I'm not coming out to my dad.
He's very old fashioned and orthodox. He even has said that all gay men should be executed. Even my mother tells me I should not tell him otherwise he will blame her family. My father is a religious, selfrighteous non-conformist with a tad of narcisstic personality disorder.
I love him. But only because he's my father. Otherwise I would never be in touch with such people.
My sister reacted very indifferent. She doesn't care I'm gay - I'm still her best friend. We love each other a lot. My mom had issues in the beginning, but it's getting better. She even met my boyfriend and she finds him nice and handsome. But I didn't like it when she said that it's a shame we're gay, because many girls are interested in us. I don't find it shameful at all. I would never want to change myself. But she understands now more and more.
I also have two brothers. The older one had a hard time accepting it in the beginning. Even adviced me to continue dating women, because maybe I could eventually fall in love with one...
But I asked him to start dating men, because he might fall in love with one eventually as well...
He still has trouble with my sexuality, but doesn't treat me bad. But I've noticed that we're not talking to each other as much as before.
My youngest brother is a sweetheart. He said he always knew I was from "the other side" lol
But my father is a big no. I'm never going to come out to him. He's very unreasonable. I know him.
I don't understand. But I'm Albanian myself. My folk is still very traditional.