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Something "weird" happened during sex or am I the weirdo?
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First we have a thread were a person is upset that a person is nice to them by opening a door now we have a thread where the OP is seemingly being weird/upset because the girl might be into him.
ResetEra: "Why cant you fuckers just be normal"
EDIT: Also, yeah, to echo what others said... just talk to her
ResetEra: "Why cant you fuckers just be normal"
EDIT: Also, yeah, to echo what others said... just talk to her
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I love that having sex is considered bragging on forums like these.
Keep those stereotypes going!
Keep those stereotypes going!
bringing this up seems like an excellent way to establish that you're already overthinking an arrangement that's intended to be simple, so yeah you're being weird. even if she did give you "a look," who cares? people do that in the moment sometimes, it's part of what makes sex fun and doesn't necessarily mean something deep. it sounds to me like you're projecting your own fears of emotional intimacy onto her, making them her responsibility to tiptoe around. tbh doesn't make me feel like this kind of arrangement is really for you.
Maybe we have underlying issues of some kind?
These statements are disgusting.
Sounds like she may be developing feelings for you, which after repeated intercourse it isn't something odd at all (regardless of the terms that were set in place) but yeah, you're weird.
Bruh just talk to her...lmao
It seems to me you're more scared of her not actually being emotionally into you and breaking it off(i.e. no more sex) since you asked the question than her just being into you.
It seems to me you're more scared of her not actually being emotionally into you and breaking it off(i.e. no more sex) since you asked the question than her just being into you.
OP makes a girl catch feels with the power of his dick
Girl expresses feels through some hot af intimate contact
Magic dick loses the power of greyskull
I want to watch the rest of this movie
Girl expresses feels through some hot af intimate contact
Magic dick loses the power of greyskull
I want to watch the rest of this movie
First, you should talk to her about these things. She may be getting closer to you, or it might just be something she likes to do. The only way to find out is to ask. This is a conversation you should have had either after the fact or the day after, but you can still ask now.
Second, eye contact can be a bit intense. It may have been too intimate a moment for you, which would explain your feelings of discomfort. Again, this is for you to sort out with her. If you're not comfortable with that level of intimacy then you should let her know.
Third, part of your discomfort may have been feeling like the relationship may be growing into something more emotional or intimate than what you're comfortable with. Maybe you're not into her in that way, or maybe you feel the relationship is moving along too fast, or maybe you're just not ready for a relationship right now. All of those things are valid feelings, but it's up to you to look inside yourself and sort things out.
Second, eye contact can be a bit intense. It may have been too intimate a moment for you, which would explain your feelings of discomfort. Again, this is for you to sort out with her. If you're not comfortable with that level of intimacy then you should let her know.
Third, part of your discomfort may have been feeling like the relationship may be growing into something more emotional or intimate than what you're comfortable with. Maybe you're not into her in that way, or maybe you feel the relationship is moving along too fast, or maybe you're just not ready for a relationship right now. All of those things are valid feelings, but it's up to you to look inside yourself and sort things out.
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"she choose to stay the night as if it was the most normal thing which kinda annoyed me."
Definitely feel you there OP
Definitely feel you there OP
This is one of those threads in which it should one post saying "why can't you fuckers just be normal."
And then it should be locked.
My god.
And then it should be locked.
My god.
If anything my boner would be more solid.
OP is definitely weird.
Wait lmao what? How would anyone be upset about that first one.
People being overly harsh in this thread but I think you've got intimacy issues OP. Do you also suffer from anxiety? Do you have things from your past that make you afraid of getting to close to someone? If you can't get over your head racing on about this, I suggest therapy. Try to talk to her; if you can't do it, at least try to take some time off and get yourself together before hanging out with her again.
Someone you have been fucking on the down low for a few months is starting to become more than physically attracted to you and perhaps wants an actual relationship and the first thing that comes to mind is this is weird, I should post it on Era and see if anyone agrees. Fucking weekend era is going to weird places these days.
It wasn't just eye contact. She also seemed GENUINELY HAPPY. Shivers down me spine.
The takes in this thread are dogshit. You have a natural concern and everyone here races to make you the weirdo. When you post on Era, don't ask the question about yourself. There'll always be an excuse to villify you. Just tell the story then ask for advice instead. God forbid you ask for some people's advice before opening a dialogue on it with her.
They were irritated because the guy holding the door got a bit aggro and made a snide comment when they didn't say, "Thanks."
