never got that confidence to be myself or be totally open about myself.
The world is a shitty place but at least for the LGBT youth it's only going to get better
I generally just don't use Grindr. I've had It, but it's so creepy. At least too many people are.He did use condoms but at the same time like I said, I was high and now I also have no way of contacting him so I'm just hoping that he didn't do anything nefarious. I dont think he did since few people would put as much effort into making sure he had a condom on as he did unfortunately and as far as I could feel he used one, but yeah. Really its the fact that he just straight ghosted that compounds my fear. What a fucking dick.
And the over analyzation is definitely an issue I'm having. He said he was clean and I believed him and we did oral for a total of 25 seconds because he was an idiot who almost made me throw up but yeah
12 weeks though, yeesh. I thought usually it was 14 days after an encounter. But yes lesson learned, no more grindr hookups at least not from people who I havent texted for a few days beforehand.
Any other tips and stuff
omg <3 <3 <3Feeling a little bit emotional tonight. Me and my boyfriend went to the St. Patrick's day event at a local gay bar, there was mother there with her son and daughter. we were all at the front of the stage.
The drag queen on stage had noticed there were kids in the audience (it was still quite early, 3pm or so) and she started talking to them
It turns out the young boy (about 7 or 8) had been going to workshops ran by a local drag queen, and after a bunch of singalongs on stage the boy asked if he could do a lipsynch perfomance to Read You Wrote You from Drag Race.
He got up and performed and it was absolutely amazing, he said it was his first time performing In front of random people, at one point his mother at the front of the stage shouted "that's my son!" She was absolutely ecstatic.
I was so happy for the kid (the crowd went wild for him) and on one hand I'm super happy that he has such wonderful accepting and supportive parents and the opportunity to express himself that way, but on the other hand I'm super sad that I never got that confidence to be myself or be totally open about myself.
The world is a shitty place but at least for the LGBT youth it's only going to get better
No lol
But yeah he was a dick which is even more depressing since he rambled on about how shitty his first time was and how he didnt wanna repeat that for someone else
Im still paranoid about stds just because I have a shitty immune system though and I feel like every person on grindr is on prep so i missed a memo
So I started HRT on Tuesday with 2mg Estradiol and 100 MG of Spironolactone, taken twice a day.
It's kind of funny how much more comfortable I feel posting in here. It's one thing to say you're trans, but I felt like being trans but without HRT even started made me kind of a fraud. Keep on keeping on, dudes and dudettes.
Almost a week after I started, I'm no longer getting nausea, my changing sense of smell has led to some embarrassments (Oregano makes me horny somehow), and I've been in a MUCH better mood even despite the nausea. The only thing to deal with now is that I'm having some issues sleeping through the night. But overall, it's going pretty good!
aaa thats great to hear <3So I started HRT on Tuesday with 2mg Estradiol and 100 MG of Spironolactone, taken twice a day.
It's kind of funny how much more comfortable I feel posting in here. It's one thing to say you're trans, but I felt like being trans but without HRT even started made me kind of a fraud. Keep on keeping on, dudes and dudettes.
Almost a week after I started, I'm no longer getting nausea, my changing sense of smell has led to some embarrassments (Oregano makes me horny somehow), and I've been in a MUCH better mood even despite the nausea. The only thing to deal with now is that I'm having some issues sleeping through the night. But overall, it's going pretty good!
LOL the first time I went to a bargain store to look at girly stuff I almost had a panic attackUgh, I keep wanting to wear skirts out in public (I'm bi and cis male) but I can't work up the courage to go out and shop for one, let alone actually wear it. I've gotten used to painting my nails and going out in public with that at least, but this next step of my "fuck your gender norms" movement is proving to be tough.
Cryptofascists and the weak ass centrists that defend them have me fantasizing about a hypothetical queer nation state more and more.
I'm literally bombarded by "conservatives/christians are being persecuted by the all powerful Illegal Muslim LGBTQXYZ Agenda" all day every day and i want to die
I know this feel. Once you do finally find something in your size, you can use that as a good basis for online shopping. Department store sites have return policies, and some will have free returns (ASOS does if you hit a payment threshold).Ugh, I keep wanting to wear skirts out in public (I'm bi and cis male) but I can't work up the courage to go out and shop for one, let alone actually wear it. I've gotten used to painting my nails and going out in public with that at least, but this next step of my "fuck your gender norms" movement is proving to be tough.
You got: Sailor Moon and Sailor Neptune
You always put your friends before yourself, and you treat them like they're your family. You're often quite naive but, over time, you've learned how to open up your heart without fully entrusting someone as soon as you meet them. You're a restless one: you can never sit still, and you always want to learn new things to keep yourself busy. Your natural charms have tons of people chasing after you, but you'd rather not get distracted and focus on what's really important: you.
You got: Sailor Pluto and Sailor Mars
Getting along with other people is something of a complicated dance for you, and it's not because you're a jerk (even though a lot of people think that), but because it makes you feel anxious. Making friends is tough for you, but you don't entirely mind because you love your own company. Plus, you have a really hard time expressing your feelings, and people write you off as just being insensitive. But that's not true! You do have a heart, and it's a big one.
god yes i luv leggingsI know this feel. Once you do finally find something in your size, you can use that as a good basis for online shopping. Department store sites have return policies, and some will have free returns (ASOS does if you hit a payment threshold).
Pretty sure black leggings and a mini skirt will look good on literally everyone, but the only person that's seen me in that is my mirror. #CowardPower
Agh., I have so many thoughts but have no idea where to start. You don't know me but just know that I am super interested in this love story, I am super supportive of you, and I hope that you and Mr S really are meant for each other. Either way, props for coming out! I am eagerly awaiting your next updateGibbs and Everyone else, I have another update regarding my situation with my Crush (Mr. S)
Yesterday night was his Birthday and I decided it to host it at mine, had invited his mum and my family over for a BBQ. While my Dad and Brother prepared the BBQ me and Mr. S went inside to collect some stuff to put the cooked food on and on the way back outside my dad seemed really, really angry and blurted out there's no gays in my family, I just laugh and so does Mr. S, but things got a bit awkward from then on wards as when Mr. S was cutting the cake my SIL said to him make sure you make a wish and my brother then says wishing for Inukage to strip for him tonight and again we laugh, but Mr S went super red and went quiet.
Anyways afterwards we decided to game it up in my room a little bit and I was about to say I'm tempted to (tempted to kill my team-mate)... and before I had a chance to finish my brother said have anal and I just laughed it off, He then left and went out with his misses, things were fine between me and Mr. S and didn't seem awkward at all, I'm just a little confused to what happened, are they starting to pick up on the vibe or I'm worried something else was said…
It's really such a shame, I get along really well with my Family, but both my Brother and Dad are Bigots when it comes to sexuality, also in saying that my Brother has heaps of Gay mates which I've always found strange as when he thinks of me being Gay he gets mad… he has said to me and Mr.S once out of the blue that he would hate to think either of us were gay as he couldn't imagine me having sex with another man….
Also later on in the night Mr S decided to join me from his house for a few online games and over intercoms was singing Phil Collins - In the Air Tonight, which was very cute and comforting after the amount of anxiety I had over dinner. Mr S was asking me to take off either Friday or Monday off as he has both of them days off so that we could chill together, so I'm probably going to try take either one of them off and will see what happens and I asked him if we could go for a long walk together he has agreed, I want to get his opinion on what was said last night and to gauge his feeling
P.S on Monday I was finally able to come out to someone for the first time and it feels really good, He was super supportive and said this doesn't change our relationship at all, one step closer to a better and happier me!
Agh., I have so many thoughts but have no idea where to start. You don't know me but just know that I am super interested in this love story, I am super supportive of you, and I hope that you and Mr S really are meant for each other. Either way, props for coming out! I am eagerly awaiting your next update
Wish i had your same courage in that regard 🤐Thanks MetalGearZed, really do appreciate your words of support, even if you are a stranger it still does mean a lot to me ! I also hope we're meant for each other we literally have the exact same tastes, ideology and beliefs, I couldn't imagine being with anyone else!
Also thanks :D it took so much courage to say it and I'm proud of myself! This time last year I had the idea that it would be better for me to stay in the closet as I didn't want ruin my relationship with family and ect, but screw that I'm going to start living for myself!
Delio, LET THE MAN USE THE METRO BUS. DON'T BE LIKE THAT!hello everyone! I need ... help.
I will fly to Houston, Texas from Germany and for some time, I've been chatting with a guy who lives there, I really like him and we seem to connect, we've both been waiting long for this opportunity to meet. The thing is, I am only in transit there and after 10 or so hours, I must take a flight somewhere else, the time I can spend in Houston is around 3 PM to 9 PM so not at night which is good.
my idea was to meet somewhere downtown for a coffee but he's offering to pick my up at the airport... and I don't want him to.
I don't want to sit in a car with a man I don't know in a huge city and have no idea where I am heading. just no.
how can I explain this to him without offending him or being rude? I can't think of a single line that sounds right.
I want to take the METRO bus from the airport to the city and then meet him there and talk in an open public space.
any advice?
Don't you worry, it will happen one day! like I said last year I thought I'd never be able to do it, you got this!
It's funny how they can be so badly persecuted, while still not learning even a bit of humility. It's almost like they're not being persecuted at all.
(That's rough. You seem to carry it with good humour, at least.)
hello everyone! I need ... help.
I will fly to Houston, Texas from Germany and for some time, I've been chatting with a guy who lives there, I really like him and we seem to connect, we've both been waiting long for this opportunity to meet. The thing is, I am only in transit there and after 10 or so hours, I must take a flight somewhere else, the time I can spend in Houston is around 3 PM to 9 PM so not at night which is good.
my idea was to meet somewhere downtown for a coffee but he's offering to pick my up at the airport... and I don't want him to.
I don't want to sit in a car with a man I don't know in a huge city and have no idea where I am heading. just no.
how can I explain this to him without offending him or being rude? I can't think of a single line that sounds right.
I want to take the METRO bus from the airport to the city and then meet him there and talk in an open public space.
any advice?