You also gotta be prepared to address it, too. Put that shit to bed. "Long ago I didn't get it. I didn't listen. I didn't try to understand, and I did ignorant shit. I'm sorry for being like that, and failing people. I've since listened, and I've since understood, and I've changed. " etc. That's earnest, and if you're being earnest about it, I think people will get it. Because over the past eight years, things have truly progressed a LONG way which has been great. Still a ton of work to do, a ton of understanding that needs to happen from folks. But we have moved forward.Heres hoping.
Wasn't afraid to admit I was weirded out by trans people when I was younger/in my early 20s, I didn't understand it but I matured so I know its possible.