I didn't know so many people assumed that their SOs are not functioning adults. Talmbout "go look for the independent adult you got separated from because she probably can't take care of herself."
That's weird, though it's the kind of weird thing I would have maybe thought when I was nineteen or so.
If I get separated from my wife, she is, you know, able to find me when she is ready. Because she's an adult. With intelligence and autonomy.
OP, since you haven't come back and responded to my post, here is my advice: If this is a new-ish relationship, you might think about ending it. This sort of behavior doesn't end, usually, when you let a yeller continue to yell after you apologize. Yelling at your partner in general is a red flag, but in public to me is a big red flag. It could be nothing, but it could be that you have a yeller and shouter-downer on your hands who yells you into submission and capitulation because it works. I would suggest that you don't need that in your life, having had friends who have dated yellers and seeing what that's like.
At the very least, were I you, I would let her know that yelling isn't an acceptable way to communicate anger and that you won't accept that sort of behavior again.
Then don't, if it happens again.
That's weird, though it's the kind of weird thing I would have maybe thought when I was nineteen or so.
If I get separated from my wife, she is, you know, able to find me when she is ready. Because she's an adult. With intelligence and autonomy.
OP, since you haven't come back and responded to my post, here is my advice: If this is a new-ish relationship, you might think about ending it. This sort of behavior doesn't end, usually, when you let a yeller continue to yell after you apologize. Yelling at your partner in general is a red flag, but in public to me is a big red flag. It could be nothing, but it could be that you have a yeller and shouter-downer on your hands who yells you into submission and capitulation because it works. I would suggest that you don't need that in your life, having had friends who have dated yellers and seeing what that's like.
At the very least, were I you, I would let her know that yelling isn't an acceptable way to communicate anger and that you won't accept that sort of behavior again.
Then don't, if it happens again.