So there's an older Caucasian lady at work who gives her 2 cents on everything. We have a lot of women on our team and they are constantly talking about which male celebrity is hot etc...
I have noticed that this woman (let's call her Nancy) seems to never find non-caucasian people attractive.
Last year when the girls were talking about Crazy Rich Asian and the discussion centered around Henry Golding, Nancy said she didnt find him attractive at all.
I'm a straight guy but I'm not blind. To me Henry Golding is a good looking guy, asian or not, who cares.
So on friday, we are waiting for a meeting to begin and 2 of the younger girls start discussing an Indian movie called Ek Villain. The star of the movie is Sidarth Malhotra and they're gushing over this guy.
Nancy of course chimes in and asks to see a picture of this guy. One of them pulls out their phone and googles an image.
Nancy's reaction was: "Really? That's considered hot? I'd take Brad Pitt any day"
She noticed their reaction and says:
"I'm not racist. He's just not attractive."
This comment made me think hard about this lady. She tends to speak only to the caucasian guys on the team - old and young. With guys and girls of color she's short, rude and impatient.
Am I reading too much into this or does this sound like a subtle case of racism that someone is trying to stay under HR's radar.
Pic of this hideous mother$#%
I have noticed that this woman (let's call her Nancy) seems to never find non-caucasian people attractive.
Last year when the girls were talking about Crazy Rich Asian and the discussion centered around Henry Golding, Nancy said she didnt find him attractive at all.
I'm a straight guy but I'm not blind. To me Henry Golding is a good looking guy, asian or not, who cares.
So on friday, we are waiting for a meeting to begin and 2 of the younger girls start discussing an Indian movie called Ek Villain. The star of the movie is Sidarth Malhotra and they're gushing over this guy.
Nancy of course chimes in and asks to see a picture of this guy. One of them pulls out their phone and googles an image.
Nancy's reaction was: "Really? That's considered hot? I'd take Brad Pitt any day"
She noticed their reaction and says:
"I'm not racist. He's just not attractive."
This comment made me think hard about this lady. She tends to speak only to the caucasian guys on the team - old and young. With guys and girls of color she's short, rude and impatient.
Am I reading too much into this or does this sound like a subtle case of racism that someone is trying to stay under HR's radar.
Pic of this hideous mother$#%
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