RE: Approaching guys. Generally I just take into consideration that in the worst case scenario of rejection Im no worse than before I attempted. I also keep in mind that theres as much of a chance that I dont want to pursue after trying to converse as he may, which evens out the nervousness.
So with the case of working out I may just find a moment to go up and talk about our shared interest, maybe ask for tips. If conversation is warm I branch out. At that point i've more than likely made an acquaintance or more. Getting over the fear of rejection is hard but doable.
Being single but looking for a relationship in the city is a process....frustrating sometimes. I know its not true but sometimes you just can't shake the feeling that half of the community is in an open relationship and the other half doesn't want to commit to anything. It'll happen when it happens, i'll just keep embracing my inner ho til it does.
So with the case of working out I may just find a moment to go up and talk about our shared interest, maybe ask for tips. If conversation is warm I branch out. At that point i've more than likely made an acquaintance or more. Getting over the fear of rejection is hard but doable.
Being single but looking for a relationship in the city is a process....frustrating sometimes. I know its not true but sometimes you just can't shake the feeling that half of the community is in an open relationship and the other half doesn't want to commit to anything. It'll happen when it happens, i'll just keep embracing my inner ho til it does.