Discussion in 'EtcetEra' started by fireflame, Apr 20, 2018.
Fake it 'til you make it.
I was 19 and a fool, never again.
The closest he's come to anything like that is his response to a claim that love at first sight doesn't exist.
Now I don't agree with him. I think a person's definitely of love has to be fairly shallow for them to claim they've experienced love at first sight. However, that doesn't give anyone to right to call him a 12 year old or claim he's banging his mum. That's just being a dick.
he's an immature paynis
I was saying that shitting on someone for love when they haven't experienced it themselves doesn't make sense. I wasn't shitting on their lives.
Come on dude.
This is really sad thread. Sad in the traditional sense. Sad in the embarrassing sense. I just don't know what I'm reading.
I have no doubt that there are some individuals who aren't wired for love, but I have to believe that's s small minority. So for what it's worth, don't give up on the idea. Its not phony. Its absolutely the best thing in the world.
Maybe take a step back?
was to call someone's reasonable opinion bullshit. His insults were way over the top though.
Personally, I do believe love at first sight exists. Love is an emotion/thought/mental state, sometimes conciously arived at and sometimes subconciously. There's zero reason to think it can't happen. Physical looks aren't the only thing that can be affect someone's initital impressions. Lots of subconcious signals in a person's mannerisms too.
Now I don't believe in soulmates as some mystical magical connection. People who fall in love at first sight often don't neccesarily have their feelings reciprocated, and can certainly end up with someone who is horrible in some way. Or they may become a stalker. Lots of ways it can go wrong lol. Doesn't change the feeling itself.
There's a number of women I've been in love with. Sometimes at the same time! (though I'd never cheat). I've felt the love at first sight thing before a few times, and though my instincts regarding the girl were spot on, I knew I'd be a nightmare to be with at the time and wouldn't be able to handle the relationship myself (poor, injuries, sickness, shut in, debt, etc.).
This was never worth my time so I'm bailing on this thread for good.
Also, you really aren't in any position to call someone immature when you're claiming they bang their own mother and calling them a penis.
Pot, meet kettle
I couldn’t relate to not being able to experience love. I love everyone at first sight. Even myself. Mmmm.
But yeah, I guess defending my position means I'm an immature sad loser lacking self-control and empathy who is actually 12 years old and bangs his mom.
Like seriously, read what you are writing. It's not normal.
It's clear that this thread has devolved and run its course. Thread locked.