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So, uh, I caught my maid watching porn on my YouTube account

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Oct 25, 2017
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Seriously just tell her not to use your computer and you can see that she did.

That said the warts thing makes me think she might have some medical issues and honestly I'd just let her research that because that's probably something that should be taken care of.
 
Jul 12, 2018
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I think the thing about this thread that people are glossing over is the OP saw a video about removing genital warts and thought it was a porno.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Op is Rich AF this is what you get for endorsing slavery
Get a robot who won't jerk off on ur food or get pregnant
It's probably ur baby too
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Gonna say it again:

Grow up.

You didn't even need to post this here, you could have acted like an adult, and gone and talked to her about it and dealt with it privately.

Instead you come to a forum full of strangers, complain about it and then complain that people are acting like you're the bad guy.

Bad guy or not, this is quite frankly, a childish response to a situation that could have been resolved without whining about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Leave it to ERA to somehow make me the bad guy in all of this L M A O

You guys do realize I could've just fired her on the spot and not come here and ask for advice?
Why is such a big deal? Just pull her aside and say "hey look I saw some of the stuff you're watching through my history, I'm not gonna say any more but cut that shit out or the next time we're discussing you leaving" and leave it at that. This lady is gonna be embarrassed beyond belief and that's enough punishment. Throwing her entire life into turmoil while she's pregnant, ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU SAID SHE'S A GREAT MAID, is some cartoon villain shit.

Act like you've got some class and empathy and handle the situation with tact and you won't have the problem happen again.
 
Dec 27, 2017
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OP is fine in feeling his trust has been breached. If he wants to fire her that’s completely within his realm also. He shouldn’t have to employ someone he does not trust.

Having said that, OP, consider that she’s pregnant. Have a chat with her and maybe help her get a tablet or something so she can have her own privacy to look that stuff up and tell her to keep that shit out of your devices. There is no doubt that it’s her that’s looking at that stuff, but if she’s been doing a good a job, surely you can overlook this or at least set some boundaries.
 

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Oct 24, 2017
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Hopefully OP is and he is paying his workers what is due (And social benefits); maids in Latin America are common and get terrible payment conditions, if any...
There’s no such thing as “paying what is due” to someone who literally works 24/7 and can’t even watch some soft porn without getting their livelihood threatened.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Atlanta
The sad thing is that ROMA shines a light on the unfortunate conditions Latin American domestic workers endure, but OP seems to have missed the entire point.
 
Oct 17, 2018
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OP’s refusal to buy her a personal tablet/computer is puzzling. She lives in your house and is financially dependent on you. You realize how denying her autonomy is a bad look, right?

For perspective, my family has had maids come in monthly to my house as long as I’ve lived, and my parents have always tried to do right by them, help them get jobs, buy cars, etc. Don’t treat her like a prisoner. Help her improve her lot in life. I come from an upper middle class background and I was always raised to share my fortunate circumstances with others.
 
Mar 18, 2018
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OP is gonna fire her just to spite us all isn't he...

OP is fine in feeling his trust has been breached. If he wants to fire her that’s completely within his realm also. He shouldn’t have to employ someone he does not trust.

Having said that, OP, consider that she’s pregnant. Have a chat with her and maybe help her get a tablet or something so she can have her own privacy to look that stuff up and tell her to keep that shit out of your devices. There is no doubt that it’s her that’s looking at that stuff, but if she’s been doing a good a job, surely you can overlook this or at least set some boundaries.
He should pay her enough to afford a computer or device of her own if that was the case.

OP is mad that his budget slave uses his stuff.
 
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This thread is starting to reach peak era levels, keep it going gang.
It's insane how me having a moral quandry has turned me into the bad guy. This place can really be, and I'm not sorry to say it, a virtue-signalling shit hole. Thanks to everyone who has actually provided useful advice without lording over me on their high fucking horse. Those guys can fuck off.

Gonna say it again:

Grow up.

You didn't even need to post this here, you could have acted like an adult, and gone and talked to her about it and dealt with it privately.

Instead you come to a forum full of strangers, complain about it and then complain that people are acting like you're the bad guy.

Bad guy or not, this is quite frankly, a childish response to a situation that could have been resolved without whining about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
You know what? If I hadn't made this thread I would've just fired her tomorrow. Since I did, I gained new perspective and had something to debate with my mom. Which we already did. And we're not firing her, but I am going to have a serious talk with her tomorrow.

So fuck off with your grow up bullshit, this thread served the purpose which I intended which was TO GET FUCKING ADVICE.

Jesus christ with you assholes.
 
Oct 26, 2017
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Leave it to ERA to somehow make me the bad guy in all of this L M A O

You guys do realize I could've just fired her on the spot and not come here and ask for advice?
"I am blessing all of you with gift of c h a n g i n g m y m i n d"

Get off your fucking high horse guy, we're not the ones dangling a pregnant servants' livelihood because you got mega ickied out that someone in your employ who effectively lives with you made a mistake and cranked one out in your room.

Instead of acting like an adult, confronting her and reiterating personal boundaries within the household, you decided to air the dirty laundry of someone who probably has to spend every day picking up your cum socks.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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It's insane how me having a moral quandry has turned me into the bad guy. This place can really be, and I'm not sorry to say it, a virtue-signalling shit hole. Thanks to everyone who has actually provided useful advice without lording over me on their high fucking horse. Those guys can fuck off.



You know what? If I hadn't made this thread I would've just fired her tomorrow. Since I did, I gained new perspective and had something to debate with my mom. Which we already did. And we're not firing her, but I am going to have a serious talk with her tomorrow.

So fuck off with your grow up bullshit, this thread served the purpose which I intended which was TO GET FUCKING ADVICE.

Jesus christ with you assholes.
Oh yeah, the people here without live-in wage slaves are the assholes.
 
Oct 25, 2017
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That maid will never know a video game message board where people argue about Nintendo and a Star Wars film saved her life.

 
Oct 25, 2017
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1. This sounds like the plot of a porno.
2.How is there porn on YouTube?
They have porn on youtube? I knew that nudity was okay as long as it had educational value but I didn't know they had real porn. Also, weird that she would spend time finding porn on youtube and not go to pornhub or something
It's been a long time since I've uploaded my last video on youtube, but isn't there an option to upload something but not make it public? You'd still end up with the video on the server and a youtube link to share with people. Couldn't you technically upload anything that way and youtube can't do anything about them unless somebody snitches?
 
Nov 2, 2017
3,590
California
Wow, so we have a user on here who actually owns a slave, more or less.

Is anyone with a ton of cash decent, or does getting rich automatically transform you into an asshole that doesn't treat poor people like actual human beings?
 
Oct 25, 2017
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Yes I have a live-in maid, this is Latin America, go watch "Roma" if this is some foreign concept to you.

Anyway, I've been getting some strange ass recommendations on my Youtube account for quite a few weeks, mostly related to telenovelas like "La Rosa de Guadalupe" and shit. Couple of days ago I found my Macbook switched to the "Guest" account and found it incredibly weird and went ahead and disabled it, but I was busy with something else and paid it no further mind. FYI I leave my personal laptop at home when I'm at work, plus my Smart TV is logged into my Youtube account and you don't need to login to that.

So I'm about to watch the newest Jimquisition, and all these fucking telenovela recommendations start popping up again so I decide to check out my watch history to try and pinpoint what the hel FUERTE CINE LATINO PELICULA", "VIRGIN KID PLAYS DIRTY TRUTH OR DARE", "HOW TO GET RID OF VAGINAL WARTS DURING PREGNANCY", among many, many other videos.

My head is spinning. I feel absolutely violated. Has she been jerking off on my bed? On my sofa? Christ. She just brought me my dinner as I'm typing this and I've lost all my appetite.

It's 8.17 PM right now and I can't fire her right now, but I'm prepping to do it in the morning but oh, did I mention SHE'S GODDAMN PREGNANT?! What do I DO?!

EDIT: AND HOW IS THERE FUCKING PORN ON YOUTUBE DOES NO ONE MODERATE THAT SHITHOLE
Thanks

 
Oct 25, 2017
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Atlanta
Since I did, I gained new perspective and had something to debate with my mom. Which we already did. And we're not firing her, but I am going to have a serious talk with her tomorrow.
Please don't be too hard on her. She really didn't do anything serious if you step back and think about it.

She didn't steal or hurt anybody. All she did was use one of your belongings to satisfy a human desire. I'm sure it was very embarrassing and humiliating for her to have to sneak around to do that.
 
Oct 17, 2018
2,081
Wow, so we have a user on here who actually owns a slave, more or less.

Is anyone with a ton of cash decent, or does getting rich automatically transform you into an asshole that doesn't treat poor people like actual human beings?
I live in Orange County. People here are by and large cunts.
 
Oct 28, 2017
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Or...you could just be a decent human being and get her one of those budget laptop. No need to ruin her life by firing her or embarrass her by talking about it, and you sound like someone who can afford to use laptop as wipe.
 
Oct 27, 2017
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It's insane how me having a moral quandry has turned me into the bad guy. This place can really be, and I'm not sorry to say it, a virtue-signalling shit hole. Thanks to everyone who has actually provided useful advice without lording over me on their high fucking horse. Those guys can fuck off.



You know what? If I hadn't made this thread I would've just fired her tomorrow. Since I did, I gained new perspective and had something to debate with my mom. Which we already did. And we're not firing her, but I am going to have a serious talk with her tomorrow.

So fuck off with your grow up bullshit, this thread served the purpose which I intended which was TO GET FUCKING ADVICE.

Jesus christ with you assholes.
This story plays out the same every time. Straight to alt-right.
 
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