Ask them not to do it if it bothers you or it seems disrespectful, I guess.
Young children calling their parents by their first names does sound kind of creepy though. Like they're possessed or have been replaced by pod people.
I'm a grown-ass man, and I don't call my parents by their first names.
I did it all the time as a child and still do it today as an adult. I don't do the whole "yes sir" or "yes ma'am" thing either.
That such a strange attitude to have towards your kid. You treat them like pets or soldiers.My kids know me and my wife's name, but I didn't tolerate it for a second when the younger one (5) tried to call me by my name versus Dad or Daddy. It sounds mean, but we aren't friends, we aren't peers. If they want to call me by my name when they are adults, that's absolutely okay... but as a kid? Nah. There needs to be that kind of level of separation.
Lol. Well, he's not bringing home women and smoking pot.
It's not going to end well for us lol, but I agree. The thought of calling my dad by his first name is super weird. I wouldn't want my kids to call me by my first name either
Personally, I find the whole thing pointless. My parents initially wanted me to say "mom/dad" but gave up eventuallyI mean, there is a difference between "yes sir" and/or "yes ma'am" and "Mom/Mommy" and "Dad/Daddy."
If it bothers you, you and your wife can start calling each other mom and dad and maybe it will translate for the kids to do that too.
No worries, I can totally understand the other way around. I don't judge anyone that does it this way. As long as your kids are treated well and with respect and grow up in a loving home that is most important. Sorry if it came off any other way than that.
You just have to keep teaching them this isn't ok. It's fun at first and that's where it starts. Just got to kill the habbit.
No. Call me Mommy. Give Mommy a cuddle.
If children aren't subordinates, then what even is a subordinate?
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Oh, this makes a good point. It's kind of progressive now, but what about when they're teenagers, addressing me in a way that sounds like a precocious little shit giving a fantastic step-dad a terrible time?I knew a girl in high school that addressed her parents by their first names. It shocked me a little, and sure enough she treated them like she was a roommate paying rent there.
and it'll be too late by then, since they'll have had it ingrained in their heads since they were young.Oh, this makes a good point. It's kind of progressive now, but what about when they're teenagers, addressing me in a way that sounds like a precocious little shit giving a fantastic step-dad a terrible time?
My kids know me and my wife's name, but I didn't tolerate it for a second when the younger one (5) tried to call me by my name versus Dad or Daddy. It sounds mean, but we aren't friends, we aren't peers. If they want to call me by my name when they are adults, that's absolutely okay... but as a kid? Nah. There needs to be that kind of level of separation.
I think this is actually something you may want to modify because it's going to be awkward if they do it to say, a teacher.
If children aren't subordinates, then what even is a subordinate?
OP it's your job to raise these kids to be good people. That will be way more difficult if they don't respect you and see you as a peer or a friend. I'd shut it down, quickly.
I also can't imagine calling aunts and uncles by their first names. Super disrespectful.