I'm bi and this whole mess inside LGBTQ community is making me often not wanting to be a part of some bigger, organised group. These people telling who those people are. Defining this and that. Are you pan? Are you bi? How do you know? Would you date a trans person?
I just like who I like ffs. I fucking hate labels.
sorry for the mini rant
No, you need to rigidly define exactly who you are and aren't intetested in, box yourself in, stick a label on yourself, disagree with other members of the LGBT+ community about what said label actually means and then act hostile, passive-aggressive and patronising when someone doesn't immediately know every nuance of a label that even the community can barely agree on and which is barely known outside of quite particular social circles.