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So an old date just messaged me saying she’ll give me a second chance but...

Uzumaki Goku

Uzumaki Goku

One Winged Slayer
Member
Oct 27, 2017
19,316
Honestly, I'm not sure I want. She and I didn't meet because of miscommunication and other things and while I did admit I fucked up. She also made me feel horrible. Today she messages me saying she'll give me a second chance but... I'm not sure I want it. She doesn't seem like my type of girl, she's a big drinker. I'm talking to another girl who I'm more interested in but I don't know what to do here, I haven't responded yet and I'm not sure I should. What should I do?
 
BobNewbert

BobNewbert

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Oct 30, 2017
261
FL
Say "No, I'm good. Thanks."

When she tries to make you feel horrible again, you'll know you made the right choice.
 
geo

geo

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Oct 25, 2017
38
Hyrule
You already know what you want to do. Follow your heart here. You'll be miserable if you let her pull you into something you don't want. Do your best to resist booty calls, too. It's an easy way to manipulate you into spending more time with her and then dating her. Trust me, I know from personal experience.
 

Aegus

Member
Oct 29, 2017
1,198
Sounds the type of relationship where she'd dump you at the drop of a hat.
 
Darknight

Darknight

"I'd buy that for a dollar!"
Member
Oct 25, 2017
22,858
Everything seems to point that you're not interested. What's holding you back from accepting this conclusion?
 
Zellia

Zellia

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
2,769
UK
Nothing about your OP suggests you actually want it, so the answer seems fairly obvious.
 
HellforLeather

HellforLeather

Banned
Oct 29, 2017
3,166
Not sure what the point of this topic is. Sounds like you've already made up your mind on it, should probably follow through on that feeling.
 
Supervizzle

Supervizzle

Avenger
Oct 27, 2017
95
Sounds like you don't want to. Especially if you're talking to someone else who you're more interested in – focus on her instead. Politely decline, keep it brief.
 
LL_Decitrig

LL_Decitrig

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Oct 27, 2017
10,334
Sunderland
You're unsure she's worth it. On the other hand if you have no current ties you could give it a go. What would you stand to lose?
 
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Uzumaki Goku

Uzumaki Goku

One Winged Slayer
Member
Oct 27, 2017
19,316
Basically, she just comes off as condescending, she's probably having trouble getting a boyfriend which is why she's come back to me.
 
Carfo

Carfo

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
1,857
Uzumaki Goku said:
Honestly, I'm not sure I want. She and I didn't meet because of miscommunication and other things and while I did admit I fucked up. She also made me feel horrible. Today she messages me saying she'll give me a second chance but... I'm not sure I want it. She doesn't seem like my type of girl, she's a big drinker. I'm talking to another girl who I'm more interested in but I don't know what to do here, I haven't responded yet and I'm not sure I should. What should I do?
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well i remember your post saying you were having a hard time finding people on eharmony or whatever site you used. my advise would be: if you're connecting with the girl you're talking to now and think it will go somewhere, then ignore this other girl. if you're up in the air about either one of them, just go on a date with her and see how it goes. worst case scenario it doesn't work out and you don't have any regrets
 
Kensation

Kensation

Enlightened
The Fallen
Oct 27, 2017
6,847
Uzumaki Goku said:
She doesn't seem like my type of girl, she's a big drinker. I'm talking to another girl who I'm more interested in
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marrec

marrec

Banned
Oct 26, 2017
6,775
Are you otherwise busy? Give is a go who knows, worst is you'd be out a couple bucks why not

If you're in here asking...
 
Lashley

Lashley

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Oct 25, 2017
60,059
whats the point of this thread? only you know

you obviously dont like her, so why bother?
 
Miles X

Miles X

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
710
Why are you even confused? Feel like you already know what needs to be done but wanted to tell everyone about it.
 
Flaurehn

Flaurehn

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Oct 25, 2017
3,362
Mexico City
Uzumaki Goku said:
Honestly, I'm not sure I want. She and I didn't meet because of miscommunication and other things and while I did admit I fucked up. She also made me feel horrible. Today she messages me saying she'll give me a second chance but... I'm not sure I want it. She doesn't seem like my type of girl, she's a big drinker. I'm talking to another girl who I'm more interested in but I don't know what to do here, I haven't responded yet and I'm not sure I should. What should I do?
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Well, then go out with your old date, whats the worst that can happen?. That somehow you end up hooking with her again thus forgeting to go out with this new girl, then your old date whom you don't even like dumps you and makes you feel horrible again and this other girl is out of your live so you end with neither of the two? Sounds like fun don't you think?
 
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