I'm going to use this quote as a launchpad for something I've been thinking about a while...
So my thing is, I've played 3 Fire Emblem games, Awakening, Path Of Radiance, and Sacred Stones. I didn't finish any of them, I got the furthers in SS. They're fine games, but not my cup of tea for reasons I won't get into.
But it is hard to not feel a little spiteful when Nintendo keeps using Smash as a venue to advertise these games, through paid DLC. Corrin was a tipping point for me last game where I half-jokingly said I would never play another Fire Emblem game. And now they're adding Fire Emblem characters before the game even goes gold. If you don't like Fire Emblem, you are inundated with this series that has done well on retail releases post-Awakening, has a strong mobile presence, is a growing series, but has not really entered the pantheon of gaming. There is no science or magic formula to why Smash series get a proportional amount of representation. But it becomes difficult to just roll over and accept it after a certain point. Nintendo is a business, and Sakurai clearly has a love for Fire Emblem, but these tail-end DLC Fire Emblem characters consistently feel poorly timed and deflate the hype cycle. I really doubt this was the reaction Nintendo was hoping for. If Blyeth was added in a season 2, after Three Houses came out and was genuinely well-received, I wouldn't feel this strongly about it.
Blyeth was probably the one character they could have added that would legitimately disappoint me because the circumstances of their addition - being added before their game even came out and being the only Nintendo character in a Pass full of third party characters - strikes me as very cynical. It's also difficult to voice this opinion without being generalized as a whiny, entitled child who hates Fire Emblem and is throwing a tantrum because it wasn't the character they wanted. I wanted to be open minded about whoever this character was. I didn't particularly care who they added after Banjo. But I feel on some level it's important to remember that this is a product they're selling us, and not every person vocally upset with this is harassing Sakurai on Twitter over it.
There is a weird tendency in fandom, but especially in Smash fandom, to distance ourselves from the "toxic" and "bad" fandoms to a performative extreme. If we aren't constantly condemning the toxic fans and constantly saying how the loudest fans are harassing people, somehow we are condoning it. We like to point and make fun of the fans who are disappointed they didn't get the character they wanted, or are upset at the character that did get in. I am just as guilty of this as anyone. But I feel like longterm, this isn't a healthy model for discourse. It turns discussion tribalistic by nature. I think we're too caught up worrying about the bad and toxic fans. That isn't to say we shouldn't call out toxic behavior when we see it. Some people in this thread, and others, definitely acted out of line, regardless of their opinion on Blyeth. But when I see comments like "the Smash fandom deserves this," "Sakurai should ignore the fans," it's hard to not feel a little bit like we are much more interested in gatekeeping the discourse and preserving the status quo of a parasocial relationship to a game director and the product he's selling us above all else. Nobody here should be okay with Sakurai being harassed on Twitter or fans being at each others' throats over a video game character. That should be a very obvious stance that doesn't need to be re-established.
While constant negativity isn't healthy either, I think it's okay to let people feel a little raw and disappointed and shitpost in the first couple of days. People will get over it. They always do. People were in full sky-is-falling mode after Kencineroar + Plant, but Joker's announcement brought back the hype for many. If people can be jumping for joy when long-awaited characters like Banjo & Kazooie are added, flooding the forum with screams of joy, I think it's okay to allow the opposite to happen. I trust most posters here to, eventually, lick their wounds and self-moderate. I personally have no interest in publicly wallowing in my own disappointment - most of it I didn't share publicly.
To answer your question, I gave Fire Emblem a try three times and it didn't click. While I have reason to believe Three Houses might be different, it's hard to not just be a little bitter at a series that Nintendo and Sakurai (either or) constantly wants to advertise to us through paid DLC when other Nintendo series don't get this special treatment. Perhaps that is unreasonable to an extent, but I wonder how much this advertisement is actually working. To be sure, it won't hurt DLC sales. Most people who wanted to buy the Fighters Pass already did. And to see such open hostility towards this character, via social media statistics, it's hard to not feel like this is backfiring to some extent. It definitely isn't engendering me to the series at all, albeit through no fault of its own. I would be interested in surveys and statistic seeing how effective these marketing strategies are. But as I said earlier, I suspect this isn't the reaction Nintendo was hoping for. Either that, or they knew this would happen and put Blyeth at the end on purpose, which is again, very cynical. So if Blyeth didn't turn me off of Three Houses, it didn't help either.
None of it really matters in the long run. This is a mascot fighting game on an electronic toy. But I think some of the back-and-forth on this subject could be understood better if we try to not weaponize our disappointment, whether that is our disappointment in a video game or disappointment at how others are acting.
As a final note, I dislike the "if you don't like it, don't buy it" argument. Many people like to have a full roster for competitive's sake (multiplayer, tournaments, etc.), or also for other reasons, like stages, music, and Spirit Boards. I feel there is a need to talk down to people who are disappointed, dismissing grievances in a way that only fuels the hostility. We're here to have fun, right?
I'm probably going to take a break from this thread, but I wanted to leave you all with this, and I hope that we will calm down as the next character approaches, whether that's one month away or six.