Dude stop caucasian isn't a racist word you're reaching really hard here.But the word is racist. I sure as hell wouldn't be happy to come to America and to be referred as Caucasian.
Absolutely nothing against Armenians or Georgians, but I am not from there. You might as well call me Russian or Swedish.
It's funny how Americans try to give shit to Europeans for not knowing about some racist words.
But sure, defend the OP for using racist words because he is one of "good guys". Only conseevatives are racist, not someone on ERA who casually goes around calling people racist because of some actor or whatever.
I'd be interested to see what would happen if one were to ask this lady to name anybody at all that they find is attractive that isn't White. I'm guessing that lady can't name one. Not even "the one guy from that one show".i was going to give her a pass on her not being attracted to certain guys. My wife doesn't like conventional pretty boys and i know she'd not be as attracted to the guys in the OP over older rugged dudes like Jason Statham and and Idris Elba, but the 'im not racist...' comment usually means the opposite.
No it doesn't. If you find comfort in and are attracted to people that look like yourself then that doesn't mean you feel any race is superior to any other. That in itself is not why I think this lady is suspect. It's her jumping to "I'm not racist" and apparently being disrespectful to the non-white people at work.
People on this site will disagree with me but if you have racial preferences for attractiveness and dont find some races attractive at all you are probably some sort of racist
There are likely Native American people that you have seen without even fully realizing they are Native American.Ummm you can not be attractive to a race and still not be a racist. I've never been attracted to Native American women or Indian women but I would always treat them with 100% respect.
Not attractive to incredibly skinny or fat women either. Oh and I'm not attracted to men, so I must be a homophobe right?
This idea is lunacy.
I'd be interested to see what would happen if one were to ask this lady to name anybody at all that they find is attractive that isn't White. I'm guessing that lady can't name one. Not even "the one guy from that one show".
That would be the real test.
People on this site will disagree with me but if you have racial preferences for attractiveness and dont find some races attractive at all you are probably some sort of racist
I've never had to state or felt the need to state "I'm not racist" in my entire life.
Not finding other ethnicities attractive doesn't make you racist. Not treating other ethnicities with equal respect does.
People on this site will disagree with me but if you have racial preferences for attractiveness and dont find some races attractive at all you are probably some sort of racist
Just because that sort of racism is so deeply ingrained in American culture that it has become so accepted does not make it not racist.Dude stop caucasian isn't a racist word you're reaching really hard here.
If one gravitates toward what is familiar then that makes them lazy at worst, not racist. I look at light skinned women as people that may have a similar background as myself, being a light skinned dude. It's really not that hard of a concept to accept. You can be attracted to people on the most basic level just by looking at them. You can feel a connection that may or may not exist. It's not to the exclusion of other ethnicities. If it is, then you're racist.I would still say if you only find comfort in those who look like you, those are still pretty, potentially racist beliefs.
It's an unconcious racism present in a lot of us. Though I still think it's possible to be not personally be attracted to someone and recognize they are going to be found very attractive by many other people.I've never had to state or felt the need to state "I'm not racist" in my entire life.
Not finding other ethnicities attractive doesn't make you racist. Not treating other ethnicities with equal respect does.
So what on earth is your solution? Assume racism if someone doesn't find a specific black man attractive?And I am saying that racist people are great creating plausible deniability by NOT being as overt as you are saying. It's kinda what they do.
I feel like you're being willfully ignorant. In the context of America, racism is speaking to the skewed power dynamics that come from appearance and not from a cultural perspective. Yes, specific sub-groups of white people have experienced genuine racism put towards then (see: Irish-americans), but in the broader context of things people tend to place the appearance of whiteness over people of color. It doesn't matter what part of Europe you're from; If you look white, you inherently have more privilege than your average black man in the United Stated.Just because that sort of racism is so deeply ingrained in American culture that it has become so accepted does not make it not racist.
I guess from now on I'll just refer to all white Americans as Slavic.
It's all the same to you, right, Eastern Europeans, we all look alike.
Brad Pitt - Slavic
Tom Brady - Slavic
Joe Biden - Slavic
Same thing...
I've never had to state or felt the need to state "I'm not racist" in my entire life.
Not finding other ethnicities attractive doesn't make you racist. Not treating other ethnicities with equal respect does.
I mean, you need to check your place on the spectrum every now and again.
You know we are talking about a woman in this topic that seems to be showing a clear pattern.So what on earth is your solution? Assume racism if someone doesn't find a specific black man attractive?
I feel like you just moved the goalpost on me because I've been speaking in general this entire time. My first post was providing an example that very clearly did not apply to this individual, which is what you responded to. Plenty of people are also addressing the idea on a wide-scale level and not within the context of a single person.You know we are talking about a woman in this topic that seems to be showing a clear pattern.
There is no simple solution, which is kinda the point when racists do shit like that.
Case in point, there were TONS of racists that would shit on say, Obama for things that had nothing to do with his race, only to give a pass to worse behavior by Trump.
Its more like people tend to find others more attractive the more time they interact with them personally.This pretty much. Attraction is subjective. She seems like a pill but without more evidence beyond this anecdotal she just sounds annoying. You should Henry Golding on the line, invite him to your office, ask him to lightly flirt with her and see how fast she says yes to a dinner date. People are strange.
Beyond that, the woman didn't discard an entire race. With additional context? Probably a little racist. Without it? Nah fam. To speak in an anecdote, god knows I've said something about how I don't find someone attractive and immediately had the mental whiplash of, "Oh god I hope someone didn't think I meant that I don't find all latino people attractive." Especially if I'm commenting on something about their appearance that can be part of a stereotype. Their nose is too big, etc.
Pro Tip:
Racist people say they are not racist, unprovoked
Why would she say she isn't racist if no one called her out, but was just suprised? It's cause she knows she is and assumed they saw through her veil
I feel like this is really getting into the weeds, but it is a normal part of conversation to provide contrast to your statement.Pretty sure that when you did that, you didn't immediately give an example of a White person who you did find attractive in contrast. Immediately followed by stating you weren't racist.
All that adds to the context here.
Sexuality is a spectrum, not a discrete scale. Thus, it's possible new information could cause your evaluation of self-placement on this scale to change. Thus, the joke that someone could be so attractive so as to change your self-rating on the scale.
Sexuality is a spectrum, not a discrete scale. Thus, it's possible new information could cause your evaluation of self-placement on this scale to change. Thus, the joke that someone could be so attractive so as to change your self-rating on the scale.
I'm more offended by this than the racist lady in the OP.is it heightist to not find anyone of a particular height (like say under 5'5") attractive?