And when I got there the topic was girls and shit. I thought okay whatever, I wanted to talk shit on my barber who's a fucking Sacramento Kings fan in LA but that's neither here nor there so whatever lmao. Then they started talking about what their girls wear and whatnot. Coincidentally, one guy's girl just called him because she got groped at worked by a customer which caused a big scene. This motherfucker, however, decides that he thinks his girl shouldn't be going out to work in tight/attractive clothing because it just shows that they want attention. At this point I thought dude was wayyyyy outta line but the other guys around me agreed to this shit.
One barber even went and talked about how his girl wanted to get a boob job done, but felt that it was unnecessary because he didn't want it and thought his girl just wanted more attention. I shit you not he said "if you get touched on by a guy, I ain't doin shit because you wanted this attention." He kept going on about some bullshit like he could give her the attention behind closed doors and she shouldn't be goin out in public like that.
I was fucking astonished that people still think this way, at least publicly. I think it's because I've been surrounded in a bubble where people would knock this shit down from the first sentence. I felt like I really should've said more than "no one should grope or come on to a girl unless it's consensual, because they're not asking for it unless they're in their right mind and explicitly ask for it," but idk why I didn't .
TLDR: dudes still think women are asking for it if they wear attractive/tight clothing smh
One barber even went and talked about how his girl wanted to get a boob job done, but felt that it was unnecessary because he didn't want it and thought his girl just wanted more attention. I shit you not he said "if you get touched on by a guy, I ain't doin shit because you wanted this attention." He kept going on about some bullshit like he could give her the attention behind closed doors and she shouldn't be goin out in public like that.
I was fucking astonished that people still think this way, at least publicly. I think it's because I've been surrounded in a bubble where people would knock this shit down from the first sentence. I felt like I really should've said more than "no one should grope or come on to a girl unless it's consensual, because they're not asking for it unless they're in their right mind and explicitly ask for it," but idk why I didn't .
TLDR: dudes still think women are asking for it if they wear attractive/tight clothing smh
