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Deleted member 18360

User requested account closure
Banned
Oct 27, 2017
2,844
Yeah, it's hard to just excise YouTube from my media diet because it basically is the medium of hosted video. Gmail's been my primary address for a lot of stuff, professional and otherwise so I can't just gut it, though I like the idea of not giving them my YT metrics. It is encouraging me to use something other than Chrome, though. Firefox is still free and now that I've freed myself from Chrome Password Manager I can probably jump ship just about anywhere.

I confess that you're talking way over my head on philosophy though, as someone with a... significantly less than 101 understanding. It's a subject I've wanted to educate myself in a little, but I'm an idiot, so I might have to watch more video than actually read.

It's daunting to shuffle everything around, Alphabet is thoroughly entrenched in so many things. Like I recently used a google docs for something, and these are just things you forget about. It's unfortunate because we know that by and large these corporations are literally never going to police themselves, which I guess makes the desperate moonshot option being either that the people seize them, or the government does and also enshrines progressive humanist values somehow, and neither seems to be happening any time soon.

Sorry, I just meant that by the standards of philosophy I'm more a fuzzy-minded impressionist type that often pursues theory for its own sake, which presents sort of a contrast with the more material problems of Marxism, or the more practical problems of history, socialist policy, etc. I thought it was funny to think that my departure from my normal interests is some kind of ill omen. Probably because it might very well be, with how things are going, lol.

Good secondary sources (including videos) are the best. I learned much more from lectures, over all, than I did from my primary textbooks for undergrad. Honestly, a lot of philosophers aren't very good writers, and any time you sit down to read something pretty difficult or removed from you, in its original language, or original translation, you really have to ask how hard you want to come to grips with it, and a lot of the time the honest answer is that I'm not that motivated., lol.

If you're looking for recommendations, Hegel is arguably the most influential philosopher from the modern period and was incredibly influential in cultural critique and historical interpretation or hermeneutics, generally. And from there you could probably leap ahead quite a bit to Heidegger, who again has been really formative in characterizing what we might now recognize as modernity, particularly in how we relate our personal means and ends to a lifeworld (a world that we are ostensibly born into), including making a really strong modern update on existentialism (Sartre's existentialism followed directly on his heels). Though I come more from the tradition of historical philosophy (which is typically 'German'), so take my suggestions as being extremely biased.
 

Phil32

Member
Oct 28, 2017
4,568
Haven't felt that great lately. I feel like an impostor within the community since I'm relatively new, bi, and don't really partake in things. I feel shunned by both straight people and people within the community because I like both sexes (and it's assumed I'd be unfaithful), and I feel I'm always judged. My body image is poor recently, and I feel I'll never find a real romantic relationship--or I worry I'll jump into one because I don't think I'll be able to do any better than the next person who shows a slight interest in me. But then they just want sex, and I'm not ready for that yet. I associate sex with an emotional connection--not just a quick bout of pleasure. It's not something I just do with someone I first meet. That part makes me feel weird and uncomfortable, I guess.

Just rambling. Sorry. Not feeling cute, will probably delete. :/
 

Aarglefarg

Member
Oct 27, 2017
4,065
Any body type, there's plenty of people attracted to it, and to the rest of a person as well. And while biphobia remains an issue, I think it's getting a lot better. And it's important to keep to what you're comfortable with, and anyone worthwhile will respect that.
 

Kismet

Banned
Nov 9, 2017
1,432
Created a PLanetRomeo account two weeks ago. It's so much fun.
But there are so many crazies out there.
I think the craziest request came from one guy: he wanted me to cum in a condom and send the used condom to him. He gave me his name and address.
He even wanted me to give money for it.

How about no?

But I missed the app. Hadn't used it for two years. Some really nice and intersting people there. And it's less anonymous than Grindr.
 

Manipular

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
579
Detroit, MI
Created a PLanetRomeo account two weeks ago. It's so much fun.
But there are so many crazies out there.
I think the craziest request came from one guy: he wanted me to cum in a condom and send the used condom to him. He gave me his name and address.
He even wanted me to give money for it.

How about no?

But I missed the app. Hadn't used it for two years. Some really nice and intersting people there. And it's less anonymous than Grindr.

Jesus, I haven't heard of PR in literally years lol. Didn't even know they were still active.
 

Kismet

Banned
Nov 9, 2017
1,432
It's VERY active.
I'm taken, but I like to find people for networking or working out.
There are many decent people on there.
Sure, around 95% of the people writing to me are looking for sex. But that's easy to ignore.
 

Phil32

Member
Oct 28, 2017
4,568
Going on a date tonight with the guy I've been dating for a couple months. He recently told me he's bi, too. :)
 

OniLinkPlus

Self-Requested Ban
Banned
Oct 25, 2017
600
Pride! And our 24th birthday! All in one day?! It was a good day!

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Shedinja

Member
Nov 30, 2017
1,815
Happy pride month, everyone! I haven't posted here, so hello! 👋

I came out to my sister yesterday. We're not the closest, since we haven't known each other for too long - long story, but basically:

mou10IE.gif


But she's the one person in my family I knew would be supportive - and she was! It was the longest conversation we've ever had and I think we'll become closer after this. There are varying levels of homophobia in the rest of my family, unfortunately. Even though it's just one person, it did feel really great to say it to someone. Anyway, here's me:

  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Cis Male
  • Your sexual orientation? Gay
  • Where Do You Live? North Carolina
  • How Old Are you? 25
  • Favorite Type of Music? Indie/Folk Pop
  • Favorite video game(s)? Animal Crossing
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Drawing
 

lokiduck

The Fallen
Mar 27, 2019
9,118
Washington
Happy pride month, everyone! I haven't posted here, so hello! 👋

I came out to my sister yesterday. We're not the closest, since we haven't known each other for too long - long story, but basically:

mou10IE.gif


But she's the one person in my family I knew would be supportive - and she was! It was the longest conversation we've ever had and I think we'll become closer after this. There are varying levels of homophobia in the rest of my family, unfortunately. Even though it's just one person, it did feel really great to say it to someone. Anyway, here's me:

  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Cis Male
  • Your sexual orientation? Gay
  • Where Do You Live? North Carolina
  • How Old Are you? 25
  • Favorite Type of Music? Indie/Folk Pop
  • Favorite video game(s)? Animal Crossing
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Drawing
*Waves* Hello!
 

Kismet

Banned
Nov 9, 2017
1,432
Happy pride month, everyone! I haven't posted here, so hello! 👋

I came out to my sister yesterday. We're not the closest, since we haven't known each other for too long - long story, but basically:

mou10IE.gif


But she's the one person in my family I knew would be supportive - and she was! It was the longest conversation we've ever had and I think we'll become closer after this. There are varying levels of homophobia in the rest of my family, unfortunately. Even though it's just one person, it did feel really great to say it to someone. Anyway, here's me:

  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Cis Male
  • Your sexual orientation? Gay
  • Where Do You Live? North Carolina
  • How Old Are you? 25
  • Favorite Type of Music? Indie/Folk Pop
  • Favorite video game(s)? Animal Crossing
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Drawing

Hi! Welcome.

It's such a relief to come out to family. I still haven't told anyone. But not everyone needs to know...
 

Plum

Member
May 31, 2018
17,271
Happy pride month! So I've 'finally' figured out that I'm asexual and, wow, it is a weight off my shoulders. I think I've introduced myself here before but might as well do it again now that I've gone through so much self-discovery:
  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Cis/Questioning Male
  • Your sexual orientation? Asexual
  • Where Do You Live? The arse-end of Britain
  • How Old Are you? 21
  • Favorite Type of Music? I may have discovered myself but I can't answer this question yet :P
  • Profession or Career interest? Any job'll do
  • Favorite video game(s)? Too many to count
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Hiking/walking, films, writing
I think I'm going to be coming out to my Mum soon (when we next see each other irl) so, yeah, that's a thing :P
 

Shedinja

Member
Nov 30, 2017
1,815
:)

Hi! Welcome.

It's such a relief to come out to family. I still haven't told anyone. But not everyone needs to know...
:)
Yep, this is where I am too.

Happy pride month! So I've 'finally' figured out that I'm asexual and, wow, it is a weight off my shoulders. I think I've introduced myself here before but might as well do it again now that I've gone through so much self-discovery:
  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Cis/Questioning Male
  • Your sexual orientation? Asexual
  • Where Do You Live? The arse-end of Britain
  • How Old Are you? 21
  • Favorite Type of Music? I may have discovered myself but I can't answer this question yet :P
  • Profession or Career interest? Any job'll do
  • Favorite video game(s)? Too many to count
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Hiking/walking, films, writing
I think I'm going to be coming out to my Mum soon (when we next see each other irl) so, yeah, that's a thing :P
Hello! :) And I hope it goes well.
 

crienne

Member
Oct 25, 2017
5,166
I want to sort of reintroduce myself since I recently came out as non-binary. So, hi everyone!!!
  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?)
    • non-binary (AMAB), they/them
  • Your sexual orientation?
    • bisexual/pansexual
  • Where Are You From?
    • Arizona
  • Where Do You Live?
    • Orange County, California
  • How Old Are you?
    • 34
  • Favorite Type of Music?
    • Dream pop, post-hardcore, emo, prog metal, technical death metal, and a whole bunch of other shit
  • Profession or Career interest?
    • Technical Writer/Creative Writer
  • Favorite video game(s)?
    • A lot. A lot, a lot.
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?
    • I write fiction, build Gundams, make pixel art, work in HTML/CSS, code in Python, game dev in Unity (learning UE4)

Also, please give me advice on getting up the nerve to wear skirts, and leggings (with shorts or skirts over them). Good places to buy from, either online or non-judging brick-and-mortar shops?
 

Kismet

Banned
Nov 9, 2017
1,432
I'm single as of today as well. We were together for three years.
I'm not even that sad. Feels more like a relief. I think I took the right decision.

This weekend will be all about MYSELF.
 

How About No

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
5,785
The Great Dairy State
I want to sort of reintroduce myself since I recently came out as non-binary. So, hi everyone!!!


Also, please give me advice on getting up the nerve to wear skirts, and leggings (with shorts or skirts over them). Good places to buy from, either online or non-judging brick-and-mortar shops?
i just went ahead and fought thru the shakiness and just went out and tried stuff lol

Tho it prolly helps that everytime after i go in i get more femme and don't stand out as much lol
 

Kismet

Banned
Nov 9, 2017
1,432
Thanks, I'll be ok.

Don't know if I want to have (rebound) sex so soon. But that's always...fun!!
And it's so easy to find sex. Just show some pics and most will want to see you hehehe

I'm going to take it easy, though. I want to game and read more. 🤓
 
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Kismet

Banned
Nov 9, 2017
1,432
That's the spirit! I'm glad you're feeling ok about the whole situation.
What happened if you don't mind me asking?

Last year he confessed that he cheated on me during the first three months of our relationship. He wanted to confess because it was making him crazy and he felt guilty.

That's when the cracks started to show. I lost all trust. He even brought me to Mauritius to meet his family, in a way of showing me that he was being serious with me. There I met his sister, and she told me many things about the men in that family. I told her what happpend between me and my ex, her brother. She really liked me and we became close. She told me that all the men in the family are serial cheaters. Even the father. She hated her father. And she warned me about my ex as well. Her own brother...

So taking me to Mauritius kinda worked against him. But I still tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. But I just couldn't handle it anymore.

My ex travels a lot. He confessed to me that he cheated on me during a business travel. So everytime he went on a travel I got anxious. We decided since the beginning that we didn't want an open relationship because we don't believe in it. But he's a charmer and always flirts with men. And when he sees a man is interested, he will continue talking to him. I mean, I get attention as well. But I'm very reserved and loyal. He's the total opposite of me.

SO I didn't want to live a life of constantly thinking what he's doing during his trips. I told him I can't do it anymore and cut him off. He still doesn't accept it. But it's my life. And it feels good to not feel the anxiety anymore. I'm sure he will want to meet up again after he comes back from his travels, but I told him I don't want to see him again. I was very harsh as well. I went to his house, grabbed all of my stuff and left his stuff I had at home there. I left his keys inside the house and closed the door.

He'll be ok. He's a wealthy man with a very good job. I told him to focus on his job. I'll be happy on my own and I am independent. I will be OK, too.
 
Oct 29, 2017
2,550
Hey all, strange question, but people keep giving me this website to fill out: https://icplid.com/. Is it legit? It doesn't look like it.

(On tinder and Grindr. I'm on mobile so I couldn't find a better place. Let me know and I can move this post)
 
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Kismet

Banned
Nov 9, 2017
1,432
Found a date for tomorrow. A hot Greek guy.
We will meet in the city, have a drink and later go to my place. I told him I want to show him my Playstation VR. And he wants to experience it heheh
I'll show him.

my rebound game is quick. but why not
 

Nigthwizard

The Fallen
Oct 27, 2017
634
Costa Rica
Found a date for tomorrow. A hot Greek guy.
We will meet in the city, have a drink and later go to my place. I told him I want to show him my Playstation VR. And he wants to experience it heheh
I'll show him.

my rebound game is quick. but why not
Go get him!
I meet a cute guy this week, he's really sweet, I think I'm falling for him really fast.
 

berrypeachy

Member
Jun 15, 2019
5
Nice to meet everyone! Happy Pride Month! 👋
  • Your gender? Your sexual identity? (Preferred pronouns?) Cisgender; She/her
  • Your sexual orientation? Bisexual
  • Where Do You Live? New England, USA
  • How Old Are you? 21
  • Favorite Type of Music? Indie rock, like Artic Monkeys
  • Profession or Career interest? I work for an insurance company
  • Favorite video game(s)? Mass Effect, Persona 4 & 5, Ace Attorney, Breath of the Wild, Dragon Age
  • What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? I love drawing, and I've been trying to teach myself guitar lately. Also, Dungeons & Dragons
 

Deleted member 8001

user requested account closure
Banned
Oct 26, 2017
7,440
Was gonna go to Houston pride but didn't have the resources this year. I'll make it next year and wear something skimpy to make up for it.
 

Subaru

Member
Oct 26, 2017
335
São Paulo, Brazil
  • Male/Cisgender/Homo
  • São Paulo/Brazil
  • 34 years old
  • Pop, J-Pop, K-Pop
  • IT
  • Mario, Street Fighter, KOF, Bayonetta, Chrono Trigger
  • Movies, TV Shows and I'm starting to like photography
 
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