Did she go full stupid with the instagram stuff sure.
But Im sorry as a parent I would of done the same thing, if you are going to practice at a thing like this just ask ahead of time or go find some adults playing a pickup game or something.
random people photographing kids put people on edge it sucks but that's the world we live in
To be fair I don't think "it's legal" was really a great argument from the guy. Parents can get uncomfortable when strangers are taking photographs of their kids. Like it or not, that's the world we live in. Saying "well it's legal" doesn't do anything to alleviate that.
I'll happily give the guy the benefit of the doubt here, I don't think he was being a creep and I think it's super fucking shitty of her to threaten him with her Instagram army. But I also don't think it's hard to see why some parents may be uncomfortable with a stranger who has no affiliation with the team or any of the kids playing taking pictures, and using "it's not illegal" as his justification for it. When it comes to taking pictures of kids it doesn't hurt anyone to be a bit more prepared, maybe let the school or organisers know ahead of time that you're going to be there taking pictures and what they're going to be used for.
People get "put on edge" and "uncomfortable" for pointless stuff all the time. See the bathroom hysteria in red states.
Someone doing perfectly normal stuff shouldn't have to fear a paranoid over reaction.
I don't think I would care. Americans are so paranoid and scared of each other. If that's a thing he does all the time then I don't think it's weird.
Publishing of pictures should always have consent tho.
Publishing for commerical use requires consent.
Publishing in a way that violates a right of publicity requires consent.
Aside from art and news, publishing generally requires consent if the subject is identifiable.
That is a key element of US law. Taking photos is a right. Publishing photos has regulations.
I'm not a constitutional scholar or anything like that but looking over the text it doesn't appear that's the case. If you have a court case or something that says otherwise I'd be interested in reading it.
This is media law 101. Plenty of resources available with a simple Google search. Or you could check ACLU resources.
This is also a good place to start if you want to learn:
www.krages.com
Her assy attitude "Uhm, EXCUSSSSE me!..." etc is way over the top, but he doesn't really help himself by immediately going to "well it's legal". It very well might be legal, but courtesy would suggest asking permission from whoever is in charge first given that he's there alone and has no connection to any of the young kids he's photographing.
All this could just be ironed out so easily if people didn't get all righteous indignation from the very first beat of the interaction (Duff). This is so typical of these viral confrontations where people overreact immediately because the adrenaline kicks in and they feel powerful from holding a phone to someone's face. She could just go over there and ask calmly and then go find someone in charge and he could ask them if it's ok to take action shots of the game, and he could email them a link to his flickr account or whatever. It could be a regular gig even. People just need to step off and take a breath, if something is not right, then it will escalate naturally, no need to go in guns blazing.
I work exclusively in the youth sports and school portrait industry. Parents of all races freak out about their kid's privacy, even when they're in a private space, getting their picture taken from a professional photographer, hired specifically from the school or league.
Telling a parent to shove off even though you're a random person taking a picture of their kid in a public space is just being a dick for no reason. Regardless of what their attitude is.
Given that 2019 was the year of the entitled white woman calling cops on black folks for existing, his response was pretty restrained.
You don't offer up an ID to be an ass.
Do you get annoyed at drive thrus or banks or any store in existence? Cause they are all taking constant images of you, do you get annoyed at the other parents taking pictures there that you are in?
Perfectly okay to be annoyed with you picture being taken but it's well within their rights, it's 2020 if you don't want your picture and data out there you need to live in a cave.
Again we are putting a shitton of responsibility on the wronged party here, should he have to go introduce himself and ask everyone at the game beforehand? What about people walking by? None of this makes it okay to threaten this guy and go after him like she did.
*Ding ding ding*
Not really a good comparison. Whether I agree with it or not, stored and banks can at least justify why they're taking pictures, for security and to prevent criminal activity. Other parents can justify why they're taking pictures, because their own kids are there.
This guys justification was "It's not illegal". To most parents, some guy taking pictures of their kids just because he can would be more concerning than another parent accidentally capturing them in photos of their own kids.
Anyone who is worried about surveillance should very much worry about security cameras instead of a rando with a camera.
Security cameras capture patterns of action and are more likely to be fed into a ML database than the man on the street.
Oh I would stop if someone asked. I would not stop if someone came over trying to be a tough guy or what she is doing here using it as a opportunity to get clicks.
This. Most photographers I know are friendly to a fault and will happily answer questions unless someone comes up on them like a wannabe security guard.
At that point it simply becomes a matter of telling the person to stop being an idiot.
He was defiant about stopping before she even once implied she would then spread her video. He retorted about being legally allowed immediately instead of something decent to make her understand his position to continue or stop. Her reaction escalated too far, but I can't say he had any decency in discussing the issue itself.
There's every chance she wouldn't have bothered posting this if the encounter was simply him saying, "Sure, I just came to the field to practice on this camera, I can check out a different field." Instead if she was suspicious before about him knowing famous people had kids there, she sure might still feel that way after his response.
Respect goes both ways.
There's every chance he would have been friendly if she didn't come at him with video on. Given recent history he was likely expecting exactly the BS she threw out.
Really. There is so much fallacious logic in this thread it's insane. If you're ONLY appeal is to legality than both of them are blameless. It's just as legal to film him as it is for him to take the photos.
If she's in the wrong than you have to appeal to morality / decency. And if you do that then you gotta admit taking pictures of other people's kids and then getting defensive when you're told it's making people uncomfortable is not OK.
FWIW I am almost certain she would not have noticed or approached him if he was a white guy, and she absolutely overshot the mark by filming and posting the interaction. But that doesn't absolve the dude of doing weird stuff and being generally disrespectful of his subjects' wishes.
And to the "no expectation of privacy" crowd: can you honestly say with a straight face that you'd be 100% ok with someone standing near you at the park just photographing your children with a professional long-range lens? Really? If you can, well, consider becoming an actor or a politician....
She's in the right to film video of him. She's wrong to threaten him with harassment.
Why would I worry about a rando taking a photo in public?
If they have sweet gear, I'll ask to check it out and ask for a copy if it looks good.
If they sell it without permission, I've got a slam dunk lawsuit. Yay for a free payday.