Whether she's racist or not, I'm kinda creeped out by you keeping a mental index of who this woman finds attractive, with examples going back to last year, and then making a thread about it to talk about her. That's some weird behavior on your part.
I don't keep a mental note. It hit me all of a sudden because of her "I'm not a racist" comment. I found that to be highly unusual.
I'm trying to process if someone like this is a racist or not.
I don't usually work with this individual regularly, only when I need a report on something so I don't know her very well.
Our team is majority of women and our meetings tend to turn into celebrities and current event discussions.
So over the past two years you pick up on stuff.