Yeah it happens occasionally, usually makes me cringe more than be offended, I guess because they represent such an insignificant physical threat to me. Never had a woman grab me though thankfully.
The hell? this is fucking weirdThis is not an uncommon occurrence, neither from strangers like this nurse nor from people I know like co-workers. Older women in my team will grab my arm when standing next to me talking and one put her hand on my leg when sitting.
Yeah, some of the replies in this thread reek of toxic masculinity. Like, you can feel however you want when that happens to you but dismissing it when someone feels unconfortable is awful.Good to see people dismissing sexual harassment in threads about obvious sexual harassment goes both ways! (this is sarcasm, it is not good to see).
This is sexual harassment, just the same as if it was a man doing it. The problem is, people at large are like these commenters and think any attention is good attention. In what fucking world is being harassed to the point where you feel uncomfortable and embarrassed something to brag about? Fucking hell. I'm sorry that this has happened to you, OP. I know how hard it is to feel safe or "justified" in reporting that kind of behavior.
Brah. What in the fuck.That actually happened with me too with a nurse (and she wasn't that old).
You have such a nice ass. (my ass was bare-naked and with a giant hole)
(next day)
Oh its the guy with the nice ass
I would be a blatant liar if I said I didn't enjoy it. But this doesnt really happen outside of medical facilities.
Brah. What in the fuck.
Maybe it's just me but I'd be fucking uncomfortable if a nurse commented on my bare naked ass in a hospital setting. I'm also assuming the hole was an injury or something else? Like that would be the one place I wouldn't ever want a compliment about my body.
I mean being touched on my thigh or near my crotch is also a no cause I just don't like being touched by men or women at all but anyway... Was she an injury fetishist or something? I don't understand...
Brah. What in the fuck.
Maybe it's just me but I'd be fucking uncomfortable if a nurse commented on my bare naked ass in a hospital setting. I'm also assuming the hole was an injury or something else? Like that would be the one place I wouldn't ever want a compliment about my body.
I mean being touched on my thigh or near my crotch is also a no cause I just don't like being touched by men or women at all but anyway... Was she an injury fetishist or something? I don't understand...
This is a thing that I've been experiencing for a good while now. Older women give me, often sexual, compliments and comments in discomforting ways.
I've seen thirsty, but that's dehydrated.This is a thing that I've been experiencing for a good while now. Older women give me, often sexual, compliments and comments in discomforting ways.
A concrete example from yesterday. I was at the doctor and a nurse was taking over the rest of the treatment. When she came in she blurted out "ohh what a good-looking young man, it will be nice to treat you" and then added a "mmm" kind of under her breath. Creepy.
This is not an uncommon occurrence, neither from strangers like this nurse nor from people I know like co-workers. Older women in my team will grab my arm when standing next to me talking and one put her hand on my leg when sitting.
I find this behavior very uncomfortable and I feel like it's way more accepted and often laughed off among most people, compared to the same being done to young women. I realize the balance of power is not the same, but I find it odd how accepted it is to e.g. call a young guy hot in a professional setting and no one bats an eye. When I've told others about this I've been told to "be a man" and "just accept the compliment" or that I'm humble bragging.
Any other guys experiencing this a lot? How do you handle it?
Agreed.I experience it... but it doesn't necessarily bother me...
If you feel harassed.. find the strength to stop it. Nobody should make you feel uncomfortable
Pretty sure most asses have thatThat actually happened with me too with a nurse (and she wasn't that old).
You have such a nice ass. (my ass was bare-naked and with a giant hole)
(next day)
Oh its the guy with the nice ass
I would be a blatant liar if I said I didn't enjoy it. But this doesnt really happen outside of medical facilities.
Christ, this thread would be a graveyard if the genders were flipped.
...What the fuck.Also distinctly remember a woman leaning over real close and smelling my friends hair and then saying "Now I understand why some mother's want to fuck their sons". So creepy.
Christ, this thread would be a graveyard if the genders were flipped.
Yeah that shit happened over 20 years ago and it is still seared in my brain.