NY Gov. Andrew Cuomo drops the n-word in radio interview

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This is a weird situation, because if he's actually mentioning a racial slur that was used against his people and calling it out AS the racial slur it is, that doesn't seem like the worst thing in the world. These words and slurs existed. It's not like he's trying to use it for fun.

Third-generation Italian American here, and I've certainly heard that one mentioned in passing by my grandparents and great-grandmother (old-school NY Italians) as a term that was directed at them in the Depression era. It's weird to think that Italians spent a good chunk of the 20th century not being considered ethnically white until civil rights happened and then suddenly racist white people were like "ITALIANS AND IRISH, C'MON IN!"
It's worse than that. Italians/Irish were considered white once Mexicans started adopting Catholic orphans. Then of course white people couldn't let that happen...
 

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Given the context, I'm gonna be honest and say I'm not really that incensed by this. There's a huge difference between this and calling somebody the n-word or pulling a pewdiepie and dropping it as a slur or whatever.
 

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Got nervous when I saw the thread title since I like Cuomo. I'm relieved that this was the context in which he used the word.
 

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It's basically this, but he still should've said n-word because the slur he is referencing is no longer common usage and Italians have been considered white in this country for decades.
I don't disagree that he shouldn't have used the word, but he's talking about his actual experience isn't he? And "decades" is sort of glossing things over. My mother is not even 70 and had shit like this said to her (and her father's) face.
 

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For a little bit more context, calling Italians guineas is calling them Africans.
 

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Yea this is pretty much a nothing story. It’s a slur used against Italian Americans.
 

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Usually I don't mind when somebody is quoting and trying to make an effective point, but your the Governor of NY. and the current reality of Italian Americans are not the same today. What ever point he was trying to make probably is going to get lost and this is just going to be fodder for certain people.
 
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It's an ugly word. I don't really see the point of sanitizing slurs or swears. Who are you making comfortable with the cute little euphemisms?

He was also quoting something.

But it probably was a stupid thing to do though at the end of the day.
 

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I don't disagree that he shouldn't have used the word, but he's talking about his actual experience isn't he? And "decades" is sort of glossing things over. My mother is not even 70 and had shit like this said to her (and her father's) face.
Decades is not glossing things over, if your grandmother is 70 then she's been alive for 7 decades. It's a statement of fact. Italians are white now and have been for decades. Cuomo benefits from white priviledge and has for basically his entire career, his family is a political dynasty in NY state. If you don't think he should've said the n-word either then what are we arguing about exactly?
 

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Italians are white.

They simply don't have any claim to say the n-word with impunity in the current year.
 

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Yeah when I first found out about that I was fucking blown away. Couldn't believe that is what caused the shift.
My great grandmother got here from Italy with her family a couple years before the Depression hit, and while it was hard to get a lot of detail out of her on the subject, my grandmother told me that they were treated like shit for AGES until suddenly everyone just stopped. What a weird trigger for a social shift.
 

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I was referred to using that two-part slur as recently as this past year during my recent visit to Upstate NY, I'm Italian American and am unmistakably white - as are my parents. Italian Americans have been largely considered "white" for decades but I don't really see how that defangs that awful slur - it certainly doesn't give me comfort when I hear hicks from Upstate NY say it to myself or my family. That shit fucking hurts when I hear it used against white-passing members of my family or otherwise.

I think there's room in discourse to say the full slur when discussing it with the intent of exposing hatred and dragging racial discrimination into the spotlight. I don't think he has any business saying it as a political official but at the same time the notion that other people can tell an Italian American that he's not allowed to directly reference a relevant racial epithet targeted towards Italian Americans is kind of... Yeah, not sure how to feel about that.
 

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It's a really dumb and insensitive choice, and he really should've just used "n-word", but honestly it doesn't strike me as the biggest deal. That said I'm white so my opinion does not matter here
 

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Guys, the article he's quoting is called "How Italians Became White". He knows he's considered white in this day and age.
 

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I'm not gonna lie, as a non-USA person, the entire n-word question - a word that is socially acceptable or not depending on the race of the speaker - never ceases to puzzle and fascinate me. There's literally no equivalent in my language.

WOPs. Non-italians used to refer to Italian immigrants using the status a lot of police gave them upon arresting them for being illegals - WithOutPassport.
Thanks for this, never have heard this term before.
This is actually a backronym. The real etymology is from the neapolitan term for "guy" - written "guappo", pronounced "wah-po", incorrectly written down by english-speakers as "wop".
 

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I was referred to using that two-part slur as recently as this past year during my recent visit to Upstate NY, I'm Italian American and am unmistakably white - as are my parents. Italian Americans have been largely considered "white" for decades but I don't really see how that defangs that awful slur - it certainly doesn't give me comfort when I hear hicks from Upstate NY say it to myself or my family. That shit fucking hurts when I hear it used against white-passing members of my family or otherwise.

I think there's room in discourse to say the full slur when discussing it with the intent of exposing hatred and dragging racial discrimination into the spotlight. I don't think he has any business saying it as a political official but at the same time the notion that other people can tell an Italian American that he's not allowed to directly reference a relevant racial epithet targeted towards Italian Americans is kind of... Yeah, not sure how to feel about that.
It doesn't defang the awful slur, but when you are speaking publically in a broader context of governor of one of the largest states in the nation you have a higher level of responsibility than the average person. I'm of primarily Irish decent, Irish people were called all kind of awful shit just like Italians. I'm not gonna use the word even if some hick asshole in upstate NY calls me it. Same goes for a white person dating a black person being called an "n-word lover" or any other variation of white people being called the n-word.
 

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It doesn't defang the awful slur, but when you are speaking publically in a broader context of governor of one of the largest states in the nation you have a higher level of responsibility than the average person. I'm of primarily Irish decent, Irish people were called all kind of awful shit just like Italians. I'm not gonna use the word even if some hick asshole in upstate NY calls me it. Same goes for a white person dating a black person being called an "n-word lover" or any other variation of white people being called the n-word.
So wait...if someone asked a person that was confronted by that slur what was said to them they have to say “n-word”?
 
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It's a really dumb and insensitive choice, and he really should've just used "n-word", but honestly it doesn't strike me as the biggest deal. That said I'm white so my opinion does not matter here
To be quite fair I hate it when used in a quote people say 'n-word' or even 'f-word' (fuck, but can apply to others). Say the full thing. Don't add substitutes. Context matters. Obviously don't say it willy-nilly but when in a quote say what it says on paper.
 

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So wait...if someone asked a person that was confronted by that slur what was said to them they have to say “n-word”?
They don't HAVE to do anything. It's not illegal to say the n-word. The question is whether, as a white person, you should use the n-word or not. Everyone knows what the n-word is, you will be understood.
 

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lol i love how he used so many qualifiers, 'pardon my language', 'just quoting the times', 'i have a black friend!' but still went ahead with it.
 

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It doesn't defang the awful slur, but when you are speaking publically in a broader context of governor of one of the largest states in the nation you have a higher level of responsibility than the average person. I'm of primarily Irish decent, Irish people were called all kind of awful shit just like Italians. I'm not gonna use the word even if some hick asshole in upstate NY calls me it. Same goes for a white person dating a black person being called an "n-word lover" or any other variation of white people being called the n-word.
I think using "n-word" gives people using it a pass. I've been called that and i would never say "hey i was called the n-word" fuck that. It's like some bs jedi mind trick that people use to get away with saying the word.
 

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I think its more a PR blunder than him being a racist or something. Not a great look and he should apologize if he hasn't... but it doesn't seem like something to get so hung up on.
 

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I'm not gonna lie, as a non-USA person, the entire n-word question - a word that is socially acceptable or not depending on the race of the speaker - never ceases to puzzle and fascinate me. There's literally no equivalent in my language.



This is actually a backronym. The real etymology is from the neapolitan term for "guy" - written "guappo", pronounced "wah-po", incorrectly written down by english-speakers as "wop".
I see, thank you.
 

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They don't HAVE to do anything. It's not illegal to say the n-word. The question is whether, as a white person, you should use the n-word or not.
In your opinion, in the hypothetical scenario of a white guy walking with his black wife being called n***er lover, he should only describe this incident, if asked later, with a censored slur? And if they didn’t you’d consider that in poor taste or otherwise inappropriate?
 

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Not the smartest thing to say, but it is a slur that was used against his ethnicity. Safest thing to do would have said "n-word wops" I suppose.

I would not get upset at a Muslim/arab person using "sand-n*****," for example, when describing slurs used against their people.
Yeah, that’s where I’m at. I know plenty of Italians and this was a slur that was used. Getting bent out of shape about this seems strange since Italians didn’t used to be considered white. So...
 
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Not the smartest thing to say, but it is a slur that was used against his ethnicity. Safest thing to do would have said "n-word wops" I suppose.

I would not get upset at a Muslim/arab person using "sand-n*****," for example, when describing slurs used against their people.
Ehhh I'm not sure. I just don't see it as necessary to get the point across.

I've been called a sand-n***** plenty of times but I've never said it back at any point when someone asked what I was called. There's no reason to say the word.

It's still some racist assdick applying someone else's slur to me. They hate black people so much they couldn't come up with anything they consider worse, the unoriginal fucks just threw on a modifier. So repeating it just hurts two groups of minorities, lol idk. I just don't like saying it.
 

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Ok I think he shouldn't have said it, a n-word is enough, but considering it's paraphrasing a text that deals with the slurs his ancestors had to deal with, I don't think it's such a big deal.