If that were the case she'd probably have her own computer.
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So, uh, I caught my maid watching porn on my YouTube account
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you da bad guy here
#LetHerJill
Or give her a reasonable wage to which she can then buy herself a computer if she doesnt already own one. Talk to her for gods sake.
#LetHerJill
Or give her a reasonable wage to which she can then buy herself a computer if she doesnt already own one. Talk to her for gods sake.
is there anything in the search history for this time? like is she searching for 'smelly shoes' and then 'sexy xxx' or what?She was watching a video about how to make shoes not smell right before the porn started, so I think that's a leap.
I'm getting mega huge deja vu over here from the old place and some rich kid who didn't actually have any household power...
honestly, i'm getting the impression that OP has just been looking for a reason to fire this woman since she became pregnant, and this was the first opportunity that presented itself
I think the thing about this thread that people are glossing over is the OP saw a video about removing genital warts and thought it was a porno.
She probably doesn't have a computer either. And she might be searching for info about a medical condition. But feel superior op.
Gonna say it again:
Grow up.
You didn't even need to post this here, you could have acted like an adult, and gone and talked to her about it and dealt with it privately.
Instead you come to a forum full of strangers, complain about it and then complain that people are acting like you're the bad guy.
Bad guy or not, this is quite frankly, a childish response to a situation that could have been resolved without whining about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
Grow up.
You didn't even need to post this here, you could have acted like an adult, and gone and talked to her about it and dealt with it privately.
Instead you come to a forum full of strangers, complain about it and then complain that people are acting like you're the bad guy.
Bad guy or not, this is quite frankly, a childish response to a situation that could have been resolved without whining about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
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Why is such a big deal? Just pull her aside and say "hey look I saw some of the stuff you're watching through my history, I'm not gonna say any more but cut that shit out or the next time we're discussing you leaving" and leave it at that. This lady is gonna be embarrassed beyond belief and that's enough punishment. Throwing her entire life into turmoil while she's pregnant, ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU SAID SHE'S A GREAT MAID, is some cartoon villain shit.
Act like you've got some class and empathy and handle the situation with tact and you won't have the problem happen again.
i feel like i have about as much to support it as OP has to support his suspicions that his maid was getting off in his room
It's your call OP. I don't think you would be unreasonable for firing someone for the reason described. Myself personally, I would maybe start with a conversation and go from there.
OP is fine in feeling his trust has been breached. If he wants to fire her that's completely within his realm also. He shouldn't have to employ someone he does not trust.
Having said that, OP, consider that she's pregnant. Have a chat with her and maybe help her get a tablet or something so she can have her own privacy to look that stuff up and tell her to keep that shit out of your devices. There is no doubt that it's her that's looking at that stuff, but if she's been doing a good a job, surely you can overlook this or at least set some boundaries.
Having said that, OP, consider that she's pregnant. Have a chat with her and maybe help her get a tablet or something so she can have her own privacy to look that stuff up and tell her to keep that shit out of your devices. There is no doubt that it's her that's looking at that stuff, but if she's been doing a good a job, surely you can overlook this or at least set some boundaries.
There's no such thing as "paying what is due" to someone who literally works 24/7 and can't even watch some soft porn without getting their livelihood threatened.
OP's refusal to buy her a personal tablet/computer is puzzling. She lives in your house and is financially dependent on you. You realize how denying her autonomy is a bad look, right?
For perspective, my family has had maids come in monthly to my house as long as I've lived, and my parents have always tried to do right by them, help them get jobs, buy cars, etc. Don't treat her like a prisoner. Help her improve her lot in life. I come from an upper middle class background and I was always raised to share my fortunate circumstances with others.
For perspective, my family has had maids come in monthly to my house as long as I've lived, and my parents have always tried to do right by them, help them get jobs, buy cars, etc. Don't treat her like a prisoner. Help her improve her lot in life. I come from an upper middle class background and I was always raised to share my fortunate circumstances with others.
OP is gonna fire her just to spite us all isn't he...
He should pay her enough to afford a computer or device of her own if that was the case.
OP is mad that his budget slave uses his stuff.
He should pay her enough to afford a computer or device of her own if that was the case.
OP is mad that his budget slave uses his stuff.
Decision made
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It's insane how me having a moral quandry has turned me into the bad guy. This place can really be, and I'm not sorry to say it, a virtue-signalling shit hole. Thanks to everyone who has actually provided useful advice without lording over me on their high fucking horse. Those guys can fuck off.
You know what? If I hadn't made this thread I would've just fired her tomorrow. Since I did, I gained new perspective and had something to debate with my mom. Which we already did. And we're not firing her, but I am going to have a serious talk with her tomorrow.
So fuck off with your grow up bullshit, this thread served the purpose which I intended which was TO GET FUCKING ADVICE.
Jesus christ with you assholes.
ERA just killed OP's grandma that the maid takes care off, the maid and her unborn child.
"I am blessing all of you with gift of c h a n g i n g m y m i n d"
Get off your fucking high horse guy, we're not the ones dangling a pregnant servants' livelihood because you got mega ickied out that someone in your employ who effectively lives with you made a mistake and cranked one out in your room.
Instead of acting like an adult, confronting her and reiterating personal boundaries within the household, you decided to air the dirty laundry of someone who probably has to spend every day picking up your cum socks.
Oh yeah, the people here without live-in wage slaves are the assholes.
It's been a long time since I've uploaded my last video on youtube, but isn't there an option to upload something but not make it public? You'd still end up with the video on the server and a youtube link to share with people. Couldn't you technically upload anything that way and youtube can't do anything about them unless somebody snitches?
Wow, so we have a user on here who actually owns a slave, more or less.
Is anyone with a ton of cash decent, or does getting rich automatically transform you into an asshole that doesn't treat poor people like actual human beings?
Is anyone with a ton of cash decent, or does getting rich automatically transform you into an asshole that doesn't treat poor people like actual human beings?
Wait, I'm with this guy.
Make her hold a newspaper with tomorrow's date and your computer with the view history in the background.
Please don't be too hard on her. She really didn't do anything serious if you step back and think about it.
She didn't steal or hurt anybody. All she did was use one of your belongings to satisfy a human desire. I'm sure it was very embarrassing and humiliating for her to have to sneak around to do that.
I live in Orange County. People here are by and large cunts.
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