Liam Neeson's real-life rape/revenge tale (See Staff Post)

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who remembers the (fabricated) outrage over the so-called "knockout game"?

i don't remember *anyone* empathizing with those imaginary black teens when people were pretending that they were going around punching white people as retribution for racism

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Oh please understand, I'm not giving him a default not a racist card. I know his actions have been horrificly racist. I do feel though that given this story just broke that he is going to get an opportunity now to explain the racial elements of the story and am reserving judgement until I hear how he handles the next few days which will inevitably be a snowstorm for him.

If he continues to ignore the fact he behaved like a racist POS then my mind will be made up.

Also I don't give a shit that he's a white man, that gets no sympathy from me, what makes me have more leniency is the fact he started the debate unprompted and with no obvious gain. It's not like he's been a racist asshole in the past and someone was about to spill and ruin his career. The "confession" was spontaneous and therefore I think that giving him a chance to explain more eloquently is fair enough. Failure to do so a second time though will be I credibly telling.

Edit I think it is also important to point out that Neeson was a victim in this story. The while thing was him wanting revenge because someone he was close to was raped. That in itself is terrible.
By reserving judgment, you are saying he’s not a racist. You’ve given him the default state of innocence (redeemed in this context) and want to wait for him to have another chance to do his damage control. You only consider him to be racist if he “messes up” again.

I instead have taken what he’s said and done at face value. He’s shown why he was extremely racist but has said nothing to prove he no longer is. So that’s what he is and it’s on him to prove he isn’t anymore yet you and others have taken that job by immediately sympathizing with him as a victim.

You don’t seem to understand at all what PoC feel being the target of hate crimes and why this is such a big deal. You seem mostly focused on rationalizing Neeson’s actions during this interview when the guy doesn’t need any defense. You really need to take the empathy you’ve shown for Neeson and apply it to the black people in this thread who are explaining the issue here.
 

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FWIW I agree with you. I do think he needs to say more on being a racist shithead though.
For the folks who are being sincere and not just trolling I think the point of contention that's making this argument go in circles is the assumption that Liam acknowledged that what he did was racist or wrong in singling out black men. He clearly acknowledges that vengeance is wrong but I don't see anything in what he said that makes me assume anything beyond that. Perhaps my life experiences have left me in a place where I'm wary to give him the benefit of the doubt about that but other posters life experiences have left them in a place where they do give him that benefit, I don't know. What I do know that these threads are all the same and I'm tired of people telling me how to feel about racism, I don't go into threads dealing with misogyny to tell lady posters that I don't understand why they're upset and that they should get over it so if you're not the target of discrimination why do some folks feel they have the right to do that?
 
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The tell here, is that he wanted to enact his revenge on an unrelated black person instead of specifically the person who assaulted his friend.
This. I get wanting to hurt the guy who did it, but some random POC who just came out of a pub? Like . . . you're completely sober and you want to murder someone who's drunk just for bumping into you, saying the wrong thing, or eyeball fucking you?

I can forgive a lot, but not attempted premeditated murder. A whole fucking week and a half, just man-hunting for black people? Jesus Christ. This has to rank as one of the most disturbing admissions I've ever heard from a celeb. He's finished.
 

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You apparently dont get the seveeity of what he said or after all these pages cant grasp why people are pissed so apparently.



Fucking good. We don't need anymore weak ass rationalizations of what this dude said or did.



You should really reflect on why of all the perspectivw in the thread this is the shit you most connect with.
I think he makes it incredibly easy to jump on him and crucify him because his comments are fucking horrific. But then I always try to wonder why someone said the things they did and he seems to be saying this from a perspective of gratitude that he isn't that person anymore.

I think that's a good thing whilst at the same time he really really needs to address the fact that the second question he asked when he heard someone got raped was the colour of their skin. That's some pretty fucking disgusting premeditated racism and I am waiting to see what he says to address that.
 

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What the hell was the point of that story? Did Neeson think like “I deserve a medal for not losing my shit and killing a random black person even though I really wanted to”? Was he expecting a goddamn high five?

Dude needs fucking therapy. A lot of it. Someone whose first impulse to a friend being hurt is “I hope some total stranger starts a fight with me so I can murder them” has serious, serious problems already, and then compounding the obvious racism on top of it all (believing black people to be interchangeable) just makes it even worse.

Jesus fuck.
 

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By reserving judgment, you are saying he’s not a racist. You’ve given him the default state of innocence (redeemed in this context) and want to wait for him to have another chance to do his damage control. You only consider him to be racist if he “messes up” again.

I instead have taken what he’s said and done at face value. He’s shown why he was extremely racist but has said nothing to prove he no longer is. So that’s what he is and it’s on him to prove he isn’t anymore yet you and others have taken that job by immediately sympathizing with him as a victim.

You don’t seem to understand at all what PoC feel being the target of hate crimes and why this is such a big deal. You seem mostly focused on rationalizing Neeson’s actions during this interview when the guy doesn’t need any defense. You really need to take the empathy you’ve shown for Neeson and apply it to the black people in this thread who are explaining the issue here.
That's the thing though. I will always empathise with people who are the target of hate crimes. I am not defending his actions. They were fucking terrible. I guess I'm just confused about why he is saying anything in the first place. Like he has just admitted that 40 years ago he was an awful racist piece of shit. In this current climate he must be properly off his rocker to think that's a sensible thing to do. Therefore I think he must have failed to articulate himself correctly otherwise he is clearly a deluded horrible piece of shit.
 

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For the folks who are being sincere and not just trolling I think the point of contention that's making this argument go in circles is the assumption that Liam acknowledged that what he did was racist or wrong in singling out black men. He clearly acknowledges that vengeance is wrong but I don't see anything in what he said that makes me assume anything beyond that. Perhaps my life experiences have left me in a place where I'm wary to give him the benefit of the doubt about that but other posters life experiences have left them in a place where they do give him that benefit, I don't know. What I do know that these threads are all the same and I'm tired of people telling me how to feel about racism, I don't go into threads dealing with misogyny to tell lady posters that I don't understand why they're upset and that they should get over it so if you're not the target of discrimination why do some folks feel they have the right to do that?
Yeah in no way will I ever tell people I don't understand why they are pissed off. It's fairly obvious why people are pissed off, and people should be. I just struggle to understand why he said the things he said. My head doesn't understand the point he was trying to make and this is where my want for further clarification comes from.
 

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I think he makes it incredibly easy to jump on him and crucify him because his comments are fucking horrific.
You say this but you and a bunch of other people have spent the whole thread watering down what he said and did trying to find the flower in his shit hole of a statement and this is way more left leaning than most places on the net. His statements aren't as crucifying as you are thinking they are to most people, yourself included clearly.

Think about this point for a second.
 
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That's the thing though. I will always empathise with people who are the target of hate crimes. I am not defending his actions. They were fucking terrible. I guess I'm just confused about why he is saying anything in the first place. Like he has just admitted that 40 years ago he was an awful racist piece of shit. In this current climate he must be properly off his rocker to think that's a sensible thing to do. Therefore I think he must have failed to articulate himself correctly otherwise he is clearly a deluded horrible piece of shit.
Sometimes method actors like to talk about their inspiration for a character, and how they're able to pull off a role so convincingly. Here Liam was discussing a hate-filled character who's motivated by a desire for revenge, so I guess (without really thinking it through) he decided to share a personal experience that helps him relate to the character. Only problem is that this isn't a fun little anecdote . . . it's him admitting he walked around for a week and a half hoping he could murder a black person in cold blood for saying the wrong thing to him. It doesn't get much more fucked up than that.
 
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I think he makes it incredibly easy to jump on him and crucify him because his comments are fucking horrific. But then I always try to wonder why someone said the things they did and he seems to be saying this from a perspective of gratitude that he isn't that person anymore.
He said it because he was promoting a movie and told an anecdote that directly relates to the themes of the movie. That's it. This wasn't some symposium on combating racism or a TED talk, it was a press junket.
 
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i wonder if the next time minorities speak up about the prevalence of hate crimes and men obviously looking for any excuse to kill them, will people believe them? or will people return to their usual routine of accusing minorities of being too sensitive or triggered or some other nonsense?

a white man admitted to his desire to commit a hate crime, that means they are real now!
 

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You say this but you and a bunch of other people have spent the whole thread watering down what he said and did trying to find the flower in his shit hole of a statement and this is way more left leaning than most places on the net. His statements aren't as crucifying as you are thinking they are to most people, yourself included clearly.

Think about this point for a second.
But his statements are as crucifying as I think they are and my point is, why make that statement at all? He's not trying to play to the racist pieces of shit on the right because he follows it up with regret. They also stir up the wrong kind of controversy to promote his movie so it isn't an I'll guided publicity stunt. So why the fuck did he say it in the first place?
 

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Damn this is complicated. I definitely don't blame anyone who stays perma pissed at this guy. Dude coulda killed an innocent person and that is noooot okay at all. I also know how trauma can fuck you up. If something similar happened to my sister, daughter or mother or something idk how I'd deal with those emotions. Definitely not what liam tried to do but, for all I know I might go broke searching for the dude who did it and end up in prison. This shit should've stayed at the therapist office. Colored people got it rough man. If the assailant was white I doubt he would've done the same thing.
 

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He said it because he was promoting a movie and told an anecdote that directly relates to the themes of the movie. That's it. This wasn't some symposium on combating racism or a TED talk, it was a press junket.
I would agree with you if it weren't for the fact he was physically shaking when telling the story and clearly understands the gravity of what he is admitting to.
 

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He's been involved with UNICEF and many charities over the years. Beyond that he is a founding member of Journeys In Film which advocates for civil rights and other causes through film education.

https://journeysinfilm.org

Neeson's video on the front page is pretty descriptive of who he is and his beliefs in this regard.
Isn’t charity directly related to guilt? He’s probably only doing it to make up for all of those people he killed back in the 70s.
 

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But his statements are as crucifying as I think they are and my point is, why make that statement at all?
Where has he been crucified? It sure as hell isn't Era lol.

He's not trying to play to the racist pieces of shit on the right because he follows it up with regret. They also stir up the wrong kind of controversy to promote his movie so it isn't an I'll guided publicity stunt. So why the fuck did he say it in the first place?
Everyone seemingly loves a good redemption arc. Because apparently the fact that he "learned" and "has grown" is enough for people to be like, "Good Job Liam"
 

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This right here.

So many of you giving racist/metoo hating man a easy pass. That shows how big a problem shit like this really is
Are you really surprised by this? Era has a problem with plenty of people immediately forgiving or “ just asking questions “ in regards to racial sins committed by a non-POC , see any cop murder thread, the assault on the actor from Empire thread, the MAGA teens thread, this thread, etc.
 

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who remembers the (fabricated) outrage over the so-called "knockout game"?

i don't remember *anyone* empathizing with those imaginary black teens when people were pretending that they were going around punching white people as retribution for racism

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Lol the Knockout Game. I was thinking about this dumb racist false flag just last week. A few years ago, when the Constitutionality of the NYPDs racist Stop and Frisk program was in the Courts, NY media went Knockout Game crazy in their reporting. I even recognized an old clip from the UK of a Black dude punching a White lady, and they aired the clip under the false notion that it was filmed in NY.
 

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I feel like something that is being missed here is his extremely violent reaction. Its all about how angry he was and the violence he wanted to inflict on the rapist. The victim and her feelings about all of this are little more than backstory.

Was there a thread on here months ago about how rape victims don't like to tell the men in their lives about their assaults precisely because of shit like this?

Even in here I've seen at least 5 posts from men saying they wouldn't know what they would do if it was there sister/whoever.

Its just more toxic masculinity because as men the way we show that we care and that we're angry is to go out and get violent retribution. But that doesn't help the victim, nor does it help her to see someone she cares about in jail for life for murder.
 

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Lol the Knockout Game. I was thinking about this dumb racist false flag just last week. A few years ago, when the Constitutionality of the NYPDs racist Stop and Frisk program was in the Courts, NY media went Knockout Game crazy in their reporting. I even recognized an old clip from the UK of a Black dude punching a White lady, and they aired the clip under the false notion that it was filmed in NY.
Black people catch hell for fanfic crimes, but white people are worshiped as heroes for real crimes.

That is america as fuck
 

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I would agree with you if it weren't for the fact he was physically shaking when telling the story and clearly understands the gravity of what he is admitting to.
I mean, I'm sure reliving the rape of his friend was upsetting for him, but I'm not sure how him physically shaking when using the anecdote to promote a movie means he should be absolved for his abhorrent actions.
 

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Damn this is complicated. I definitely don't blame anyone who stays perma pissed at this guy. Dude coulda killed an innocent person and that is noooot okay at all. I also know how trauma can fuck you up. If something similar happened to my sister, daughter or mother or something idk how I'd deal with those emotions. Definitely not what liam tried to do but, for all I know I might go broke searching for the dude who did it and end up in prison. This shit should've stayed at the therapist office. Colored people got it rough man. If the assailant was white I doubt he would've done the same thing.
The primary point here is that you and just about everyone's else get reaction in this situation is to find the person who hurt your loved one and make them pay. Liam's first instinct was for whatever reason was to ask the race of the attacker and then find any black man that he could to punish. That shit ain't normal and the fact that he thought that was a good example to present as a revenge anecdote makes me pretty unlikely to accept any further explanations from him about his reasoning.
 

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Where has he been crucified? It sure as hell isn't Era lol.



Everyone seemingly loves a good redemption arc. Because apparently the fact that he "learned" and "has grown" is enough for people to be like, "Good Job Liam"
You could be right and if that's the case then fuck him. I will be very interested to see how he reacts over the next few days. If it's a generic "I'm sorry I said those things in the interview" rather than an admission that the horrible racist views he held 40 years ago have no place in our society and that racial inequality is a social issue we need to address rather than ignore, well then we will know what he really thinks.
 

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God, if this genuinely wasn’t some cynical, bizarre pre-planned marketing stunt, his publicist must have been flailing their arms like a wacky waving inflatable tube man off camera.

Can’t think for a second what the best possible outcome Neeson was envisioning would come from this.

As a former government speechwriter, I reckon I am better than the average bear at looking for a spinnable angle but I’ve got nothing here.

If he was trying for some “everyone can be redeemed/look how introspective and self-aware I am” type angle (and the only reason to do so on a press junket is for promotional reasons) then that is not the story to tell.
 
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Are you really surprised by this? Era has a problem with plenty of people immediately forgiving or “ just asking questions “ in regards to racial sins committed by a non-POC , see any cop murder thread, the assault on the actor from Empire thread, the MAGA teens thread, this thread, etc.
Not really man, but sad shit to see
 

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What a weird story to just drop out of no where. However, I feel people can change, and shouldn't be judged based on past mistakes. It's how we, as humans, learn after all. So with that, people are making mistakes all the time, and when enraged, do/think some of the most dumbest of shit alive. Usually, regret comes after, then reflecting. Well, for those who aren't serial killers or whatnot.

With that said, I'm not giving Neeson and kind of pass here, but I'm not going to condemn him either. If he feels it was dumb, and in a fit of rage, and also feels he has changed? Then what more can you ask of him? Surely he cannot take back what he did/thought. What's done is done, move on and try to improve as a person. Perhaps he should have not brought this to light.
 

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I mean, I'm sure reliving the rape of his friend was upsetting for him, but I'm not sure how him physically shaking when using the anecdote to promote a movie means he should be absolved for his abhorrent actions.
That is not what I said. I said that clearly the story wasn't just a press promotion for his new movie. He knew the gravity of what he was saying, he knew it would be controversial. It's the wrong kind of controversy to stir up excitement for his new movie and in fact a bunch of people will def boycott it now, so what was the endgame in saying it at all?
 

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Are you really surprised by this? Era has a problem with plenty of people immediately forgiving or “ just asking questions “ in regards to racial sins committed by a non-POC , see any cop murder thread, the assault on the actor from Empire thread, the MAGA teens thread, this thread, etc.
Were ppl srsly giving a pass to the empire and maga thing?!?!
 

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You could be right and if that's the case then fuck him. I will be very interested to see how he reacts over the next few days. If it's a generic "I'm sorry I said those things in the interview" rather than an admission that the horrible racist views he held 40 years ago have no place in our society and that racial inequality is a social issue we need to address rather than ignore, well then we will know what he really thinks.
Even if he says this, it could just be good PR
 

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Were ppl srsly giving a pass to the empire and maga thing?!?!
Yeah some people said that the empire dude clearly made it up cos why would you walk about with rope on your neck for so long or wait so long to call the cops as if shock just isn't a thing. It was pretty bad.
 

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I feel like something that is being missed here is his extremely violent reaction. Its all about how angry he was and the violence he wanted to inflict on the rapist. The victim and her feelings about all of this are little more than backstory.

Was there a thread on here months ago about how rape victims don't like to tell the men in their lives about their assaults precisely because of shit like this?

Even in here I've seen at least 5 posts from men saying they wouldn't know what they would do if it was there sister/whoever.

Its just more toxic masculinity because as men the way we show that we care and that we're angry is to go out and get violent retribution. But that doesn't help the victim, nor does it help her to see someone she cares about in jail for life for murder.
The other thing about this is that the vast majority of rape victims are raped by someone they know, not a random stranger. It's completely possible that Liam's relative told him what she did because she didn't want him to actually find the person who did it and end up in prison.
 

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I appreciate his honesty. Has he ever had any other racist instances that we know of?

Racists generally don’t apologetically admit to past instances of being racist and wrong, they typically rationalize it and hide it. Kind of confused by the anger going his way, honestly.
 
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He's been involved with UNICEF and many charities over the years. Beyond that he is a founding member of Journeys In Film which advocates for civil rights and other causes through film education.

https://journeysinfilm.org

Neeson's video on the front page is pretty descriptive of who he is and his beliefs in this regard.
And none of that shows me he's not racist, tho his opinion on metoo show me got a bit of a sexism problem
 

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Are you really surprised by this? Society has a problem with plenty of people immediately forgiving or “ just asking questions “ in regards to racial sins committed by a non-POC , see any cop murder thread, the assault on the actor from Empire thread, the MAGA teens thread, this thread, etc.
Fixed that for you
 

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I feel like something that is being missed here is his extremely violent reaction. Its all about how angry he was and the violence he wanted to inflict on the rapist. The victim and her feelings about all of this are little more than backstory.

Was there a thread on here months ago about how rape victims don't like to tell the men in their lives about their assaults precisely because of shit like this?

Even in here I've seen at least 5 posts from men saying they wouldn't know what they would do if it was there sister/whoever.

Its just more toxic masculinity because as men the way we show that we care and that we're angry is to go out and get violent retribution. But that doesn't help the victim, nor does it help her to see someone she cares about in jail for life for murder.
The emotional response of wanting to see the rapist/murderer of a loved one suffering or dead isnt toxic masculinity or exclusive to males.
 

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I appreciate his honesty. Has he ever had any other racist instances that we know of?

Racists generally don’t apologetically admit to past instances of being racist and wrong, they typically rationalize it and hide it. Kind of confused by the anger going his way, honestly.
If a random white dude, in conversation, brought up that he once walked up and down the streets of his town with a cudgel hoping to kill the first black person he came across in revenge but that he'd changed since then, I- a black woman- would nod and then never talk to that person again.

Kind of confused by the confusion going mine and other posters' way honestly.
 

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I appreciate his honesty. Has he ever had any other racist instances that we know of?

Racists generally don’t apologetically admit to past instances of being racist and wrong, they typically rationalize it and hide it. Kind of confused by the anger going his way, honestly.
Wanting to kill a random black man not that bad?
 

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The emotional response of wanting to see the rapist/murderer of a loved one suffering or dead isnt toxic masculinity or exclusive to males.
He wanted to kill any black person over it. Walking up and down streets with a cudgel and hoping to beat down anyone in retroactive defense of someone, to make a point. At that point it wasn't about helping anyone but himself by expressing his emotions through violence. That is, in fact, an example of toxic masculinity.
 

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I appreciate his honesty. Has he ever had any other racist instances that we know of?

Racists generally don’t apologetically admit to past instances of being racist and wrong, they typically rationalize it and hide it. Kind of confused by the anger going his way, honestly.
Hard to say. We didn't know about this until he just admitted it out of nowhere out of this. That being the case, who knows what other skeletons he could have in his closet? Considering he was willing to kill someone for simply having the same skin color as a rapist, not caring if they actually were that person or not, just going guilt by skin color, and no one knew about that 'til now, who even knows? Given this, not exactly inclined to give him benefit of the doubt there, considering if he's willing to go that far, well, that doesn't exactly tend to be a good sign because of how beyond the pale that is, y'know what I mean?

And an important thing to note is that he's not apologetic for what happened anywhere, particularly not regarding the subject of race. He seems to realize that revenge is wrong. The racist part of the story? He says nothing about it whatsoever, so who even knows if he's apologetic about that or not, considering he doesn't say anything about that? Just that revenge is wrong. Whether he even realizes what he was doing is racist or not is unknown, because even something simple like that wasn't asked, and he didn't volunteer the information himself.
 
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