Being selective in whom they offer a service to can be discrimination, but being selective in which service they offer is not. That gives them the freedom to act with poor moral character, but that is the price of any freedom.That would be awful, yes. The thing is, there is no perfect solution. I think the downsides of requiring people to finish the product regardless of icing text are less severe than the downsides of letting them choose to discriminate, like in the case that caused this thread.
Sure, there's being unaware. But there is also simple changing. And something being transient does not make it useless as an identifier. I'm a gamer until I'm not. I'm a an audiophile until I'm not.Yes, people aren't static, but the aspects of a person's identity are static by definition. If such an aspect could be changed then it is useless as an identifier.
Just to give my own life as a counterargument, going to a religious school throughout my childhood made me a rather late bloomer when it came to sexual orientation. I barely even knew what being gay was, and I didn't start questioning myself until I was in 9th grade. However, once I came to terms with my sexuality previous things in my life started to make more sense, such as why I never romantically cared about the other girls in my class. Up until I came upon that realization I thought I was straight, but now I know more about myself. I didn't change from being straight to being gay. I was always gay, I just didn't perceive myself to be until later in life. My perception of myself changed, not my sexuality.
You may see a story like this and think "well yeah, you're not attracted to girls, of course you're gay", but depending on the person and/or their environment they may have trouble accepting themselves or even be completely oblivious to this sort of thing. That's why such a thing is complicated.
No, because that implies that one's sexuality is a choice, which it absolutely isn't.Sure, there's being unaware. But there is also simple changing.
No it doesn't, at least not consciously. Though acting on any inclinations is certainly a choice which in and of itself may create a self reinforcing feedback loop. Not sure why people are so dogmatic about the brain when it is so incredibly malleable and complex.No, because that implies that one's sexuality is a choice, which it absolutely isn't.
Sexual orientation is really not equivalent to race. One is fluid the other is not.
Yes it is. Many people are gay and remain gay.Yes, everyone deserves respect. That said, speaking from personal experience, sexuality is not immutable. That's not a conversation for this topic though.
This isn't the slippery slope you're making it out to be and I don't know what it is that you're not getting.I don't want woman to have to provide services to people who are sexist to them, I don't want LGBT people to have to provide services to people that were homophobic to them, I don't want minorities to be forced to provide services to people who were racist to them. I believe in the right to refuse service for political beliefs - it works the other way. And you haven't come up with a way of protecting that right. You ignore the problems I come up with - it is a legal issue because it's about making law.
I agree, I just believe that this freedom is not something necessary or even positive for certain jobs. Icing text on a cake, painting a wall, printing anything that's legal to print, these are non-creative tasks that, in my opinion, should be fulfilled without any creative input from the worker. You may think that sounds cruel, but I believe that this is the best system possible.Being selective in whom they offer a service to can be discrimination, but being selective in which service they offer is not. That gives them the freedom to act with poor moral character, but that is the price of any freedom.
A choice needs to be conscious by definition because you need to have agency over the matter.No it doesn't, at least not consciously. Though acting on any inclinations is certainly a choice which in and of itself may create a self reinforcing feedback loop. Not sure why people are so dogmatic about the brain when it is so incredibly malleable and complex.
Just a reminder that "pro gay" just means treating LGBTQ people with dignity. That's the message people are "uncomfortable" with.
It's not the same thing. Being against gay marriage is not something that needs protection against discrimination.Eh, if I was making a cake and a customer wanted me to make one that said "Repeal Gay Marriage" then I would like to be able to refuse that. So it's hard for me to rebuke this technicality.
Thankfully I'm sure there are plenty of bakeries that will happily make a cake that will say what you want and the shitty ones will lose business.
Why are you so convinced that one's self is not changeable? If that's the case why bother trying to rehabilitate individuals? People can and do change themselves consciously and unconsciously all the time.A choice needs to be conscious by definition because you need to have agency over the matter.
Me accepting my sexuality wasn't a choice either. It's not "I guess I'm gay now", it's "this is who I am."
I think the issue here is that you're conflating "self" with "sense of self" when they really should be separate entities. The "self" will never change, but people can change how they perceive themselves at any time, even willingly lie to themselves.
I have bad news for you.Gay marrige like hetero marriage is a step to universal happiness.
Is it some stupid comment about how marriages can fail?
Gay marriage is not a political belief. There's nothing political about it. Y'all think it's a political issue because conservative fuckheads scream loudly enough and y'all take the bait. Calling it a political belief just means bigots can find ways to not believe in it without being labeled a bigot. Gay marrige like hetero marriage is a step to universal happiness. It's like saying climate change or vaccinations are political beliefs, and if anyone does believe that then please get out or don't add to the gene pool.
That means nothing. I could get a political flier that says climate change is real. Because something is politicized doesn't make it a political belief.The activist literally gave the bakery a political flyer to put on the cake.
More about the general idea that universal happiness derives from a social construct. It's naive.
So a meaningless comment. The pursuit of happiness is undeniable especially when it is given to the majority of the people and not a few. It's universally wrong.More about the general idea that universal happiness derives from a social construct. It's naive.
It is a political issue though because unless it's changed through political means, it's not legal. It shouldn't be an issue, political or otherwise, but that's just not realistic.Gay marriage is not a political belief. There's nothing political about it. Y'all think it's a political issue because conservative fuckheads scream loudly enough and y'all take the bait. Calling it a political belief just means bigots can find ways to not believe in it without being labeled a bigot. Gay marrige like hetero marriage is a step to universal happiness. It's like saying climate change or vaccinations are political beliefs, and if anyone does believe that then please get out or don't add to the gene pool.
So if someone is unhappy because they are gay and can't get married, it's actually their fault for not being happy without marriage?You are never going to be happy throughout your entire life if you can't find it in yourself and have to rely on external forces.
So if I was to put minorities and white people cannot marry on my political agenda and idiots believe me, it's not wrong for people who vote my party to deny work regarding the approval and acceptance of interracial marriage?It is a political issue though because unless it's changed through political means, it's not legal. It shouldn't be an issue, political or otherwise, but that's just not realistic.
You are never going to be happy throughout your entire life if you can't find it in yourself and have to rely on external forces.
Didn't that exact thing happen until, politically, it was changed to make it legal?So if I was to put minorities and white people cannot marry on my political agenda and idiots believe me, it's not wrong for people who vote my party to deny work regarding the approval and acceptance of interracial marriage?
A person's personality and disposition are not part of said person's identity, though. Sexual orientation is, which is why it is discriminatory to not treat it equally like you would with race or sex.Why are you so convinced that one's self is not changeable? If that's the case why bother trying to rehabilitate individuals? People can and do change themselves consciously and unconsciously all the time.
Like, I get what you're saying: politicians make the policies so it's a political thing. You're missing the point, though, it's not a political issue, it's a Right's issue wrapped in politics. You can discrimate against someone because it is OK to not support another political party because 1 party actually supports people. Basic human rights and decency are not political issues. They are not default political as that allows for hateful people to slow down progress.Didn't that exact thing happen until, politically, it was changed to make it legal?
Anything can be classed as political but, the fact is, supporting gay marriage in Northern Ireland is supporting a union that is not currently legal until politicians make that change. It's completely a political issue until it's no longer a political issue.
Yep just like Abortion rights are a political issue because it's the law that decides them - and we require politics as the tool to change the law. Heck we require politics to uphold the laws and keep minorities rights. Calling it a political issue doesn't make it less of a right or make Gay marriage an "opinion". It means you need to use the law and politician's to enforce it. Unfortunately at the moment we don't even have a government in Northern Ireland at the moment and I don't see us getting one soon - maybe the Civil Service could push it through - or at least give us a Referendum - hopefully on Abortion rights too.Didn't that exact thing happen until, politically, it was changed to make it legal?
Anything can be classed as political but, the fact is, supporting gay marriage in Northern Ireland is supporting a union that is not currently legal until politicians make that change. It's completely a political issue until it's no longer a political issue.
They shouldn't be, but as you said, politicians make it that way and you can't just ignore them, you have to push changes through. NI has an added issue of one of the worst abuses of democracy when we had a government in place - "the petition of concern", a device to prevent a dominant unionist or nationalist majority from creating policies that would directly negatively impact the other side.
You say most don't support it but that really isn't the case - DUP is the one party that opposes it and there was a study where they analysed their voters and 33% were in favour, 33% opposed and 33 % didn't mind either way- and that's the party that is opposed to Gay marriage. The problem is less that people are opposed to Gay Marriage, it's that it is never actually treated as a proper issue- Sinn Fein basically just put a gay marriage vote in as a way to score political points from DUP, they weren't honestly trying to get it through. Despite in the last election constantly using Civil Rights rhetoric and putting rainbow posters in students areas, they positioned the Irish Language Act as their red line for government talks and didn't bring up gay marriage at all. And a NI government has to be made of the largest parties from both sides so it's not like they didn't have the political power to do so. NI politics devolves done to one issue- Us vs Them and the setup makes it incredibly hard to hold any party accountable. But that doesn't mean that the NI people don't care about those issues or want something changed, it's that it's incredibly hard to get the parties to do anything at all. We can't even get them back in government and they've been out nearly two yearsThey shouldn't be, but as you said, politicians make it that way and you can't just ignore them, you have to push changes through. NI has an added issue of one of the worst abuses of democracy when we had a government in place - "the petition of concern", a device to prevent a dominant unionist or nationalist majority from creating policies that would directly negatively impact the other side.
It allowed two people to basically block anything including, as it happens, equal marriage because of how it can be abused.
It shouldn't be, but it's very much a political issue here because it's certainly not one of society where most support it.
If you vote for DUP or Sinn Fein, you cause these issues. There's good politicians out there and none of them are in either party. Once people here wake up, then we'd have proper government. The us vs them has gone on too long.You say most don't support it but that really isn't the case - DUP is the one party that opposes it and there was a study where they analysed their voters and 33% were in favour, 33% opposed and 33 % didn't mind either way- and that's the party that is opposed to Gay marriage. The problem is less that people are opposed to Gay Marriage, it's that it is never actually treated as a proper issue- Sinn Fein basically just put a gay marriage vote in as a way to score political points from DUP, they weren't honestly trying to get it through. Despite in the last election constantly using Civil Rights rhetoric and putting rainbow posters in students areas, they positioned the Irish Language Act as their red line for government talks and didn't bring up gay marriage at all. And a NI government has to be made of the largest parties from both sides so it's not like they didn't have the political power to do so. NI politics devolves done to one issue- Us vs Them and the setup makes it incredibly hard to hold any party accountable. But that doesn't mean that the NI people don't care about those issues or want something changed, it's that it's incredibly hard to get the parties to do anything at all. We can't even get them back in government and they've been out nearly two years
You keep arguing this point but I disagree. It's not fixed. But it can still be discriminatory even if it is. An attribute being innate or static is not a prerequisite to bar discrimination based on said attribute. Religion for example.A person's personality and disposition are not part of said person's identity, though. Sexual orientation is, which is why it is discriminatory to not treat it equally like you would with race or sex.
What exactly is preventing you from agreeing with me? I'm not just speaking anecdotally here, you know. No gay person is going to say that they "became gay" because that's just not how it happens.You keep arguing this point but I disagree. It's fungible. But it can still be discriminatory even if it is. An attribute being innate or static is not a prerequisite to bar discrimination based on said attribute. Religion for example.
Speak for yourself. My own experience differs.No gay person is going to say that they "became gay" because that's just not how it happens.
Tell me about it.
Are we really going to pretend it's just the DUP and it's British Colonialism, and that it's not alot more complicated that that? Also the DUP didn't exist til after the Troubles started. And Sinn Fein are just as bad. They actually do have convicted murderers as their Special Advisors. My dad lost 4 friends in the Troubles and nearly got killed himself, and I have had to grow up in a divided country where I've been told when I was like 5 that I didn't believe in God and was a heathen cus I was a protestant by a neighbour girl down the street who I actually played with cus "her principal told her so". I went to an SDLP meeting at Uni with a friend and a Ulster Unionist MLA was there because he was invited by a lecturer and he answere their questions and was polite. A guy after he left asked "Who invited one of them?" and everyone laughed and snickered. Northern Ireland is alot more complicated then you are acting, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't go around talking about something you don't seem to know much about (some of your history is just wrong).
Well, I won't claim to understand your own situation, but I also can't really understand your argument either without that, so I guess we're at an impasse. =/
What about a person who'd lost family to the IRA but they were forced to make flyers for Sinn Fein, the legal political wing of the IRA who are actually in government and would not go under hate speech laws? What then?
It's very difficult to communicate experiences admittedly. Mine differs from yours, however, and that should be enough.Well, I won't claim to understand your own situation, but I also can't really understand your argument either without that, so I guess we're at an impasse. =/
Privately owned businesses are not public property.A bakery is public. It is on a public street, in a building that anyone can enter. This isn't some online person on Twitter that can ignore you. If you have such a public, walk-in establishment, you should be required to do the decent thing and just write it. It's not even a hate message.